Confessions of a Recovering Micromanaging Perfectionist Martyr

As the world slows down, I’m realizing that this time with my family may be an opportunity for healing rather than fear. In this episode, I reflect on how the forced pause has revealed a chance to heal myself, my relationships, and my family dynamics. What I once thought was impossible—everything just stopping—has become reality, and I’m ready to embrace whatever lessons emerge. Join me in listening closely to what the universe may be calling us to do.

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As the school closure looms, I’m preparing to tackle homeschooling in my own way—teaching my kids real-life lessons like tipping etiquette, checkbook balancing, and “History of Me” class. But beyond the logistics of running “home school,” my biggest challenge will be the distance from friends and loved ones facing tough battles, from illness to anxiety. Join me as I share why, while I may not be in touch, my heart is with them, and my focus remains where it needs to be: on my family.

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In this special episode, I’m reflecting on a season spent with the GHS Girls Hockey Team, whose friendships—both on and off the ice—reminded me how none of us face life’s highs or lows alone. Join me for a heartfelt look at the strength in community, shared support, and the moments that bring us together, no matter what life throws our way. 🏒✨

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How do you know if you're following God's will or your own? In this episode, I reflect on the difference between forcing a plan and allowing life to unfold. While hard work and patience are often part of the journey, I’ve learned that God’s path never demands force. Join me as I explore how surrendering control can bring less struggle and more peace, even when life’s timing doesn’t match my own.

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Ever feel like your "serenity engine" needs a tune-up? In this episode, I share how quickly my healthy habits slip when life gets grim and how easy it is to go from meditating at night to bingeing true-crime podcasts. With New England’s grey days creeping in, I’m refocusing on routine maintenance—bringing back the meditation, exercise, and nutrition that fuel my sanity. Join me as I work to get my mindset back on track and keep that serenity engine humming.

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We love those movie moments when the hero conquers the villain, but real life doesn’t always work that way. In this episode, I reflect on my trip to Memphis and how it reminded me of the millions who never had the freedom to fight back. I explore how, in my own life, finding freedom isn’t about conquering anyone—it’s about summoning the courage to free myself from the hold that fear and difficult relationships have over me. Join me as I consider what it means to stand strong without needing to overthrow anyone.

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This Valentine’s season, I’m reflecting on the challenge of loving people, especially when it feels hard. Often, my frustration in relationships comes from wanting to “fix” things for those I care about, but I’m beginning to realize that true love is about letting go—not walking away, but trusting God’s plan and allowing others to make their own choices. Join me as I explore why loving people is easier when we stop complicating it and just let them be.

Planning is hard, but it makes life easy.
Not planning is easy, but it makes life hard.

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Ever met a “Supreme Court Justice” in a twelve-year-old’s body? In today’s episode, we’re celebrating our daughter’s fierce sense of justice and compassion. From schooling us on fairness to navigating sibling rivalries with wisdom beyond her years, she’s an everyday reminder of kindness, equality, and a little dose of retribution where it’s due. Join us for a heartfelt and humorous look at life with a true justice-seeker in the family. 💖✨

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I’d like to think I have a solid handle on embracing life’s little curveballs—until a family member makes me late! In this episode, I dive into the struggle of showing compassion over exasperation when those closest to me mess up. Inspired by my desire to live with faith and acceptance, I’m working on seeing these family “inconveniences” as opportunities for grace rather than frustration. Join me as I explore how to offer compassion through others’ mistakes and bring a little more love into family life.

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Ever notice how it feels easier to give to someone who doesn’t always want more from you? In this episode, I explore the impact of feeling “never enough” and how it shapes our connections. When we don’t accept what others offer or constantly expect more, we may unintentionally push people away. Join me as I reflect on how to create a sense of ease in relationships—by giving and receiving with appreciation and balance.

If you need a little more reading this week, check out the follow-up from last week's post down below. You'll never guess what G-Man did... Marital Dispute - You Don't Have to Understand Me to Honor Me

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