Confessions of a Recovering Micromanaging Perfectionist Martyr

Lately, I’ve caught myself stressing about not having “enough”—whether it’s food, time, or hand sanitizer. But this scarcity mindset reminded me of my secret pact with my closet: when I need something, the right shoes always seem to be there. This simple faith in “enough” is something I want to apply to all areas of life right now. In this episode, I reflect on how trusting in abundance can quiet the panic and lead to a sense of peace. Join me as I explore how faith in the Universe can provide a sense of “enough.”

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This weekend, as I celebrate both my birthday and the blog’s third anniversary, I’m reflecting on my relationship with Ambition. Over the years, I thought ambition only drove my professional goals, but I now see she’s been with me in every area of life—pushing me to pursue self-growth, seek happiness, and become the best version of myself. In this episode, I share how ambition shows up not only in my work but in how I care for myself and my family. Join me as I redefine ambition’s role in my life.

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With the pandemic shifting our daily routines, I’ve noticed that even small changes—like moving less or snacking more—are impacting how I feel in my body. This week, I reflect on how little adjustments in diet and activity add up and how those changes affect both my mood and sense of well-being. Join me as I explore what it takes to regain balance and feel good again, from mindful eating to daily movement.

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Sometimes, the best support comes from those closest to us. In this episode, I share how a video call with my sisters-in-law turned into “Sister-Church,” a Sunday ritual that’s quickly become essential. These connections offer a safe space for honest sharing, guidance, and laughter—a foundation of love and trust that benefits not only us but our entire family. Join me as I reflect on the power of sisterhood and why I’m grateful for these remarkable women.

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Life during COVID-19 can feel as frustrating as parenting a toddler. In this episode, I reflect on how toddlers handle the world—and how their simplicity might be the perfect approach right now. From taking pride in little achievements to feeling emotions fully, these small steps could be the key to redefining “thriving” during corona. Join me as I embrace a toddler-inspired reset, finding humor and grace in getting back to basics.

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Adapting on the fly has become our new normal during COVID-19, especially with our family’s “Social Distance Academy.” Inspired by the true meaning of Darwin’s survival of the “most adaptable,” I’m learning that making changes based on what’s best for everyone isn’t just about survival—it’s about growth. Join me as I share how adapting (over and over!) is helping our family thrive, even when patience is running thin.

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Living under the same roof 24/7 during COVID-19 has brought new family challenges, and sometimes, backing off is the best way to show love. In this episode, I share what I’ve learned about “weathering the storm” of family frustration: I can’t control lightning, and I don’t have to stay in a storm. Join me as I reflect on how stepping back and warning others when I’m about to blow helps keep the peace at home.

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We’re all having a laugh over staying in pajamas during social distancing, but I’ve noticed that my productivity depends on how put-together I feel. In this episode, I share how getting dressed—even just for myself—boosts my mood, productivity, and how I treat others. Join me as I talk about why my “corona-self-care” routine has become part of my family-care routine too, and how small steps like these help keep us all grounded in challenging times.

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As our family navigates the realities of COVID-19, we’re asking ourselves the same questions we do after visiting history museums: Who do we want to be in this moment? This episode is a reflection on using this unprecedented time to become the people we admire from the past. I’ll also share an update on our “Social Distance Academy”—the routines, lessons, and ways we’re staying connected as we tackle this together. Join us for a look at how we’re structuring our days to support resilience, connection, and growth.

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After years of knowing what I need to feel joy and peace, I’m finally learning to honor those needs without guilt or resentment. In this episode, I reflect on how my “martyr cloak” kept me from asking for support—and how setting boundaries helps me show up better for myself and my family. Join me as I explore what it takes to ditch the martyr act and declare, unapologetically, “I got this.”

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