Confessions of a Recovering Micromanaging Perfectionist Martyr

Ever wonder if we’re swinging too far the other way when it comes to parenting? 😬 Let’s talk about choices, feelings, and aunts who smells like mothballs—in a completely loving way. ❤️ A little discomfort can go a long way. Come hang with us for a fresh take on raising brave humans.

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Explanations vs. Excuses

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Can good manners really give kids a leg up in life? In a world where “please” and “thank you” are becoming rare, we’re diving into how teaching respect and gratitude can open doors for your kids. From little phrases to big life lessons, it turns out that manners matter more than we might think. Curious how? Tune in and see if you agree.

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Ever feel buried under your kids’ to-do lists? Let’s chat about a little parenting shift that could lighten your load and help your kids grow up a bit faster. In this episode, we explore how letting go of certain responsibilities can make parenting feel a lot easier. Curious about the balance between helping and hovering? Tune in and see if this approach could work for you!

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Do you find yourself always reaching out but rarely hearing back? Let’s talk about one-way relationships and how to find balance without bitterness. In this episode, we’re diving into the tricky art of letting go (without the guilt) and focusing on the connections that truly matter. Ready to feel lighter? Tune in and see if you relate.

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Ever felt the urge to fire off a text in the heat of the moment? Yeah, me too. Before you hit send (or reply), let’s chat about three simple questions that can save you from potential regret—and maybe even preserve your sanity. Whether it’s emotional texts from loved ones or a knee-jerk reaction of your own, this episode is all about pressing pause before texting. Curious? Tune in and see if you relate.

Some links from this episode:
Expectations - Am I Setting People Up for Failure
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Other episodes on pausing:
The Pause - This One Thing Has Changed My Entire Life
6 Ways To Avoid Stress - Dodging Stress That I Personally Manufacture

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What if you didn’t need chaos to justify a pause? In this episode, Christine Toner and Lisa Roche from The Lens of Beauty share a perspective shift that invites more ease, stillness, and beauty into your life. From home spaces to headspaces, they explore how to embrace flow over force and why "making it work" might not be the answer. If you’re craving more calm in 2025, this conversation is for you 🧘‍♂️

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If this episode resonated with you, please check out these Confessions posts too:
Slow is the New Fast - Learning How to Heed My Speed
Slow is the New Fast - Shifting My Perspective on Speed

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Winter slows me down—and I’m okay with that… mostly. But there’s a fine line between restful and restless, and I’ve found a sneaky little way to keep from feeling like a total slug. In this episode, we’re talking about embracing the season’s slower pace without letting it turn into a guilt trip. Plus, a little multitasking magic to make downtime feel just productive enough. Grab a blanket, hit play, and let’s chat.

If you need more listening on the topic of restoration…
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I’m Not Sorry - Honoring My Downtime
When I Swear At My Kids - It’s Time for MRT
ReaLISTic - Are My Lists At This Time of Year Realistic?

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Ever feel like you're stretched too thin? Same. This fall had me questioning my relationship with martyrdom and learning to prioritize my VIPs. In this episode, we’re talking about balancing the people on our "plane of life" without guilt, stress, or overextending ourselves. If you’ve ever struggled with saying “no” or felt torn in too many directions, this one’s for you. Let’s chat about protecting our energy while still keeping our connections strong.

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Ever notice how some things feel huge in the moment but really aren’t? Same. Over time, I’ve learned that if everything is heavy, nothing is heavy. In this episode, we’re talking about how to lighten up, address issues without the drama, and save our energy for what really matters. Plus, a little humor never hurts, right? Let’s figure out how to keep the small stuff small and the important stuff heard.

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Ever thrown a perfect pass only to watch it drop? Maybe you're passing to a running back, not a wide receiver. In this episode, we dive into expectations—how they shape our relationships and sometimes set us (and others) up for failure. With Super Bowl Sunday around the corner, let’s take a lesson from football and rethink how we build our teams. Tune in for a fun, eye-opening play-by-play on making the most of the people in your life.

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