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  • Uneasy about Marketing? How to Fall in Love with It! (Ep158)

    I want to talk to you today about…marketing. That dreaded part of consulting or coaching business ownership that so many of us want to avoid.

    Not only does it make us feel ick – like we’re begging for an audience, but also super-vulnerable, especially because as consultants and coaches, we’re the product, we’re the service, we’re the brand. There’s nowhere to hide.

    I don’t know about you, but this is exactly how I felt when it was time for me to get serious about building a business and brand of my own after getting by with referrals and networking. The idea of creating articles and blog posts that might not be read or making videos for the first time, when I’m not by nature an “on camera” type, made me want to hide.

    But I had a wise mentor at the time who pushed me on this, and at first, I balked. And then I started to experience the results – clients finding me all around the world, all because of the content I was putting out there. If you want to replace the chase for clients and start not just attracting clients in general but the ones meant for you – this week’s Consulting Matters podcast is for you.

    In today’s show, I’m going to do my best to convince you to fall in love with marketing and make it an integral part of your consulting or coaching service to your clients.

    I talk about:

    • The real truth about marketing that most consultants and coaches don’t fully get
    • Why being an “expert” can become a mindset trap that stands in the way of the predictable client pipeline you want
    • 5 Actions that you can put into place right now that will make you love marketing (or at least be on your way to loving marketing)  
    • If attracting more right-fit clients is one of your goals, this episode will give you the mindset to make it happen…with predictability and confidence.

      Where to dive in:

      00:00 Why Marketing Feels So Hard
      01:30 When Marketing Actually Works
      03:30 The Truth About Marketing
      07:14 What Marketing Really Is
      12:20 The Expert Trap That Blocks Clients
      16:33 How Clients Decide to Work With You
      18:54 5 Ways to Start Loving Marketing
      28:19 Key Takeaways + Next Steps

      Next steps:
      1. Review the reflection exercises and identify one key mindset shift you want to make around marketing
        1. Pinpoint what you believe now and what you want to believe
        2. Identify at least 7 reasons that it’s worth it for you to make that shift
        3. With the five Actions you want to master – identify where you can use some outside support. If it’s messaging, you can grab my free guide on my website along with some other freebies at https://www.betsyjordyn.com/downloads 
        4. If this episode is revealing that you want to build a stronger business and brand foundation underneath your expertise so that you can actually move forward with more effective marketing with greater confidence, let’s chat. Got to my website and book a free discovery meeting and let’s craft your custom solution.
        5. Also tune into some recent podcasts with my clients to get inspired about the power of building your brand foundation with clear and compelling messaging. I’ll add the links in the show notes.
        6. Other episodes you may enjoy:

          • The C.U.R.E. for Fear & Self-Doubt (Ep157)
          • Intentional Success: How Leslie Faircloth Took Control of Her Business & Brand (Ep156)
          • Shift Your Consulting & Coaching from Services to Transformations with Joseph Pine (Ep154)
          •  How to Start Your Consulting Business Right…the First Time with Sara Guttman (Ep153)
          •  Why Brand Clarity Is About Trust with Dr. J.B. Adams (Ep152)
          • About the host: Betsy Jordyn is a business mentor, brand messaging strategist, and former Disney consultant who helps purpose-driven consultants and coaches build profitable businesses rooted in their unique strengths. With over 20 years in the industry and a knack for turning big ideas into clear positioning, she's your go-to for strategy that aligns with your calling. Work with me: https://www.betsyjordyn.com/services 

             

             

            32 min
          • The C.U.R.E. for Fear & Self-Doubt (Ep157)

            Got big visions for your consulting or coaching business? 

            Chances are you also have big fear and self-doubt. Great news! 

            I’m going to explain why fear is both an expected, and welcome companion on your journey to growing your own thriving consulting or coaching business and give you the cure for dealing with it on today's Consulting Matters podcast.  

            Because just when you think you got a handle on it, when you finally gathered the courage to leave your 9-5 and go out on your own, it shows up AGAIN when you decide to invest in a more professional brand, shift to a new client, land more strategic and transformational engagements and step into greater thought leadership.

            At every pivot point, there's fear and self-doubt.

            Not only do you stress out with anxiety about finding clients – especially in uncertain times like today – but also second-guess yourself and feel like a fraud.

            Can you relate? If so, pay close attention to this episode where I share with you:

            • What fear is and why it’s an expected and even welcome companion on your consulting or coaching business growth journey
            • Legit reasons why fear and self-doubt are an even bigger deal for consultants and coaches
            • I’ll also be sharing with you a proven cure for fear and self-doubt. 
            • In previous episodes on the show, I addressed the CURE for imposter syndrome in episode 4 and burnout in episode 60. In this episode, I’ll share my updated thinking on the framework.

              Let’s dive in!

              Where to dive in:

              00:00 Big Vision, Big Fear
              01:10 Why Fear Keeps Coming Back
              02:37 C – Characterize Fear
              12:02 U – Understand Resistance
              16:37 R – Respond with Compassion
              25:00 E – Expand Your Vision
              26:50 C.U.R.E. Recap
              29:30 Action Steps

              Next steps:
              1. Rate yourself on a scale of 1-5 - (where 5 is “all in” and 1 is “I have a plan B and C” – how committed are you to your own business vision. If you’re anything less than a 4.5 or a 5, what fears are holding you back?
              2. Decide what actions you need to take to convince your fears that you get them and the needs they are alerting you to, and you got them and will not let those needs to go unmet as you pursue the achievement of your business vision? 
              3. If you need help expanding the vision you have for your consulting or coaching business – with greater clarity and confidence in what you do and how to package it up into offers that gets the right clients to say “yes, yes 1000x yes” to working with you, let’s chat. This truly is the BEST way to turn those fears into allies on your journey to greater consulting or coaching success and impact. 
              4. Go to www.betsyjordyn.com to learn more about my VIP Brand positioning and messaging programs. Better yet – hit the big button at the top of my website and book a free call with me. 

                Other episodes you may enjoy:

                • Shift Your Consulting & Coaching from Services to Transformations with Joseph Pine (Ep154)
                •  How to Start Your Consulting Business Right…the First Time with Sara Guttman (Ep153)
                •  Why Brand Clarity Is About Trust with Dr. J.B. Adams (Ep152)
                •  3 Types of Consulting /Coaching Expertise: Which one is yours? (Ep147)
                •  5 Truths About Branding, I Only Saw After Tearing My Process Apart (Ep146)
                •  Inside My Brand Messaging Process (and Why It Always Works) (Ep140)
                • About the host: Betsy Jordyn is a business mentor, brand messaging strategist, and former Disney consultant who helps purpose-driven consultants and coaches build profitable businesses rooted in their unique strengths. With over 20 years in the industry and a knack for turning big ideas into clear positioning, she's your go-to for strategy that aligns with your calling. Work with me: https://www.betsyjordyn.com/services 

                  31 min
                • Intentional Success: How Leslie Faircloth Took Control of Her Business & Brand (Ep156)

                  Want to know the difference between leaving your consulting or coaching success up to chance or creating with strategic intention?

                  Today on the Consulting Matters podcast, we’re getting into the differences between getting clients and building a business and standout brand with my guest and client, Leslie Faircloth.

                  For a lot of us, we get into consulting or coaching after leaving our jobs because we have a generous network who as soon as they hear of our availability, they are introducing us to people who could use our expertise (or maybe hire us themselves)

                  And then at some point we realize, while this is great for now, we know that this isn’t enough to create the sustainable success we need to go all in our consulting or coaching business. 

                  That’s exactly what happened with my client Leslie, who instantly after leaving her job as a director of small business programs with the navy was getting people wanting to work with her.

                  She got professional photos taken, and put up a website. It seems like it should be enough, right? 

                  For her, it wasn’t.

                  What was missing? The strategic intention and brand foundation underneath her expertise. 

                  If you’re an aspiring, new or even seasoned consultant or coach looking for the strategic path, a thriving business, clients and impact, this is the episode for you. 

                  In this episode, you’ll hear:

                  1. Why “people already want to work with me” isn’t enough to build a sustainable business
                  2. What happens after the initial wave of referrals and interest starts to level off 
                  3. The shift from being in demand… to building a business that consistently creates it 
                  4. As you listen, notice the shift Leslie made in how she thinks, speaks, and shows up. Then go take a look at her website: https://lesliefairclothconsulting.com/

                    It’s a clear example of what happens when your brand and positioning finally match the level of work you’re here to do.

                    Where to dive in:

                    00:00 The Difference Between Getting Clients and Building a Business
                    02:05 Leslie’s Transition from Government Career to Consulting
                    07:30 Discovering a Passion for Supporting Small Business Underdogs
                    12:40 The Decision to Leave Stability and Start a Business
                    16:30 Early Success Through Referrals and Network
                    20:30 When “People Want to Work With You” Isn’t Enough
                    23:45 The Missing Piece: Strategy and Brand Foundation
                    28:00 Clarifying Your Ideal Client, Message, and Value
                    33:10 From Service Provider to Strategic Partner
                    36:20 Building a Brand That Reflects Your True Value
                    40:30 Confidence, Visibility, and Showing Up Differently
                    44:30 Lessons for Consultants Ready to Build with Intention

                    Next Steps:
                    1. See what this shift actually looks like: https://lesliefairclothconsulting.com/ 
                      Take a few minutes to explore Leslie’s website and see how her brand, messaging, and positioning now reflect the level of work she’s truly here to do. This is what it looks like when everything clicks.
                    2. Ready to create this kind of clarity in your own business?
                      Book a discovery call with me and let’s explore how to build the strategy, messaging, and positioning that supports consistent clients, stronger offers, and a business that actually feels sustainable.
                    3. Not ready to work together yet, but know your message needs work?
                      Start here with my free guide: From Confused to Confident 👉 https://www.betsyjordyn.com/confused-to-confident 
                    4. About my guest: Leslie Faircloth is a Defense Small Business Growth Strategist and Advisor who helps ambitious, diverse small business owners create and execute the strategies they need to win defense contracts and become a competitive, mission-critical force in the market. Drawing on nearly three decades inside the defense acquisition workforce as a contracting professional and small business director, Leslie has helped hundreds of businesses navigate the complex intersection of compliance and opportunity to achieve contract wins and sustained growth. Her work is deeply personal—having built her own career as a young civilian woman in a military-heavy industry where she was often underestimated, she is passionate about helping others break through those same barriers. Through customized strategy, real-time expert guidance, and practical training, Leslie equips her clients to stop spinning their wheels and start winning.

                      About the host: Betsy Jordyn is a business mentor, brand messaging strategist, and former Disney consultant who helps purpose-driven consultants and coaches build profitable businesses rooted in their unique strengths. With over 20 years in the industry and a knack for turning big ideas into clear positioning, she's your go-to for strategy that aligns with your calling. Work with me: https://www.betsyjordyn.com/services 

                      56 min
                    5. The Transformational Power of Mentors with Yogi Mueller (Ep155)

                      What if the most powerful thing you could do for your clients isn't to consult or coach them… but to mentor them?

                      We are the ones who guide our clients to achieve their aspirations and become who they are striving to become!

                      We come alongside clients who are in the middle of their heroic journey.

                      So if the client is the hero, then who are we?

                      We are the mentors. We are the guides.

                      We are the Obi-Wans to their Luke Skywalker.

                      Ever since I left Disney to start my own consulting business over 15 years ago, I have been obsessed with the heroic journey.

                      The heroic journey is a framework of transformation that mythologist Joseph Campbell captured…. There's an individual living a normal life who encounters something unexpected that calls them to adventure. They hesitate, and then they meet a wise old man or woman as a mentor.

                      It appealed to me at first because of how it captured what was really behind me leaving my high-profile job at Disney for my own business, which wasn't just a career transition but a total life transformation. My own heroic journey.

                      But then there's another angle that really speaks to me, especially as I pivoted from consulting to the business mentoring I do now, and that's the role of the mentor who shows up at critical moments with a mix of vision for what is possible for the hero or heroine and tough love to step into it. This role is what I see as the true purpose of transformational consultants and coaches… mentor to heroes and heroines on their journey of transformation.

                      We are the Rafiki to Simba.

                      We are the Obi-Wan to Luke.

                      And when I heard people at a local OD networking meeting talking about Yogi Mueller and his book The Great Slapping, I knew I needed to have him on the show.

                      Tune in to fully appreciate and step into the mentor role with your clients.

                      In today's episode, we're getting into:

                      • The role of the mentor in the “hero’s journey” and how it reframes your work with clients at a deeper level  
                      • What real mentorship requires: trust, truth, and the willingness to deliver feedback that actually creates transformation  
                      • The difference between accidental mentors and intentional mentors, and why that distinction matters for your impact  
                      • How to both become a better mentor and show up as a mentee who actually grows and evolves
                      • Chapters:

                        00:00 – Why Mentorship Is More Powerful Than Coaching
                        02:05 – Yogi’s Journey: Disney, Career Shifts, and Reinvention
                        10:49 – Building a Business and Finding Your Voice
                        15:44 – Why Clients Buy You, Not Your Framework
                        19:08 – Mentorship vs. Transactions: A Different Value Proposition
                        23:00 – The Meaning Behind The Great Slapping
                        25:28 – The Mentors Who Shape Us (and Why It Matters)
                        29:39 – The Hero’s Journey and the Role of the Mentor
                        33:38 – Why Consultants Have Authority Without Position
                        42:18 – The “Great Slapping”: Tough Feedback That Transforms
                        47:50 – What Makes a Great Mentee
                        53:21 – Why You Need a Mentor (Even If You’re the Expert)
                        59:02 – Growth, Blind Spots, and Stepping Into the Mentor Role

                        Next Steps:
                        1. Get clear on the role you actually play
                          Are you showing up as a consultant, a coach… or a mentor? Define how you guide your clients through their transformation journey so your positioning reflects the real value you bring.  
                        2. Refine your brand positioning to match your impact
                          If your messaging doesn’t clearly communicate how you help clients become who they are striving to become, you’re leaving opportunity on the table. Your positioning should make it obvious that you are the partner who meets them in the middle of their heroic journey.  
                        3. Work with me to step fully into the mentor role
                          If you’re ready to elevate your positioning and show up as the guide your clients actually need, Betsy can help you clarify your message, own your role, and build a brand that reflects the transformation you create. Learn more here https://www.betsyjordyn.com/services 
                        4. Other episodes you may enjoy:

                          • Shift Your Consulting & Coaching from Services to Transformations with Joseph Pine (Ep154)
                          •  How to Start Your Consulting Business Right…the First Time with Sara Guttman (Ep153)
                          •  Why Brand Clarity Is About Trust with Dr. J.B. Adams (Ep152)
                          •  3 Types of Consulting /Coaching Expertise: Which one is yours? (Ep147)
                          •  5 Truths About Branding, I Only Saw After Tearing My Process Apart (Ep146)
                          •  Inside My Brand Messaging Process (and Why It Always Works) (Ep140)
                          • About the guest: With over 30 years in Talent Development, Yogi Mueller helps forward-thinking executives build the leadership pipelines they need to support real business growth. His background spans hospitality, Disney leadership, and even a former career in comedy, bringing a rare mix of clarity, candor, and humanity to every room he walks into. Yogi is the go-to partner when leadership teams are misaligned, new leaders lack direction, culture feels unclear, or high-potential programs need credibility fast. Through his signature Embrace the G.R.I.T. approach and G.R.I.T. Index Assessment, he helps leaders get honest, take ownership, and grow through the hard lessons that actually drive transformation. He is also the author of The Great Slapping, a raw take on mentorship, feedback, and what it truly takes to develop leaders who don’t shy away from what’s required to grow. https://www.linkedin.com/in/yogimueller/ 

                            About the host: Betsy Jordyn is a business mentor, brand messaging strategist, and former Disney consultant who helps purpose-driven consultants and coaches build profitable businesses rooted in their unique strengths. With over 20 years in the industry and a knack for turning big ideas into clear positioning, she's your go-to for strategy that aligns with your calling. Work with me: https://www.betsyjordyn.com/services 

                            1 hr 3 min
                          • Shift Your Consulting & Coaching from Services to Transformations with Joseph Pine (Ep154)

                            Is your consulting or coaching business in the product, service, or transformation business?

                            Today's episode is all about getting your consulting or coaching business firmly into the transformation business.

                            And that means shifting your perspective on whatever you do with your clients or what you want to sell them from the end…

                            to the means to a bigger end, which is what your clients truly desire…

                            …achieving their aspirations and becoming who they want to become.

                            Without this shift, we leave value on the table.

                            To help us unpack this and create the path from products to services to experiences to transformations, I'm beyond excited to bring you author, speaker, and advisor to Fortune 500 companies like my beloved Disney, where I first got introduced to his work back in 1999 when I was a brand-new organization development consultant, Joe Pine.

                            One of my first projects at Disney was with the Fort Wilderness Campgrounds. The GM was Cesar, and at our first meeting, he handed me Joe's Experience Economy book and asked for my help implementing these principles to stage more engaging, immersive experiences for the guests at the Fort.

                            So I have been a fan of Joe's work since then. And even more so with his book on the Transformation Economy, which made me realize why I have butterflies all over the place, and as the icon of my logo, because of how much I love this industry and how much this is such a key part of what I do.

                            In today's episode, we're getting into:

                            • The differences between the product, service, experience, and transformation economy
                            • What transformation really is, and how understanding that transforms your understanding of what your product actually is
                            • The steps you need to take to make the shift into transformation
                            • Chapters 

                              00:00 Is Your Business a Service or a Transformation? 

                              02:30 What Is the Experience Economy (Simple Breakdown) 

                              08:54 Products → Services → Experiences → Transformations Explained 

                              12:30 How This Applies to Consultants & Coaches 

                              19:01 Why Transformation (Not Coaching) Is What Clients Buy 

                              24:57 The Shift: The Client Is the Product 32:16 The Real Starting Point: Disruption, Not Strategy 

                              36:00 How to Design Transformational Client Experiences 

                              47:41 Why Most Consultants Think Too Small 

                              55:11 Will AI Replace Coaches? The Real Answer 

                              01:05:27 How to Charge for Transformation (Not Time)

                              Next Steps
                              • Get clear on the transformation you deliver. What is different for your client because they worked with you. Check out Joe's book to dive into this more.

                              • Look at your client journey and elevate one moment. Where can you be more intentional, more thoughtful, more experiential

                              • If you are ready to move from service provider to strategic partner, connect with me to clarify your positioning and build an offer that reflects your true value. Learn more here https://www.betsyjordyn.com/services 

                                Other episodes you may enjoy:

                                • How to Start Your Consulting Business Right…the First Time with Sara Guttman (Ep153)
                                • Why Brand Clarity Is About Trust with Dr. J.B. Adams (Ep152)
                                • 3 Types of Consulting /Coaching Expertise: Which one is yours? (Ep147)
                                • 5 Truths About Branding, I Only Saw After Tearing My Process Apart (Ep146)
                                • Inside My Brand Messaging Process (and Why It Always Works) (Ep140)
                                • About my guest: B. Joseph Pine II is an internationally acclaimed author, speaker, and management advisor to Fortune 500 companies and entrepreneurial startups, and cofounder of Strategic Horizons LLP, a consulting studio focused on helping organizations create new forms of value. He is best known for co-authoring The Experience Economy, a landmark book that redefined how businesses compete by staging memorable experiences rather than simply delivering goods and services, and his latest work, The Transformation Economy, builds on that foundation by showing how businesses can guide customers toward meaningful outcomes and lasting change. Through his work, Pine helps leaders elevate their offerings, rethink their positioning, and design experiences that drive both impact and revenue. Learn more at https://strategichorizons.com/ 

                                  About the host: Betsy Jordyn is a business mentor, brand messaging strategist, and former Disney consultant who helps purpose-driven consultants and coaches build profitable businesses rooted in their unique strengths. With over 20 years in the industry and a knack for turning big ideas into clear positioning, she's your go-to for strategy that aligns with your calling. Work with me: https://www.betsyjordyn.com/services 

                                  1 hr 10 min
                                • How to Start Your Consulting Business Right…the First Time with Sara Guttman (Ep153)

                                  Want to know how to start your own consulting business right... the first time?

                                  No false starts.

                                  No expensive trial and error.

                                  Find out how with my guest and client, Sara Guttman, on today’s Consulting Matters podcast.

                                  Today, we’re getting into what it actually looks like to seamlessly step out of your leadership career and into consulting business ownership, instead of doing what a lot of us do (myself included)...

                                  We instantly get some clients through our network.

                                  We throw up a DIY website,

                                  We find more established consultants and coaches to subcontract for.

                                  And voilà—we’re “in business.”

                                  This works. Until it doesn’t.

                                  The referral network dries up.

                                  The subcontracting keeps us under someone else’s brand.

                                  The DIY website reads like an online resume.

                                  Worst of all, we realize we've achieved everything except what we set out to achieve when we started our businesses, especially control over our careers, time, impact, and earning potential.

                                  Can you relate?

                                  But with my client Sara, she avoided all this.

                                  And I'm so excited to have her as my guest on my show, so she can tell you how!

                                  We met last September when she joined my impact and income accelerator as a low-cost probe to see if she wanted to start her own consulting business.

                                  Once she got affirmation on that, we got to work on her brand positioning strategy and website design, and I even got to direct her website photoshoot.

                                  She has lots to share about:

                                  • Her journey into business ownership

                                  • Why it was important for her to set herself up as a strategic partner from the get-go

                                  • How she dealt with self-doubt

                                  • Why she made avoiding expensive trial-and-error her mantra for investing in her business development up front.

                                    Chapters

                                    00:00 Introduction and Sarah's Background
                                    03:13 Sarah's Career Journey from Radio to Community Center
                                    09:37 Realizing the Impact of Venue Management
                                    11:58 The Seed of Entrepreneurship: Asking for Advice
                                    16:11 Avoiding the Doom Loop and Making Strategic Moves
                                    21:16 The Power of Strategic Positioning vs Service Delivery
                                    26:28 Brand Messaging and Naming Strategies
                                    34:32 Clarifying Business Offerings and Messaging
                                    43:49 Reflections on the Business Launch and Next Steps
                                    52:56 The Value of Strategy and Support in Business Growth
                                    01:00:21 Sarah's Website and Contact Info
                                    01:02:13 Key Takeaways: Confidence, Courage, and Strategy

                                     

                                    Other episodes you may enjoy:

                                    • Why Brand Clarity Is About Trust with Dr. J.B. Adams (Ep152)
                                    • 3 Types of Consulting /Coaching Expertise: Which one is yours? (Ep147)
                                    • 5 Truths About Branding, I Only Saw After Tearing My Process Apart (Ep146)
                                    • Inside My Brand Messaging Process (and Why It Always Works) (Ep140)
                                    • About my guest: Sara Guttman is a meeting and event space consultant who helps nonprofit organizations turn their facilities into reliable revenue streams. After a decade leading venue operations at the Boulder JCC, she now partners with nonprofit leaders to help them generate sustainable income through strategic use of their event spaces. https://saraguttman.com/ 

                                      About the host: Betsy Jordyn is a business mentor, brand messaging strategist, and former Disney consultant who helps purpose-driven consultants and coaches build profitable businesses rooted in their unique strengths. With over 20 years in the industry and a knack for turning big ideas into clear positioning, she's your go-to for strategy that aligns with your calling. Work with me: https://www.betsyjordyn.com/services 

                                      1 hr 6 min
                                    • Why Brand Clarity Is About Trust with Dr. J.B. Adams (Ep152)

                                      As consultants and coaches, we know trust is the foundation of any meaningful relationship. And it is especially true in the work we do with our clients.

                                      When clients trust us, everything changes. They open up. They share what is really going on. They accept feedback. They take risks. They implement our recommendations. That is when real transformation happens in their careers, businesses, and organizations.

                                      Without trust, even if we land the contract, the engagement quietly falls apart. Clients stay guarded. They hesitate. They hold back. The work never reaches its full potential.

                                      But here is the deeper question.

                                      What if trust does not begin in your discovery call?

                                      What if it begins long before that?

                                      In this episode, I explore the idea that trust is built at every touchpoint of your brand. Your website. Your messaging. Your positioning. The clarity of your expertise. The way you communicate your purpose. All of it either lowers anxiety and builds confidence, or creates subtle barriers to trust.

                                      And not just trust in you. Trust in themselves and their ability to create change.

                                      Joining me is Dr. J.B. Adams, executive development strategist and trust researcher, whose doctoral work focused specifically on what builds trust and what breaks it . Together, we unpack why branding is not about looking impressive. It is about creating safety.

                                      In This Episode, You’ll Hear:
                                      • Why trust is the real driver of successful consulting and coaching engagements, and why it starts long before the discovery call.

                                      • The three core elements that build trust and how they apply directly to your brand.

                                      • How vague positioning quietly erodes credibility, and why clear specialization instantly increases trust.

                                      • The surprising lesson a skin cancer diagnosis taught me about branding, safety, and client anxiety.

                                      • Why moving from order taker to strategic partner is essential if you want to build a brand that commands respect and long-term loyalty.

                                        If you are a consultant or coach who wants deeper client engagement, stronger results, and more powerful word of mouth, this conversation will shift how you think about your brand.

                                        Chapters: 

                                        00:00 The Importance of Trust in Consulting and Coaching
                                        03:04 JB Adams: A Journey of Trust and Branding
                                        05:54 The Evolution of JB's Career and Education
                                        09:04 The Decision to Work on Brand Positioning
                                        11:55 The Experience of Rebranding with Betsy
                                        14:47 The Deep Dive into Trust and Branding
                                        18:08 The Role of Trust in Client Relationships
                                        20:55 The Impact of Trust on Client Engagement
                                        23:57 Navigating the Crossroads of Business Focus
                                        27:07 Building Trust Through Cohort-Based Development
                                        30:13 The Three Pillars of Trust: Ability, Integrity, Benevolence
                                        33:05 Applying Trust to Branding Strategies
                                        36:07 The Power of Trust in Client Relationships
                                        39:05 Final Thoughts on Trust and Branding

                                        Next Steps:
                                        1. Audit your brand through the lens of trust: Take a fresh look at your website, messaging, and client touchpoints. Are you clearly demonstrating expertise, integrity, and genuine care? Or are there subtle gaps that could be creating hesitation?

                                        2. Move from order taker to strategic partner: Consider where you might be saying yes out of habit instead of alignment. Trust grows when you position yourself as a thoughtful expert who solves a specific problem, not just someone who takes requests.

                                        3. See trust-centered branding in action: Visit adamslearning.com to explore how Dr. J.B. Adams positioned his expertise around executive development and trust after earning his doctorate.

                                        4. If you want the kind of clarity and confidence J.B. built into his brand, explore working with me: Head over to betsyjordan.com to learn more about my brand positioning and messaging services and how we can build a trust-centered brand that reflects the real depth of your work.

                                          Other episodes you may enjoy:

                                          • 3 Types of Consulting /Coaching Expertise: Which one is yours? (Ep147)
                                          • 5 Truths About Branding, I Only Saw After Tearing My Process Apart (Ep146)
                                          • Inside My Brand Messaging Process (and Why It Always Works) (Ep140)
                                          • About the guest: Dr. J.B. Adams is an Executive Development Strategist and Coach who partners with purpose-driven, people-centered CEOs and CHROs in service-based organizations to build executive-ready leaders and trust-centered cultures. With decades of experience in learning and development, a doctorate in business, and master’s degrees in education and business, his background includes developing leaders at organizations such as The Walt Disney Company. Through customized, cohort-based programs that integrate 360-degree assessments, stakeholder-centered coaching, and group learning, he helps organizations strengthen their executive bench, fuel sustainable growth, and protect their long-term legacy. Visit his website: https://adamslearning.com/ 

                                            About the host: Betsy Jordyn is a business mentor, brand messaging strategist, and former Disney consultant who helps purpose-driven consultants and coaches build profitable businesses rooted in their unique strengths. With over 20 years in the industry and a knack for turning big ideas into clear positioning, she's your go-to for strategy that aligns with your calling. Work with me: https://www.betsyjordyn.com/services 

                                            1 hr 7 min
                                          • Influence Clients with C.A.R.E. (Ep151)

                                            How do you influence others to change, especially when you don’t have positional authority?

                                            You don’t.

                                            Find out what to do instead on today’s episode of the Consulting Matters podcast.

                                            I've been getting into the real systemic issues on the Consulting Matters podcast that make our influence with clients harder than we might think.

                                            A couple of weeks ago, I got into the differences between stakeholder and shareholder capitalism.

                                            Last week, I had Bob Emiliani on the show to share his research on the differences between progressive and classical management.

                                            If you missed them and are curious about the real issues that stand in the way of the people-centered work environments and societal systems we long for, check them out here.

                                            My goal wasn't to bum anyone out but to give a reality check of the limits of our influence and how to care, just not too much.

                                            But today, I want to end this mini-podcast series with some guidance on how to find the wins we can, because even if we can’t change everything... we can create influence with C.A.R.E.

                                            My C.A.R.E. framework summarizes my approach to persuasion, which is:

                                            Influence is persuading people to make decisions and choices that serve their best interests and the best interests of others.

                                            It’s not about convincing others to want what I want or trying to create buy-in for a change that comes down from on-high and could serve the company in the short-term, but harm it and others in the long-term.

                                            In this episode you'll hear:

                                            • How to connect with the clients you want to influence as people first
                                            • How to ask great questions that get beyond surface-level information to make clients feel seen and understood

                                            • How to reframe perspective by organizing disparate thoughts and ideas into logical categories, providing clarity of thought and action
                                            • How to encourage right actions that align with what is your client wants, what is in the best interest of themselves and the realm they are responsible for AND give them the that they have what it takes to succeed

                                              Influence is a powerful skill that can be used for good or bad, depending on who you’re trying to convince and why, and whose interest it serves.

                                              But in the hands of a purpose-driven consultant or coach, without positional authority, this is where and how we get our wins.

                                              Tune in to learn how to influence with C.A.R.E.

                                              Chapters

                                              00:00 Influencing Change Without Authority
                                              07:31 The CARE Model: Connecting with Clients
                                              15:42 Asking Great Questions and Deep Listening
                                              21:44 Reframing Perspectives for Clarity
                                              29:22 Encouraging Right Actions for Change

                                              Next Steps

                                              1. Practice C.A.R.E. with your next client: Pick one element—Connect, Ask, Reframe, or Encourage—and focus on doing it exceptionally well in your next conversation.

                                              2. Join the Common Good Consulting & Coaching Consortium: This is your last week to get on the interest list. Go to www.betsyjordyn.com/common-good.

                                              3. If you need help positioning yourself for greater influence with clients: Learn more about my VIP programs or book a call at www.betsyjordyn.com.

                                              Other episodes you may enjoy:

                                              • Classical vs. Progressive Management with Bob Emiliani (Ep150)
                                              • What Every Consultant & Coach Must Know About Stakeholder vs. Shareholder Capitalism (Ep149)
                                              • Stop Calling Yourself "Consultant" or "Coach": Why You Need a Unique Title (Ep148)
                                              • 3 Types of Consulting /Coaching Expertise: Which one is yours? (Ep147)
                                              • 5 Truths About Branding, I Only Saw After Tearing My Process Apart (Ep146)
                                              • Inside My Brand Messaging Process (and Why It Always Works) (Ep140)
                                              • About the host: Betsy Jordyn is a business mentor, brand messaging strategist, and former Disney consultant who helps purpose-driven consultants and coaches build profitable businesses rooted in their unique strengths. With over 20 years in the industry and a knack for turning big ideas into clear positioning, she's your go-to for strategy that aligns with your calling. Work with me: https://www.betsyjordyn.com/services 

                                                 

                                                41 min
                                              • Classical vs. Progressive Management with Bob Emiliani (Ep150)

                                                Last week I did something different on the podcast.

                                                I talked about stakeholder vs. shareholder capitalism... and a lot of you reached out saying "this finally explains everything I've been experiencing."

                                                So this week I'm building on that.

                                                Because understanding the economic system is one thing. But understanding the management philosophy that flows from it? That's where it gets real.

                                                This week's episode: Classical vs. Progressive Management with Bob Emiliani

                                                Bob is the author of 28 books on progressive management and has been researching this for over 30 years. And he breaks down why leaders say they want collaborative, people-centered cultures... then turn around and manage with command-and-control.

                                                Spoiler: It's not because they're lying. It's because of the management philosophy baked into the system.

                                                Here's what you'll learn:

                                                • What classical vs. progressive management actually means
                                                • Why your transformation work keeps failing (and it's not your influence skills)
                                                • What consultants and coaches are really up against when trying to influence leaders
                                                • How to work more strategically instead of blaming yourself
                                                • My big takeaway

                                                  We worry too much about our influence skills and beat ourselves up when change fails. But when everything is operating the way it's designed—classical management, shareholder capitalism—making the shift toward what we know in our hearts is better is bigger than any one of us can change alone.

                                                  We need to partner together.

                                                  That's why I'm launching the Common Good Consulting & Coaching Consortium—and Bob has agreed to be an advisor.

                                                  Want to join the Consortium? Get on the interest list for our founding call: betsyjordyn.com/common-good

                                                  Next Steps
                                                  1. Explore Bob Emiliani’s books: The Triumph of Classical Management, A Change in Perspective, The Aesthetic Compass at BobEmiliani.com

                                                  2. If this episode surfaced frustration you’ve felt for years… If you’ve hit the “why won’t they change?” wall… If you believe people-centered leadership matters but feel like the system is bigger than your discipline… Join the interest list for the Common Good Consulting & Coaching Consortium.

                                                    Chapters

                                                    00:00 The Paradox of Leadership Styles
                                                    02:45 Understanding Classical vs. Progressive Management
                                                    05:55 The Lean Management Dilemma
                                                    08:56 The Spectrum of Management Styles
                                                    11:56 The Role of Preconceptions in Leadership
                                                    14:51 Challenges in Influencing Leadership
                                                    17:53 The Importance of Human-Centered Leadership
                                                    20:55 Navigating Organizational Change
                                                    23:50 The Need for System-Level Changes
                                                    27:08 Finding Common Ground in Leadership
                                                    30:12 The Future of People-Centered Organizations

                                                    Other episodes you may enjoy:

                                                    • What Every Consultant & Coach Must Know About Stakeholder vs. Shareholder Capitalism (Ep149)
                                                    • Stop Calling Yourself "Consultant" or "Coach": Why You Need a Unique Title (Ep148)
                                                    • 3 Types of Consulting /Coaching Expertise: Which one is yours? (Ep147)
                                                    • 5 Truths About Branding, I Only Saw After Tearing My Process Apart (Ep146)
                                                    • Inside My Brand Messaging Process (and Why It Always Works) (Ep140)
                                                    • About the guest: Bob Emiliani is a Professor Emeritus, leadership researcher, and founder of Cubic, LLC, a company dedicated to leadership development and management improvement. With more than 25 years of experience advancing leadership practices across industries, Bob is known for translating complex organizational challenges into practical, actionable strategies. Drawing from hands-on experience in engineering, manufacturing, and supply chain management, along with 23 years as an educator, Bob brings both academic depth and real-world insight to his work. Through his books, online courses, and on-demand videos, he equips professionals with clear frameworks and methods designed to strengthen leadership capability and improve organizational performance. He is especially recognized for his work on “Speed Leadership,” a concept focused on accelerating learning, decision-making, and meaningful organizational change.

                                                      About the host: Betsy Jordyn is a business mentor, brand messaging strategist, and former Disney consultant who helps purpose-driven consultants and coaches build profitable businesses rooted in their unique strengths. With over 20 years in the industry and a knack for turning big ideas into clear positioning, she's your go-to for strategy that aligns with your calling. Work with me: https://www.betsyjordyn.com/services 

                                                      1 hr 2 min
                                                    • What Every Consultant & Coach Must Know About Stakeholder vs. Shareholder Capitalism (Ep149)

                                                      The best part of my work as a brand positioning and messaging strategist is the vantage point it gives me.

                                                      I get to see the brilliance of my clients up close and where they truly stand out in the market. I also see the bigger vision so many of you share: workplaces that prioritize people alongside profits, and systems that put humanity first.

                                                      We may come from OD, Lean, leadership development, change management, or coaching. We may use different language. But the vision is the same.

                                                      And so are the struggles.

                                                      People-centered leadership that leaders won’t fully buy into.
                                                      Change initiatives that are well designed and quietly abandoned.
                                                      Being laid off despite delivering clear ROI.

                                                      As I tried to make sense of this—and of what’s happening in the United States that feels deeply troubling—I stumbled onto something that brought clarity.

                                                      We are operating from a stakeholder capitalism mindset in a world that has made a committed shift to shareholder capitalism.

                                                      Once I saw that, my consulting career finally made sense.

                                                      I wasn’t failing to communicate. The resistance wasn’t personal. It was predictable.

                                                      I was operating from a stakeholder mindset, believing organizations should invest in people, balance needs, and create long-term value.

                                                      But I was consulting inside a shareholder system designed to do the opposite. One where profits come first, people are costs to manage, and quarterly earnings matter more than long-term impact.

                                                      I was trying to plant a garden in concrete.

                                                      If this resonates, today’s episode is for you. 

                                                      I get that this is not the typical topic I get into on the show, but it reflects the higher purpose behind what I do and why the show is called Consulting Matters.

                                                      Here's what you’ll discover:

                                                      • The shift that happened in the late 1970s and 1980’s that changed how business works (and why you need to know this)
                                                      • The invisible game you're playing—stakeholder mindset meets shareholder system
                                                      • What I wish I'd known about managing expectations and guarding my heart
                                                      • Why we need each other—the vision I have for the Common Good Consulting & Coaching Consortium
                                                      • Next Steps:
                                                        1. Embrace and celebrate your stakeholder mindset. Honor the values you hold dear and then right-size your expectations given the shareholder mindset world your consulting or coaching is swimming in. Take the wins, guard your heart and care…but not too much.
                                                        2. Consider being a founding member of the Common Good Consulting and Coaching Consortium. Go to www.betsyjordyn.com/common-good to get on the interest list.
                                                        3. Start the partnering now. Think about who you know in a different discipline who might be your partner. Reach out. Start a conversation.
                                                        4. Other episodes you may enjoy:

                                                          • Stop Calling Yourself "Consultant" or "Coach": Why You Need a Unique Title (Ep148)
                                                          • 3 Types of Consulting /Coaching Expertise: Which one is yours? (Ep147)
                                                          • 5 Truths About Branding, I Only Saw After Tearing My Process Apart (Ep146)
                                                          • Inside My Brand Messaging Process (and Why It Always Works) (Ep140)
                                                          • About the host: Betsy Jordyn is a business mentor, brand messaging strategist, and former Disney consultant who helps purpose-driven consultants and coaches build profitable businesses rooted in their unique strengths. With over 20 years in the industry and a knack for turning big ideas into clear positioning, she's your go-to for strategy that aligns with your calling. Work with me: https://www.betsyjordyn.com/services 

                                                            36 min

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