Convergence

Convergence

By Mark Steadman & Brendan HutchinsSociety & CultureHealth & FitnessMental Health
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Convergence episodes

  • Food, booze, vape, food, booze, vape, food, booze, vape.

    Breaking down American culture and politics, focusing on the differences between programming languages and frameworks, the ongoing dismantling of the American Dream, and the problematic first-past-the-post electoral system. This episode touches on issues like capitalism, tribalism, and the historic welcoming of immigrants to the US, expressing a desire for open borders and harmony. Additionally, it humorously critiques American soccer terminology and the perceived superiority of the country while hinting at personal pride in being an earthling.

    https://youtu.be/n2u8Z1HeKD8?si=djMRCTjtDybyKs9o

    1 hr 21 min
  • An answer without a question, or the profound necessity of rest

    Wholesome Surprises and the Power of Rest


    Explore the joy of wholesome TV content and  personal encounters with the streaming service Dropout, highlighting shows like 'Game Changer', 'Make Some Noise', and 'Dimension 20.' Mark delves into a particularly emotional episode of 'Game Changer' dedicated to a contestant named Jess. The conversation transitions to a birthday present a thoughtful personal blog project, reflecting on the impact of social media and the importance of documenting life's precious moments. The discussion then shifts to the challenges of productivity, mental health, and the profound necessity of rest. They emphasize the significance of recognizing personal limits, embracing rest, and prioritizing well-being over constant activity. Throughout, the conversation intertwines personal anecdotes and reflections on modern culture's relentless pursuit of productivity versus the often overlooked value of rest and relaxation.

    1 hr 9 min
  • The Struggle for Quality in a Sea of Grifters

    Frustrations with substandard podcast editing, the challenges of maintaining a high-quality freelance business, mental and physical pressures, and an insightful conversation about Apple's new fee policy on Patreon subscriptions, as Mark and Brendan reflect on balancing work and creativity, they share personal stories and experiences about keeping the passion alive and striving for excellence amidst growing industry challenges.

    rockstarremodel.com

    1 hr 5 min
  • What we talk about when we talk about care

    Mark wants the people he works with to be delighted, and Brendan is opting out of Amazon.


    • (00:00) - Fuck me, I’m a biscuit
  • (07:24) - It’s grifts all the way down
  • (17:34) - Opting out of Amazon
  • (26:14) - Mark’s salient point about the environment
  • (27:44) - Mark is adrift
  • (41:04) - The robots are coming for our jobs!
  • (47:38) - Mark tries to explain LLMs
  • (55:36) - Craft
  • (01:22:54) - Attention-poor
  • (01:30:40) - Pricing and value
  • (01:32:36) - Opinions as a service

  • Links

    • MacWhisper
    1 hr 47 min
  • Spike me, daddy

    Mark advocates for the devil of social media, Brendan addresses addiction and challenges the need for us to lean on crutches… and they both discuss ease and craft.

    • (00:00) - Spike me, daddy
  • (01:13) - Happy anniversary
  • (02:15) - Escape valves
  • (08:55) - Our strange addictions
  • (22:49) - Needs vs wants
  • (26:18) - Reading ahead on stoicism
  • (30:32) - Meditation
  • (33:26) - Ease
  • (38:59) - Everyone's tired
  • (43:47) - Feels
  • (49:18) - Moving out

  • Links

    • Digital Minimalism: Choosing a Focused Life in a Noisy World, by Cal Newport
    • The Social Dilemma (2020)
    • Divergence #1: Brendan
    • The Daily Stoic: 366 Meditations on Wisdom, Perseverance, and the Art of Living, by Ryan Holiday & Stephen Hanselman
    • Sit Around the Fire – Ram Dass, East Forest, and Jon Hopkins
    56 min
  • I don’t want to look l ike I have a Twitch channel

    Mark echoes a fundamental question: “What are you doing to make yourself more attractive and interesting?”.


    • (00:00) - Hey, you're cute
  • (02:14) - 16 hour fasting
  • (12:02) - What men need to do to date women
  • (24:42) - Physical appearance as branding
  • (35:33) - Physical appearance across genders
  • (43:35) - "You're not as charming as you think you are" pt 1
  • (46:49) - The girl at the Frank Turner gig
  • (01:00:18) - Don't ask yourself "can I do this goal?"
  • (01:07:26) - There is always a new level to play
  • (01:10:44) - Marker
  • (01:14:36) - One line of code at a time

  • So You've Been Publicly Shamed, by Jon Ronson
    1 hr 17 min
  • Rattling around like Marley’s ghost

    What do you give up once you’ve given up – to quote a popular Irish sitcom – cigarettes, alcohol, and roller-blading? Joy? Is it joy next?


    This one’s spicy if you’re a puritan. Otherwise it’s your pretty bog-standard Convergence fare.

    • (00:00) - Rattling around like Marley’s ghost
  • (00:23) - Mark's accidentally good idea
  • (10:39) - Intrinsic motivation
  • (15:37) - Podiant vs Bramble
  • (17:53) - Podcast Advocate Network, circa 2017
  • (21:33) - Naro
  • (23:22) - Asking for a hand in marriage
  • (26:37) - Brendan's chain wallet
  • (30:18) - Asking for permission to get what you want
  • (31:50) - The proposal
  • (37:07) - Brendan's dopamine diet
  • (43:32) - Men's Work
  • (44:28) - How Brendan "enjoys" himself
  • (48:17) - How to shame an addict

  • Links

    • Men's Work: A Practical Guide to Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, and Find Freedom, by Connor Beaton
    • In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts: Close Encounters with Addiction, by Gabor Mate
    1 hr 6 min
  • Tasty meat fire

    The one where Mark and Brendan build a new society.


    Links

    • Ultra-Processed People: Why Do We All Eat Stuff That Isn’t Food … and Why Can’t We Stop?, by Chris van Tulleken
    • Why doing more exercise won't help you burn more calories – New Scientist
    • Trying Not to Try: The Ancient Art of Effortlessness and the Surprising Power of Spontaneity, by Edward Slingerland
    • Top 5 ways we can actually make a difference – List Envy, with Rebecca Bratspies
    53 min
  • We all know blue Dave

    Brendan throws down a debate for the boys to chew over. Wish them luck!

    • (00:00) - I get that reference
  • (01:47) - Food's effects on personal identity
  • (17:13) - Group identities
  • (20:24) - Dunbar's number
  • (28:29) - Brendan's joke
  • (29:36) - MA succulent Chinese meal
  • (31:22) - Brendan likes to get stuffed
  • (39:52) - Dopamine dieting

  • Links

    • This is democracy manifest (”A succulent Chinese meal”)
    53 min

About Convergence

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What is the work of a middle-aged man? To improve himself and help those around him contribute to a fairer, more tolerant society.