Convergence

Convergence

By Mark Steadman & Brendan HutchinsSociety & CultureHealth & FitnessMental Health
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Convergence episodes

  • The thing about rollercoasters

    Strap in, pull the safety bar down tight, and prepare to launch deep into some stuff in this episode.


    • (00:00) - The thing about rollercoasters
  • (02:00) - Brendan's sacrificial log
  • (09:38) - Mark's wormhole
  • (21:53) - Self-motivation for those that live on their own
  • (27:18) - Rollercoaster content
  • (34:54) - The metaphor extends
  • (47:58) - We do the swiping

  • Links

    • Frequency illusion (Baader–Meinhof phenomenon)
    • I Will Teach You to be Rich: No guilt, no excuses, by Ramit Sethi
    59 min
  • The Darkenshrub epiphany

    Mark went to London and met Rory Sutherland, and Brendan has a communion with the universe.

    • Breaking Open the Head: A Psychedelic Journey into the Heart of Contemporary Shamanism, by Daniel Pinchbeck
    • The Egg, by Andy Weir

    • (00:00) - 2024-07-13 Episode 32
  • (00:18) - Mark at the Podcast Show London
  • (06:38) - Brendan's Darkenshrub adventure
  • (26:31) - Brendan's first trip
  • (37:24) - Thesis
  • (38:32) - Bad Things
  • (41:27) - Impermanence
  • (44:07) - The ego only gets one lifetime
  • (48:34) - Brendan's second trip
  • (01:01:34) - Even Heaven Must Burn
  • (01:09:54) - Everything is Everything

  • And sorry, you just lost the Game.
    1 hr 17 min
  • What have you ACTUALLY done, actually?

    Mark can’t get arrested in this town, Gen X is clapping back, and Brendan’s playing a game but he needs it for his work.

    • (00:00) - 2024-07-13 Episode 31
  • (04:47) - Mark can't get arrested in this town
  • (09:10) - Gen X is clapping back
  • (13:37) - Brendan's spicy question 🌶️
  • (26:10) - You can't be the one who's losing it
  • (31:19) - 100 $1,000,000 Leads
  • (42:41) - Karma
  • (52:37) - Brendan needs it for his work
  • (57:12) - Bullying as a service
  • 1 hr 3 min
  • Anything can be food if you want it to be

    The boys wrestle with the question of man vs bear, explore the fertility epidemic, and deliver an update on Brendan’s arbitration.


    • (00:20) - Mark’s cat is a precious angel
  • (01:40) - Man vs bear
  • (03:40) - The case
  • (14:56) - The fertility epidemic
  • (39:36) - It’s a Jungle Out There

  • Links

    • How pollution is causing a male fertility crisis
    • Electromagnetic hypersensitivity (WHO)
    • Three Principles
    • It’s a Jungle Out There (Monk intro)
    • Enshittification
    50 min
  • Biscuits the size of cat heads

    Brendan kicks the new calorie knowledge, Mark talks about his vision and not his Vision Pro, and Brendan takes Mark on a virtual tour of the NFT Museum.


    Links

    • Web3 is Going Great
    • The Worst Product I've Ever Reviewed... for Now
    • The Dropout
    • Marissa Mayer, этот смех! laugh compilation
    • Top 5 Korean TV romcoms – List Envy, with Anya Pearse
    1 hr 2 min
  • Is this what edging is?

    The boys discuss Mark's doppelgänger, and Brendan's plans for him (Mark, not the doppelgänger).

    • (00:17) - Followup
  • (03:17) - Fasting and food scarcity
  • (08:22) - Mark’s food and home
  • (12:12) - Brendan’s 40th
  • (22:12) - Airport content
  • (25:59) - Brendan’s Portland plans: Food
  • (41:39) - Brendan’s Portland plans: Activities
  • (01:03:55) - Mark’s doppelganger
  • 1 hr 11 min
  • Save the date

    Brendan discovers his food is continuing to Gaslighting him, Mark meets the Mayor of Bike Shed, and plans begin for Brendan’s 40th.

    • (00:00) - Your food is Gaslighting you
  • (02:40) - Willpower
  • (06:32) - Being right
  • (20:08) - The Mayor of Bike Shed
  • (26:12) - So, what do you do?
  • (36:34) - Internal family systems
  • (43:12) - Brendan’s 40th birthday plans
  • (01:00:24) - Saying no
  • (01:04:08) - Bag

  • Links

    • Vector theory of change
    • No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma & Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model, by Richard Schwartz
    • John Dies at the End, by David Wong
    1 hr 5 min
  • How do it know?

    Profound insights and entertaining takes on life's quirks.


    This episode delves into a rich tapestry of personal experiences, legal challenges, and engaging banter, highlighting the Brendan’s journey through litigation, personal development, and humorous everyday observations. Key discussions include the unique wear patterns on a wooden desk, the intense preparation for and insights from an arbitration case, and the importance of honesty and integrity. The conversation also covers physical health, the benefits of outdoor activity, and a playful critique of astrology, reflecting a blend of serious reflections, lifestyle changes, and light-hearted moments. In addition, the host jests about selling a stationary bike and insists on the scientific credibility of astrology, inviting listeners to engage via email. This mixed narrative provides listeners with both profound insights and entertaining takes on life's quirks.


    AI shownotes are hilarious.

    Email: [email protected]

    1 hr 13 min
  • He think's he's people

    Exploring Personal Identities, Happiness, and Human Experiences


    Mark and Brendan discuss individualism, happiness, and personal identity, particularly gender identity. They discuss societal pressures, the implications of aligning too closely with a specific identity, and the importance of personal happiness and acceptance. The conversation also touches on their personal experiences with team sports and its social implications, and the process of self-discovery and acceptance. Additionally, they address the concept of parts work or Internal Family Systems therapy, a method of dealing with personal trauma and internal conflicts by engaging in dialogue with different parts of oneself. The hosts share personal stories and reflections on sports, societal expectations, and the journey towards personal fulfillment and understanding.

    Spoilers for the end of The Barbie Movie at one hour and 7 minutes.

    • IQ Test http://www.iqtest.com

    Zataar Garlic Nut Gutter recipe by Brendan Hutchins

    • 1 glove crushed garlic
    • 1/2 cup nut butter (I prefer peanut or cashew)
    • 1 tbsp olive oil
    • 1 tbsp zataar seasoning
    • 2 tsp onion powder
    • 1/2 tsp sea salt

    Combine and enjoy!


    Email: [email protected]

    1 hr 10 min
  • What's in your breakfast burrito please

    Cycling, Personal Reflections, and Drug Experiences


    Mark starts with some cycling anecdotes that include several instances of bike theft and the acquisition of an e-bike. The discussion expands to cover topics of legality and accessibility of cycling for visually impaired individuals. Beyond cycling, they explore deeper themes of personal growth, the use of psychedelics for enlightenment, and reflections on societal norms around drug use. Famous figures such as Ram Dass and the impact of psychedelic experiences on spirituality and understanding of self are also discussed. The conversation takes a broader turn into personal anecdotes about drug use, societal observations, and discussions on the nuance of language.

    • Being Ram Dass


    Email: [email protected]

    51 min

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What is the work of a middle-aged man? To improve himself and help those around him contribute to a fairer, more tolerant society.