Conversations with a Dom

Chief and Moineau posed the question 'What does D/s mean to you?' to our Discord community members to see how they felt about it. The results we got back were inspiring, moving, deep, and generally wonderful. In this episode, we share what they wrote and reflect on our own thoughts about power play and being in a relationship revolving around dominance and submission.

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In this intriguing episode of the BDSM podcast, Chief and Moineau dive into a fascinating 2014 research paper titled 'What exactly is an unusual sexual fantasy?'. Their lively discussion revolves around exploring their own kinky inclinations. They explore interesting topics, like the differences in fantasies between genders, and discover what percentage of men and women have fantasized about:

1. Having sex with multiple men
2. Engaging in intimate encounters in unconventional places
3. Swinging with both known and unknown couples
4. Exploring the act of urinating on a partner

The goal of this latest episode is to entertain and normalize the wide range of sexual fantasies. It reminds us that it's perfectly okay to fantasize about almost anything. So, kick back, enjoy, and let your imagination run wild!

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Discovering the BDSM world as a beginner submissive can be incredibly exciting, but it can also lead to repeated mistakes and take its emotional toll on you. In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, we discuss beginner subs' common mistakes and how to avoid them. Our conversation involves everything you need to know about BDSM, including creating a sex menu, understanding terminology, finding a dominant, and avoiding people who might take advantage of you. 

The discussion emphasizes the importance of taking time and sense-checking your journey to avoid sub-frenzy. We look at how communication, negotiations, and defining core desires are crucial in creating a successful dynamic. We discuss the importance of developing a support community and attending kinky events to connect with like-minded people and learn new skills. 

Join us as we celebrate progress and growth on the kinky journey while being kind to ourselves.

Topics Discussed

• Mistakes beginner submissives make repeatedly.
• How to avoid sub-frenzy and take things slow and steady.
• Developing communication skills and the importance of negotiations between the sub and Dominant.
• Identifying red flags and looking out for your safety.
• How to define core desires, create a sex menu and develop a supportive community.
• The importance of community and interacting with like-minded people.
• Society's changing views on normal sexual behaviour.
• The Art of Submission course designed for beginner submissives.

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Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book).

The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos).

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Chief and Moineau discuss their trip to the Venus Star Resort for swingers in Gran Canaria, and their stroll along the Maspalomas nudist beach. Find out what goes on at a swingers day club, and what you can expect your first time. For photos, visit the accompanying Kinky Events article.

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Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book).

The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos).

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In this BDSM podcast episode Chief and Moineau review the Divine Darkness London kinky party they attended, then talk about two recent scenes they did together, involving rope bondage, teasing, erotic NLP techniques, quite a lot of roughness, and a favourite new activity - face f*cking. Listen along for spicy tips to incorporate into your power play dynamic and get a sense of what really happens in a real-life D/s relationship.

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Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book).

The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos).

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In this BDSM podcast episode, Chief and Moineau help two readers who submitted questions about transitioning from a Master/slave dynamic to more of a Daddy Dom/Little dynamic, and what to do if you're kinky but your partner isn't.

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The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle).

Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book).

The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos).

Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari).

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In this BDSM podcast episode by Kinky Events, Mistress Jayne, a London-based Dominant, shares her story of how she ended up in this world, and how she helps people safely discover kinky connections and intimacy. Mistress Jayne can be found on Instagram @sexcoachsarahjane.

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Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away!

The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle).

Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book).

The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos).

Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari).

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In this BDSM podcast episode, I dish out my favourite tips and techniques for heightening submission and having loads of fun in your power-play dynamic. There really are some KILLER tips in this episode that I've used and had fantastic results with for years. Enjoy!

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Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away!

The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle).

Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book).

The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos).

Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari).

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In this episode of the Conversations with a Dom BDSM podcast Moineau and Chief talk to Emily, a reader who emailed in asking if she could share her experiences of engaging in a D/s dynamic after testing positive for the Herpes simplex virus (HSV). 

We talk about:

• What HSV is and what the symptoms are
• How Emily contracted Herpes
• What she does and doesn't do in her dynamic to keep herself and others safe
• How it impacts play with her Dom

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Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away!

The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle).

Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book).

The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos).

Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari).

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*TRIGGER WARNING* On this episode of Conversations with a Dom Chief and Moineau answer a reader's question about DDlg. What is it? How do we practice it in our relationship? And how might you go about introducing it into your relationship? We discuss psychology, why it turns us on, and how to talk to a partner about it.

Please note: We also discuss CNC, the R word, childhood trauma, and parental wounds, which can be very sensitive topics. Please proceed with caution if these are triggering for you.

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Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away!

The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle).

Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book).

The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos).

Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari).

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