Conversations with Toi

I wonder if men knew that bragging about how strong your significant other was by staying in a relationship with someone is NOT a flex. Every relationship has their ups and downs. However, if you saw that by stepping over my boundaries multiple times and being okay with that is crazy work.

..........................

How do we justify bad behavior time and time again? Men and some women, please understand that the mental health breakdowns that occur when you are betrayed can last forever

.....................

Follow the blog and on socials Toitimeblog

What does commitment have to do with the Cirque du Soleil Corteo? Everything as we have acrobat Joris Kondija share his reasons for starting with gymnastics and how staying the course led him to the brand of Cirque du Soleil.

.................................

We have to stay committed to something in this world that seems to want to encourage failing. So here's to you taking this conversation and sticking to your personal commitments in life. In addition we cover:

• Ressa Tessa being signed to CAA
• International Women's History Day salutes
• Rising Crime in Philadelphia
• Postpartum
• Mental Health and more

If you will be in the Allentown area March 28-31st, get tickets now.

If you will be in Philadelphia come May 30-June 2nd, get tickets now

................................

Follow Cirque du Soleil online, Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, Roblox, and Twitter

.........................

Follow me on Social media as Toitimeblog and on the blog

...........................

Here are some blogs on travel, solo travel, and spring.

Is anyone else looking forward to shedding this seasonal depression and step into a Spring awakening? From travel since its National Plan a solo trip day to letting go of the things that holds us back I get into all of that this episode.

......................................

Are we giving participation awards to parents and specifically dads? Lil Scrappy had a lot to say this week on why people don't mention the parenting he does as the mother of his kids leaves to do the things that she needs to do

..................................

In addition is $30 to little food to send to someone's Cash App for lunch? A woman this week says it's not enough.. What say you? I say I am enjoying two lunches at Chipotle or one lunch and a next day breakfast too

.......................................

Follow me on socials as Toitimeblog and on the blog itself.

Have you ever questioned your past choices in life? We all make mistakes so this isn't about perfectionist. In life, there will be times when you realize later on aka your future self finally understands the past was building the good for your future.

On this episode:

I also cover the 50 part plus Rissa Tissa, Wendy Williams, and leave you with some encouragement that I hope on your darkest day illuminates your path.

If you are looking for the viral Rissa Tissa story its on TikTok

Follow me on the blog and on all socials as Toitimeblog

Comedian Mo'Nique and her son, Shalon have been creating a stir this week. Since Mo'Nique's rise it's been no secret that Mo'Nique doesn't have a desire to be a wife or parent. Fast forward to Mo'Nique's appearance on Clip Shay Shay where sh talk about her lack of parenting with her son.

...................................................

Its easy to also note that Mo'nique has 2 other sons. Either way the exchange leads to what is no contact, and apologies

This episode:

• Mental health talks
• Accountability
• Parenting

You can find me on the blog and on social media as Toitimeblog

Toxic Mothers blogpost

No matter what field you are in there's always room for more. I dislike when I hear people use tactics to be the mean girl/women and disinclude others. Often it's from their own insecurity but still its unnecessary in every way.

...........................................

We have this week Elle of Siponwhat as we talk about her moving into the Content Creator space, tips she's learned, forging her own ways, and friendships along the way. Tune in as we talk about that and aspects of being who you are online and off. In addition always talk about mental health and self care.

............................................

Follow Elle on Siponwhat on Instagram and TikTok

........................................

Other topics discussed are:

Grammys

Mental health and being overwhelmed

Valentine's Day and letting folks deal with the day in the way that feels best to them.

..............................................

Follow me on all socials as Toitimeblog and on the actual blog

Unfortunately in content creation or blogging there is always room for clapbacks. We have Camille Mola of Positive Publicity as our guest as we talk all things writing, pop culture, and more. She shares how she got into the joy of writing. Whatever your joys are one thing is for your gift will make room.

....................................................................................................

Camille is not only an amazing blogger, writer, but she has experience with PR and can sing her behind off. Oh and if that isn't enough she went to one of the most amazing schools, Penn State-We are!

.........................................................................................................

Follow Camille on her blog; Positive Publicity, Instagram, TikTok, Pinterest and Facebook

..........................................................................................

Follow me on the blog and on socials as Toitimeblog

In honor of my husband's birthday listen to the episode, Storr Love

I love my Content Creator friends. So I will be bringing them on for a few weeks as we talk about different things in the industry. This is definitely something to tune in if you want to start something new (whatever your new is) but you are hesitant about what to do first. We have on today's episode is Amanda of Phillyfoodandbarrs and we talk about content creation and wanting to be on the scene and more.

...................................

This episode is dedicated to my friend, Charisse McGill a jewel who's life and joy will radiate the community for years to come.

.........................................

Not a Content Creator and don't have a desire to be that's okay you will get lessons on pursuing your dreams, exercising your NO Muscles, learning to bet on you, and how to continue when you want to quit and that can be applied in all fields and walks of life

.................................

Looking to be a Content Creator? Think you can do it better than the folks in the game? Come on in the room because the cadence, tenacity, tools, and dare I say NO Muscles that you will week is not to be played with.

.........................................

Looking for some tools in the game? Use my Amazon link to catch a few things (I get paid a commission)

..................................

You can find Amanda on Instagram, Facebook, and TikTok

Follow the blog always and on socials as Toitimeblog

Goals and The Temptations? Yes on this last episode of the season and year I talk to E. Clayton Cornelious about his role as Paul Williams on the Broadway show of Ain't Too Proud coming to the Kimmel Cultural Campus January 3-21st. Tickets are now available.

...........................................................................................................................................

E. CLAYTON CORNELIOUS (Paul Williams) is a Grammy winning Broadway/Tv veteran actor of 25 years. He’s worked on the West End of London, has done 9 1/2 Broadway shows, and this marks his 10th Broadway national tour. On top of acting, he is now a 5-year Broadway Investor/Producer. He made his Broadway producing debut in 2021 and was recently nominated for his 1st Tony Award in 2023 as co-producer. He is a graduate of PPU and is currently getting his 2nd degree in Business Management at EGCC. He is grateful to friends, family and God.

Instagram: @Eclaycorn. Website: Eclaycorn.com.

.................................................................................................................................................

Goals are meant to have a plan with them. Resolutions and goals aren't simply a wish list that you write down and hope for the best. Make a list and a plan to go along with it that will assist you in making 2024 successful. Remember to sprinkle in some grace in your goals setting. We tend to be on the go to making things happen without adding some pauses into our lives.

...........................................................................................................................................

Follow me on the Blog and on socials as Toitimeblog

New Year Blogs to add to your world:

Getting Organized into the New Year

Keep A Few Things into the New Year

Stick to your New Year Goals/Resolutions

Christmas is a wonderful holiday. Everyone is getting gifts and you may be thinking of what you don't have, missing those who aren't here, and so much more. While everyone is wrapped in joy you may be seriously in a place of despair. It may be a silent issue as you feel like saying that would damper others so you smile in rooms you don't want to be in.

..........................

With that being said, here are some of the ways I use to help me:

• honesty
• take breaks
• journal
• therapy session

In the podcast I talk about the ways I use things to help me. How to manage my feelings and levels of anxiety during high stress moments is key. Changing the tone in how I talk to my family and friends helps diffuse things too regardless if I 'shouldn't" have to do all of that.

...........................

Wishing you a great season. Also later on the blog today I list 5 journal prompts, 5 podcasts to listen to, and 5 more tactics to use during the holiday season.

.......................

Follow me on all socials as Toitimeblog