Conversations with Toi

It's almost that time where we celebrate the New Year. So many people are so mad at those who want to reset. First I pray that you renew in every way. It's hard taking that first step when doubt if you will complete it is in your ear. If you listen to the folks they will discourage you at the same time telling you to do something. The world can be a confusing place, right?

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As we shift into a new year and a new mindset know that goals are set by you or should be done as often as possible. Whether you believe in a vision board or not here's your chance to do what feels good for you,

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This is the last episode of this season. We are taking our official break. I know i had been gone due to being sick, I will be back with season 12 stronger than ever. So cheers to you and your family this New year.

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New Year goal setting blogs:

Prepping for the new year

Ways to get kids excited for the new year

Getting Organized in the new year

I am back with a new episode after being off unintentionally from being sick. Now that I am back I am happy to do so. With that being said, y'all were acting up on these Internet streets. From waxings going wrong to not paying Content Creators again....here' is this week's episode

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Definitely have an explicit language warning as we dive deep into the world that is the Internet.

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Since the elections there has been a few white women who stated that they were told that those who voted against Trump was going to jump women like her. If that is the case she wanted us to know that she and those who look like her ar ready for war.

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Stop lying-no one is jumping anyone.

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This week's books: Jaleel White, Growing up Urkel and Keke Palmer, Master of Me is out and definitely worth the read,

Lisa Rae is back and talking to Carlos King on his YouTube show about her life.

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Here is your Thanksgiving survival kit. Follow me on the blog and on socials as Toitimeblog.

Why are people so insensitive to others? Either way let today's podcast be your reminder to treat people right. Being dismissive towards people you see no value in is diabolical.

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What is your wins for the week? I am celebrating my 10th Blogiversary. Taking the time to write and do what I love is no easy feat. So here I am standing in 10 years and I am not stopping any time soon.

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Follow the blog and today's blog on the lessons that I learned in these 10 years

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This isn't about one candidate over another. This is about what you saw as palpable and how that translates to you. We collectively are taking a break. For many of us the self care is deep. A lot of us have to recharge.

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We do not need an amen corner. I will never argue with anyone over choices. I respect choices. So while I won't argue with folks it doesn't mean that I need agreement. No amen corner is needed to feel the feels. In this episode we will cover my personal thoughts regarding the election. In addition how can you or I create joy. What activities can you do to take care of how you feel. Did you lose family or friends? You may be hurting. Did you see people for the first time and it baffles you? Let's talk about it.

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Welcome back from my very unplanned hiatus. I wasn't planning on taking such a long break and I make no apologies. As your resident self care queen, breaks are apart of self care. So with that being said we are back feeling great about the podcast and most importantly life.

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The struggles are real. Happy November 1st as we talk all things holidays and more. With the holidays around the corner there are many that will find themselves struggling more than normal. The absence of family and more make it hard. SO do what is best for you.

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Also in addition how was my Atlanta trip, what goals are yall setting without steps to complete them and so much more?

Holiday help:

Thanksgiving Survival kit from books, music, podcast listens and more how to make the day as pleasant as possible

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On this episode we talk about self care, boundaries, toxic relationships, and more with Rainie Howard

Rainie Howard is a renowned bestselling author, speaker, and visionary leader in personal

development. With over 17 years of experience, Rainie has connected with millions worldwide

through her powerful teachings on self-love, emotional healing, and relationship building. As the CEO of Love Book Store, an e-commerce business, and InspiredFlow, a leadership and life

coaching firm, she is dedicated to empowering individuals to live with purpose and fulfillment.

Rainie’s latest book, The Love Habit, is a transformative guide that empowers readers to

cultivate healthier relationships while embracing the transformative power of self-love. Her

groundbreaking work has been featured on major platforms like FOX, NBC, and ABC,

reinforcing her status as a leading authority on emotional intelligence, mental health, and

spiritual growth.

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Beyond her professional achievements, Rainie is a devoted wife, nurturing mother, and award-

winning humanitarian. Through her podcast, The Rainie Howard Show, she continues to inspire

and uplift audiences, providing insights that guide others toward holistic growth and a life filled

with joy and fulfillment. Rainie's mission is to help people awaken their inner potential,

encouraging them to embrace their unique strengths and lead empowered, purposeful lives.

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You can follow her on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, and of course get her books on Amazon

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Happy Friday and we have a new episode this week. There is a lot going on with Cardi B, P Diddy, Hoda KotB and more. So with that said let's dive into the episode of Keep us out of the group chat. If you think this is a bashing episode it's not.

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Topics discussed is the hits that many women take in their careers for our children. Hoda doing what she needs to do for her children is so familiar to so many. Whether you are a stay at home mom or working mom the struggle is real

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How many women have been hurt by a man? It becomes so real. So when a relationship ends so much of our emotions are tied. Cardi B is tired and also postpartum. So we will see how that ends. However there are some lessons for all of us

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Diddy saga continues: we will see what happens including the marriages and relationships that unfolds from it

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Other topics discussed: goals we not waiting for the New year just because we didn't do enough to honor ourselves this year. We taking the goals and starting them now.

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Who has your joy? Joy sometimes is what we give away-why. Joy is not for sale. You don't need to give the keys to your happiness to others. Often times we count on others to be happy. Your happiness is your job, Do it well.

What is your joy and happiness worth?

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We talked about P Diddy many times and this week he was charged and denied bail 3 times. What does that mean for his victims? His family especially the 4 Combs girls and his sons? What will happen in the coming months.

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On this week we remind you how deserving of good you are owed. Life happens to all of us. When things go left remember that you are deserving of the life you seek. Do the work. Remain committed to the good.

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Also Diddy the Diddler is at it again and this time with Danity Kane's own Dawn Richards. The abuse she alleges is heartbreaking. At this point I don't know if cancel culture really exists but if it did he would need to be the first on the list. Damaging harm to someone's mental health alone is absolutely horrible. The demeaning ways in which he controlled these women is astonishing.

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Mental health has its highs and lows. You can experience joy and I pray that for you always.

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