Stuck in limiting beliefs as an autistic or AuDHD adult—thoughts like "I am not good enough because of autism" or feeling like different "parts" of you are constantly fighting each other? In this episode of Adulting With Autism, Tamara Andreas joins to talk about Core Transformation, a gentle inner-work process she co-developed that has been taught worldwide for over 30 years.​

Tamara explains the idea of "parts" in a grounded way: the part that wants to keep you safe, the part that is scared of change, the part that believes you have to mask. She walks through how to acknowledge these parts with respect, ask what they are trying to do for you, and then guide them toward deeper "core states" such as peace, love, or OK-ness—without forcing yourself to "think positive."​

You will hear a guided example of the process, how Core Transformation grew out of her and Connirae Andreas' work, and why this approach can be especially supportive for autistic and ADHD adults who have been shamed, gaslit, or told to "fix" themselves. We also talk about pacing, safety, and why it is okay to pause or come back to the process as needed.​

This episode is especially helpful if you:

• Carry a lot of shame or harsh self-talk tied to autism or being "too sensitive"

• Feel fragmented, like different parts of you are pulling in opposite directions

• Want a structured, yet compassionate way to explore inner peace and self-acceptance

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Resources mentioned:

• Core Transformation® book and materials

• Free micro-book and videos at andreasnlp.com

• Trainings and more at coretransformation.org