This is one of the most testing things we face as single people, listen to how i deal with being alone.

Don't compromise yourself into thinking that's going to make you happy, lifes easy, we just make it super hard with over complicating things and relationships.

We don't have to prove anything to the ones that break our hearts, stop trying to show them, instead show yourself, prove to yourself that you've got your own back 100%.

I got tired of trying to shame people into letting ,me leave their lives, and I got busy in focusing on my life, You owe you and no one else, trust in the process and become the change.  

People can suck the life out of you when they see your guiding flame, don't let them be the reason why it goes out, its about doing you, doing whats best for you. Check out what I have to say. 

So you saying loves over for you? hell no its not, listen to why it's not over as yet. 

So many things of the past can hold us back from moving forward and embracing life, taking active steps to create the life we want is pretty easy once we focus our minds of just creating happiness.  

Lifes like a bag of chips, their lush to eat but so god darn bad for you at the same time, kinda like toxic relationships.

You’re in pain, I get it, I’ve been there, it sucks, you’ve poured everything into the person, but now's the time to reflect, it’s time to start caring for yourself.

Straight talking, “fuck em” I only care about you right now, and doing whats right for you, you’ve got this kid, please believe me just trust me, you got this!

Become the Change

There comes a time in life when you have to throw everything out of the window, and start from a fresh to take back control of your life, now is the time.

take action now and make your life the best it's ever been from now onwards.  

Stop living that old dead life, you know the one people told us we need to live, they told us to play it safe, this is one life one shot and there's no coming back after this is over. 

So many years went by with me letting others control the life i lived, 4 years ago spelled the end to this madness, I started showing up for me!, lived life on my terms and now my life's full of my own happiness because i live it on my terms,