Create Your Best Chapter

In today’s episode, my guest Jaye Pye, talks about his personal journey with grief. In February of 2020, Jaye’s wife Chrissy died at the age of 41, after living with cancer for 3 years. In our conversation, Jaye talks about how he is taking action to “live his life”, an intention inspired every day by Chrissy. Grief is part of the human condition and something we will all need to face at some point in our life; however its not something we talk about often or openly enough in our western society. Grief is also a very individual and personal process, and I’m so grateful to Jaye for his courage and honesty to share his thoughts.

About Jaye

Jaye Pye is a finance professional. He spent the past 15 years in senior leadership roles for several not-for-profit organizations. Starting in the mailroom, Jaye worked his way up the corporate ladder at one of the world’s largest accounting firms, taking night and weekend courses while raising a young family.

Jaye is currently working towards a Life Coaching certification, and actively building a new business - Expanse Life Coaching and Consulting. He will provide individual, team coaching, and financial consulting services to business professionals, empowering them to solve problems, supporting them in their personal and professional growth. Jaye’s passion in life is developing system enhancements and investing in the success of others. He currently volunteers a substantial amount of time as the Secretary on his condominium board, enhancing their website and improving the digital systems for their corporate records. His expertise lies in developing individuals and teams while driving performance through creative solutions in process development.

Balance is extremely important to Jaye. Apart from work endeavours, he can be found enjoying all things Outside – topping the list are playing disc golf and enjoying a local craft beer with friends and family.

You can learn more about Jaye at his website - Expanse Life Coaching.

Resources

If you or someone you know is facing grief, please know that many resources exist to help you and that you are not alone.

• Your company's Employee Assistance Program (EAP)
• Google 'grief counsellor' in your city/town
• Connect with a local hospital or mental health centre
• Call a friend, colleague, someone at your Church or a spiritual advisor (Priest, Pastor, Rabbi, etc.)
• Call or email me (403-803-0807 or [email protected])

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Learn more about Vera Ilnyckyj on her website createyourbestchapter.com

Have you ever felt hopeless? Have you ever felt hope? What does hope mean? According to Lindsay Recknell, who is my guest today, hope means “the future will be better than today by taking action over the things we can control”. Lindsay is an expert in hope, and in our conversation we talk about the science of hope, how to take intentional action to move out of hopelessness and into a state of flourishing and wellness, and lots of other inspirational and educational nuggets. I hope you learn from this conversation.

About Lindsay

Lindsay Recknell gets people talking, teaches self-awareness and brain science, and helps as many people as she can use hope to motivate positive change.

Lindsay Recknell is a speaker, facilitator and mental health advocate who has experienced the power of hope firsthand and used it to create positive change in her life. Lindsay’s work is all about helping others rediscover hope amid challenge – and teaching us how to use it to create radical positive change in our lives.

As an expert in hope and a Certified Psychological Health & Safety Advisor, Lindsay works with organizations to increase their levels of psychological health & safety in the workplace using the Science of Hope – evidence-based, practical tips and techniques to increase levels of hope within organizations by increasing hope levels in individuals. She empowers individuals, strengthens teams and transforms organizations through her Hope Motivates Action, Mental Health in Minutes and Burnout & Boundaries programs. Lindsay lives in Calgary with her husband and their two Golden Retrievers.

You can connect with Lindsay through the above links, on her website, or through email - [email protected]

Resources discussed in this episode:

• Positive Psychology (Dr. Martin Seligman)
• Mel Robbins - 5 Second Rule
• Making Hope Happen, Dr. Shane Lopez
• Hope Rising, Dr. Chan Hellman & Casey Gwinn
• The Book of Joy, Dalai Lama XIV & Desmond Tutu

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At age 32, Micheal McKay was outwardly successful. He had a profitable business, he owned a condo in a trendy part of town, and was engaged to be married. But, deep down he was unhappy. So, in 2015 he blew up his life and moved to Cambodia, where an opportunity to work had come up. He’s been in Cambodia the last six years and in today’s conversation we hear what he’s learned on his journey, his thoughts and advice on goal setting, happiness, privilege, and not waiting to do the things you really want in life.

About Micheal

In 2014 I had everything. I was 32, running my own company, owned a condo, and was teaching advertising one day a week. I was engaged to the “girl that got away” and we had two dogs together. I had everything I thought I wanted, but I wasn’t happy.

In early 2015 I blew up my life. An opportunity came to work at a Social Innovation Lab in Cambodia and I took it.

I’ve been abroad for six years, and without reservation, I can say it’s the best—and hardest—thing I’ve ever done. I’ve visited thirteen countries, and met people from dozens more. My ideals about life, my values, my intellectual and emotional boundaries—all of it has been challenged. My ignorance of the world, bared, and my first-world privilege, shamefully exposed. I’m not the same person anymore. And I am so glad.

These days I am working on my MBA while consulting on various business, innovation, and behavioural projects. I’m also a business partner in a social enterprise that sells eco-friendly and ethically made toys, knitted by women in Cambodia. It provides them with fair, flexible employment, and products that people love. I love business and I believe it’s possible to do good for the world and make a profit.

Connect with Micheal at michealmckay.com.

Resources and information discussed in this episode

Danielle Laporte - Desire Map

Social enterprise Michael is part of - Beebee+Bongo

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In today's episode I talk with Dave Baldwin who entered the foster care system at age 14. This became an opportunity for a change in the direction of his life. In our conversation, Dave talks about taking positive action even when life hits him a curveball, his unique perspective on staying motivated, setting goals, making connections, and celebrating successes.

About Dave

Dad, Friend, Co-Worker, IT Leader, Independent Technology Consultant

Ethos: Everyday wake and try to learn something no matter how small or big. A constant thirst for learning will allow you to grow as a person in every way.

David was born in Vancouver BC and lived across BC and AB. He left home at 14 and entered the foster care system in BC. That change of life was an opportunity for a change in direction of his life. He was able to pursue path to success that was supported by people and achievements. He met the mother of his children in White Rock BC and together they brought two fantastic children into the world. Once his son was born the family moved from Vancouver, BC to Calgary, AB where David raised a family and pursued a career in technology.

With successful track record in Fortune 500 companies, IBM, Microsoft, Suncor, David has now chosen to pursue a career as an independent consultant in technology helping companies mature their Digital solutions. David is enjoying watching his children grow into great young adults with a fabulous future in front of them.

David can be reached at [email protected] or on LinkedIn.

Resources discussed in this episode:

• David Goggins - Can't Hurt Me: Master Your Mind and Defy the Odds

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Sometimes failure, or hitting rock bottom can be the biggest blessing in someone’s life. My guest today is Yana Read, and in our conversation she shares her story of personal failure, that has led to a huge shift in how she defines happiness, how family has become her number one priority, and how she has deepened her friendships through opening up about her own struggles. We also talk about her journey as the founder and CEO of Pupper Select, a raw dog food company, and how her business has helped strengthen her relationship with her husband and daughter. I hope you enjoy the conversation.

About Yana

Yana is many things, but maybe most importantly—she's a dog lover.

The many things: Yana graduated with a BA majoring in Psychology at the University of Calgary, also receiving a Broadcast Arts diploma. She jumped into the world of media, sales and marketing, and started her career with steadfast determination and a passion to share her ideas with the world.

After launching luxury homebuyer magazine Retreat in 2005, and high-end local Bride & Groom Magazine in 2007, Yana went on to work for New Ad for a decade until 2019 when she decided to pursue her true calling: DOGS.

Yana started Pupper Select in 2019 along with her husband, Daryl, when their families dog suffered from allergies & countless ear & eye infections. They tried everything from numerous vet consultations to expensive medications. Medication would bring some relief, only as long as they kept using them. But that wasn’t the worst part – the greatest adverse affect was the huge toll it took on their Puppers mental health. After researching the underlying cause of canine issues, everything pointed to the fillers and chemicals that are in traditional kibble.

Pupper Select is about helping to educate doggy parents about the difference raw food vs kibble can make for their pup's health, life, and behaviour. Through compassion and communication, sharing evidence & experience, and by providing the most convenient access to your dog's new diet, Yana & Daryl are here to help your dog live its very best life.

Connect with Yana on LinkedIn and learn more about Pupper Select on her website.

Resources mentioned in this episode:

• ATB Entrepreneur Centre
• Alberta Women Entrepreneurs (AWE)

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Learn more about Vera Ilnyckyj on her website createyourbestchapter.com

Today's guest is Amy Woolf, whose goal is to help people gain strength and confidence, and allow them to see their physical and emotional potential and resilience.

In our conversation, we talk about the importance of family, taking risks, trust, friendships, and coming full circle in your life. Amy's advice is that we need to be the writer of our own story in order to live the life we're meant to live.

About Amy

Amy’s journey has taken her from the UK where she was born and raised, to Canada and now Tel Aviv, Israel. Professionally, Amy worked for 10 years in Ecommerce and Digital Marketing for global corporations. She recently pivoted, and after completing her M.A at the University of Tel Aviv in Environmental Studies, she joined a Venture Capital firm who work to solve our planet's biggest challenges, and to improve people’s lives.

Amy is also a Personal Trainer, qualified ski instructor and chef. She is a huge advocate of health, nature and connection and thrives on new experiences and opportunities. Her goal is to help people gain strength and confidence and allow them to see their physical and emotional potential and resilience.

Connect with Amy on her website woolf-fitness.com or on Instagram @wildasawoolf.

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Jessica Shumlich co-founded Highwood Emissions Management in the middle of a pandemic. Talk about taking a risk! In today's episode we talk about how there's never the perfect time to start something new, how self awareness leads to self acceptance and self love, and the importance of having difficult conversations.

About Jessica

Jessica Shumlich (P.Eng., MM) is the Chief Executive Officer and co-founder of Highwood Emissions Management. She has a decade and a half experience working for energy companies, governments, technology developers and various startups. She is an Engineer by trade, with a Masters of Management and has been involved in work spanning from Canada, the United States, the Netherlands, the United Kingdom and Germany.

Jessica’s favorite word to describe herself is collaborative. She is a proven leader who enjoys challenges and demands top level results. She has worked with organizations, small and big, to develop, launch, and optimize technology deployments, projects, and programs. Her expertise lies in holistic greenhouse gas emissions management including evaluation of how to implement cost effective solutions that reduce emissions. Her skills in risk management and business strategy have led to implementation of best in class management practices, successful market positioning for energy transition, operational excellence, global and local policy revamps, and the reduction of millions of tonnes of carbon dioxide equivalent.

Jessica is an advocate for sustainable development, healthy living and vibrant communities. She volunteers for many organizations including Green Calgary, Bike Calgary and Momentum. Her passions include family and friends, travel, learning about different cultures, and anything that gets her outside including exploring the mountains at the doorstep of Calgary.

Learn more about Jessica on her company website or connect with her on LinkedIn.

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Learn more about Vera Ilnyckyj on her website createyourbestchapter.com