CUNTFESSIONALS

What in the social dilemma is this?! In this EP I explain how I struggle with being addicted to my phone. I do not use the word addiction lightly, and I fully intend on using it in this context because this has become a very serious problem for me. I talk about how my addiction started (way back in the myspace days) and how it's evolved. I also elaborate on how the addiction looks on me (it looks different on everyone) and how it has negatively impacted my mental health. At the end of the episode, I share some tips on breaking the addiction, and how those things have worked for me. I know there's a lot of people struggling with this, so I hope this resonates and helps!

In this episode I'm ngl I'm kind of lit (not that you can ever tell), but I talk about how female sexuality has been demonized since the beginning of time and my personal experiences with this kind of discrimination. I address questions like "is it okay to have sex on the first date?" and I talk about the concept of the "male gaze". In the latter half of the EP I go into detail about how I destroyed my insecurities and became my most authentic and confident self. I'm at a point in my life where I am so happy with who I am, but it's taken A LOT of work... so I'm really happy to share my process. Enjoy!

In this episode, I talk about my (limited) experiences with colorism as a tan complexion LATINX person. I will be speaking in US and Mexico contexts only because those are my two nationalities. The colorism conversation is one that should NOT be confined to academic settings solely for the realson that the very reality of it isn't. 

I speak on my story and how difficult it was for me to come to terms with the nuance/specificity of my racial identity and how that fit in society. I can only speak for myself, my experiences, and the knowledge I've gained.

I hope this helps someone struggling with identity and that it inspires you to speak on the issue !

In this EP I talk about how I transition from my conservative upbringing to atheism and finally, to my current form of spirituality. I discuss weird things I experienced as a child that played a significant role in my belief system, and how my beliefs are based more on a "feel good" feeling than actual tangible information. I elaborate as to why I believe these things and how I am happy to finally have a healthy relationship with spirituality.

In this EP I discuss the value of friendships and how it's important to invest wisely in people. It's often said that people should have high standards when selecting a romantic partner, but I believe that also holds true when choosing friends. I've had my fair share of "bad friends" but I will be specifically discussing friendships that I made in 2019 and had to cut off in 2020. I compare those experiences with the life long friends I currently have, and I conclude by talking about how exactly someone can be a good friend. Enjoy!

This is my last episode of 2020 and it's definitely something I'm leaving in the past. In this EP I tell the story of how I became heavily religiously involved for 2-3 years of my life and the harm I caused while I was a devout fundamentalist christian. I also tell stories about the church and give explicit detail about the Religious Trauma Syndrome (RTS) and PTSD I dealt with after the fact. **Trigger Warning** I discuss PTSD, depression, suicide, etc. I end it by emphasizing the lessons I learned from this part of my life and how I regained the ability to forgive and trust myself again. This was the hardest thing I've ever had to talk about and hard is an understatement. RTS is a real medical condition and if you've experienced this, I want you to know that you are loved and seen. There is a way out.

In this episode I talk about a topic that is a NEED for so many people! I share my personal experiences and how I've gotten over past boyfriends. I also share how getting over my recent ex boyfriend has been a much more difficult challenge. I give the tips I learned throughout my healing process and also valuable insights from my therapist. It's valuable information and I hope it helps someone! Enjoy!

I throw an unacceptable amount of shade in this EP, so if you're a man and you're fragile maybe it's best you don't listen! I talk about the things men do that make their sex game weak and how improving their skills will only benefit them in the long run. I tell my own personal stories... bad AND great. I also get specific about my first time at a strip club and how that paved the way for me to have a short-lived sugar daddy experience. Tune in if you want to laugh and hear the shade!

In this episode, I basically put myself on blast but I do it in the name of a good cause! I talk about how during a very dark period in my life I used sex as an unhealthy coping mechanism. **Trigger Warning** I also talk about s*xual assault and depression. I get personal in hopes that my story will help someone feel better about theirs and also help remove stigmas around sex and being sexually active. I later move on and use the last part of this episode to talk about my predictions for HBO's Euphoria season 2! If you haven't watched the show skip this part because there are spoilers!

Welcome to my first episode c*nts!!! Thank you so much for tuning in and listening. In this episode, I talk about my OF experience and some crazy stories! I also dive deep into lessons I learned while being on the platform. I share a few tips that will be helpful to anyone that is contemplating creating an OF account. I also talk about cutting off toxic dick and unfortunately some friendships as well. I go into my reasoning and how I'm prioritizing my mental health and growing in my self-love journey.