Dad Tired

In this episode, Chris shares his eight-step plan for disciplining kids with grace. He walks through real moments from his own family, including what happens when anger shows up and how to lead through it. Drawing from Genesis 3, Chris shares what godly discipline looks like and why it’s about more than just behavior correction.

What You’ll Hear:
• What to do before disciplining your child
• Why expectations matter more than reactions
• How to tell the difference between first, second, and third-degree disobedience
• What it means to discipline with both love and clarity
• Why God’s discipline is the model for our parenting
Tune in for a practical way to discipline with peace and direction 

 Episode Resources:

1. Samaritan Ministries: https://samaritanministries.org/dadtired
2. Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate
3. Read The Dad Tired Book: https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
4. Invite Jerrad to speak: https://www.jerradlopes.com
5. Learn more: https://www.dadtired.com

In this episode, Jerrad talks with Danielle Hitchen, author of Sacred Seasons and founder of Catechesis Books. They explore what Advent means, how the Church has observed it through history, and how you can lead your family through it with simple, meaningful practices. Danielle offers both the why and the how helping you slow down, reflect, and lead your kids into the bigger story of God’s work.

What You’ll Hear:
• What Advent is and why it matters
• When it starts and how to explain it to your kids
• How to create new family traditions without adding pressure
• What a Jesse Tree and Advent wreath can teach your kids
• Why silence is one of the most overlooked disciplines
• How waiting can build longing and deeper trust in Jesus

 Tune in to help your family walk through Advent with truth.
Episode Resources:

1. Danielle’s Book – Sacred Seasons: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0736986476
2. Catechesis Books: https://www.catechesisbooks.com
3. Dwell Differently (use code DADTIRE for 10% off): https://www.dwelldifferently.com
4. Oelo Lighting (Permanent holiday lights): https://www.oelo.com
5. Read The Dad Tired Book: https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
6. Invite Jerrad to speak: https://www.jerradlopes.com
7. Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate

In this episode, Jerrad sits down with Jeremy Utley, author, speaker, and innovation expert from Stanford University. Jeremy is a husband, father of four girls, and a follower of Jesus. He shares how everyday men can walk into their jobs as disciples. Not just to work hard  but to be salt and light in their workplace.

They talk about:
 • How to have creative ideas without pressure
 • Why your work is not separate from your calling
 • What to do when you feel stuck in a job that drains you
 • How to build a culture of honesty and creativity
 • Why Jesus doesn't divide sacred and secular work
 • How dads can create small moments of discipleship at home

Tune in to hear how God can use you to make your workplace better and your family stronger.

Episode Resources:

1. Samaritan’s Purse Shoebox: https://samaritanspurse.org/buildonline
2. Oelo Lighting: https://www.oelo.com
3. Read The Dad Tired Book: https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
4. Invite Jerrad to speak: https://www.jerradlopes.com
5. Donate to support Dad Tired: https://www.dadtired.com/donate

Jerrad talks with author and teacher John Mark Comer about discipleship, spiritual formation, and what it takes to follow Jesus in a culture that often pulls in the opposite direction. John Mark explains why spiritual disciplines matter, how they shape a man’s heart, and why comfort and complexity keep many men stuck.

What You’ll Hear:
• Why most Christians are living in the gap between belief and practice
• How to become a disciple, not just a churchgoer
• What apprenticeship to Jesus looks like in real life
• How the Church lost sight of discipleship
• What John Mark learned living in Portland and LA
• Why slowing down is the starting point of spiritual growth

Tune in for a  talk about what it means to follow Jesus with your whole life.

Episode Resources:

1. John Mark Comer’s new book Practicing the Way: https://practicingtheway.org/book
2. Operation Christmas Child: https://samaritanspurse.org/occ
3. Oelo Lighting: https://www.oelo.com
4. Read The Dad Tired Book: https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
5. Donate to support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate
6. Invite Jerrad to speak: https://www.jerradlopes.com

In this episode, Jerrad tells the story of two lost phones, one rebellious toddler, and a dad learning how to discipline without shame. He unpacks how anger often takes over and why the real work of discipline starts with the heart. You’ll hear biblical truth, real stories, and practical advice for disciplining with love and consistency.

What You’ll Hear:
• Why discipline is more than behavior correction
• How sin always brings the death of something
• What it means to parent the heart, not just the behavior
• Why young kids need consistent consequences
• How older kids need deeper conversations
• The difference between discipline and anger

Episode Resources:

1. Operation Christmas Child – https://samaritanspurse.org/occ
2. Oelo Permanent Lighting – https://www.oelo.com
3. Read The Dad Tired Book – https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
4. Invite Jerrad to speak – https://www.jerradlopes.com
5. Support the ministry – https://www.dadtired.com/donate

Jerrad talks with Brent Dusing, founder and CEO of True Play. Brent shares why kids need more than just safe content but gospel-centered stories that shape their identity and worldview. They discuss parenting in the digital age, how predators use online games, and why the Church must meet kids where they are.

What You’ll Hear:
• How much time kids actually spend on screens
• Why safe content isn’t enough for Christian families
• How predators are using gaming platforms
• What good digital discipleship can look like
• Why boys are struggling to grow into godly men
• How tech can help share the gospel, not compete with it

Tune in to learn how to lead your family with wisdom in a digital world.

Episode Resources:

1. Download the True Play app: https://www.truplaygames.com
2. Brent’s recommended book – Boys Adrift by Leonard Sax
3. Watch Sound of Freedom
4. Read The Dad Tired Book: https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
5. Invite Jerrad to speak: https://www.jerradlopes.com
6. Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate

 Kaleb talks about leading in weakness. He shares a moment with his daughter that reminded him how much he needs God. He draws from 2 Corinthians 12 and shows why spiritual strength starts with honesty. Kaleb helps you see how staying present and trusting God can shape the way you lead.

What You’ll Hear:
• What it means to be frail but full
• Why kids need to see you depend on God
• How to lead from a place of weakness without shame
• Why honesty builds trust more than confidence
• How to ask for wisdom when you don’t have the answers
• Why grace leads better than striving ever could

Tune in for a reminder that your limits don’t disqualify you; they make room for God’s power.

Episode Resources:

1. Read 2 Corinthians 12:9
2. Operation Christmas Child: https://samaritanspurse.org/occ
3. Book – Boys Adrift by Leonard Sax
4. Dad Tired Conferences: https://www.dadtired.com/conferences
5. Read The Dad Tired Book: https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
6. Invite Jerrad to speak: https://www.jerradlopes.com
7. Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate

Jerrad answers a big question many Christian parents face each October ; what do we do with Halloween? He breaks down the history, looks at biblical teaching, and lays out three responses Christians can take: reject, receive, or redeem.   Tune in to lead your family with wisdom  through hard cultural questions. 

 What You’ll Hear:
• What the Bible says  and doesn’t say about Halloween
• The difference between clear commands and conscience issues
• How to use scripture to make wise decisions
• Why unity matters even when families land in different places
• What Christian liberty looks like in parenting
• How to guide your kids without confusion or fear

Episode Resources:

1. Join the Dad Tired Community: https://www.dadtired.com
2. Support the ministry: https://www.dadtired.com/donate
3. Read The Dad Tired Book: https://amzn.to/3YTz4GB
4. Bring a Dad Tired Conference to your church: https://www.dadtired.com/conferences
5. Learn more about Samaritan Ministries: https://samaritanministries.org/dadtired
6. Invite Jerrad to speak: https://www.jerradlopes.com