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Yehudah and Tamar
This portion tells the story of Yehuda and Tamar. Even though it appears right after the story of Yosef being sold by his brothers, it most likely didn't happen right after that (Chumash is often not chronological).
Nevertheless, the Chumash juxtaposes this story with the story of Yosef to highlight the fact that Yehuda was demoted from his leadership position amongst the brothers as a result of the selling of Yosef. Yehuda was the one who instigated the idea of selling Yosef and all the other brothers followed suit. They claimed that had Yehudah alternatively suggested that they bring Yosef back to their father Yaakov, they would have obeyed.
So the story begins with Yehuda leaving his brothers and forming a business partnership with an Adulamite man.
Yehuda sees the daughter of a prominent merchant name Shua and marries her.
They have three sons: Er, Onan and Shelah, who was born in Chezib (etymologically related to the word "fall", hinting at the fact that after him, Yehuda's wife ceased having children). The Breishis Rabbah writes that word Shelah means "stopped".
Yehuda marries his eldest, Er off to Tamar. Er fears that Tamar will lose her beauty if she becomes pregnant so he takes measures so that she won't conceive when they are together. As a result, Er dies as punishment from G-d.
Yehuda tells Onan to marry Tamar and beget offspring in his brother's stead. Onan doesn't like the idea of his children being considered his brothers and not his, so similarly, he takes measures so that she won't conceive when they are together. Onan too is punished by G-d and dies.
It seemed to be that every man who married Tamar would die.
Yehuda does not want his third son to marry her, but instead of stating that clearly, he tells Tamar that she should remain a widow until Selah grew up.
Yehuda's wife dies and Yehuda and his Adulamite colleague (named Hiroh) leave to Timna to check up on on Yehuda's sheep shearers.
Tamar becomes aware of this as well as the fact that although Shelah had now grown up, he still wasn't being proposed to her for marriage.
She really wanted to be a part of the family of Avraham and specifically to bear a child from Yehuda. So she removes her widow's garb and put on a veil and sits at a crossroads right in front of the tent of Avraham (which was a very visible spot since Avraham's tent was famous for his hospitality).
Yehuda passes by and didn't recognize her. When living at home, Tamar had been very modest and covered her face. Here at the crossroads, her face was exposed. He thought she was a harlot.
Yehuda says that he wants to be with her. She asks what he would give her in return. Yehuda replies that he would give her a goat from his flock. (As a side note, since Yehuda deceived with a goat (i.e. in dripping Yosef's robe in goat's blood), as shall be seen, he was similarly deceived with a goat). Tamar demands a security deposit. Yehuda asks her what she would like as a security deposit. Tamar replies that she would like his signet, wrap and staff. Yehuda agrees and they sleep together.
As a result of their union, Tamar gets pregnant. She removes her veil and garbs her widow clothing once again.
Yehuda sends his Adulamite friend to deliver the promised goat. However when Hiroh gets to the area he can't find her. He asks around about the "harlot who sits at the crossroads" but was told that there is no such person.
Hiroh returns to Yehuda and tells him what happened. Yehuda says that they should drop it since they've done all they can to find her and if they continued searching, it would be embarrassing for them. He says that she could just keep the items that he gave her as a security deposit.
Well into the first trimester of Tamar's pregnancy (somewhere in her 3rd month), Yehuda is told that Tamar had acted as a harlot and got pregnant as a result. Yehuda says they should take her out and burn her.
(Side note: Since one of the primary reasons for the flood was sexual immorality, there became a decree that any woman who was waiting for her brother in law to perform a levirate marriage with her and has illicit relations, must be put to death. Since Tamar was the daughter of a Cohen, her sentence was to be burned.)
As Tamar is being led out to be burned, she brings out the signet, the wrap and the staff, in full view of others and says to Yehuda, "It is by the person to whom these belong that I am pregnant."
Rather than embarrass Yehuda by outing him outright in public, she gave him the opportunity to step forth and confess. It is from here that we learn that it is better to throw oneself into a fiery furnace than to embarrass someone in public.
In asking Yehuda to "recognize" the items that she brought out, she was asking Yehuda to "recognize" G-d and spare her and the twins growing instead of her. This recognition of G-d would have to be extra strong insofar that she did bring out the items in full view which meant that in order to admit to what happened, Yehuda would have to do so in public.
Yehuda steps up to the plate and admits that she is right and either Yehudah or some say a Heavenly voice declares that Yehuda is the father of her unborn children and states that Tamar acted justly insofar as Yehuda refrained from granting his son Shelah to her. The text seems to read that he never was intimate with her again, however some commentaries interpret just the opposite and say that it means that he never stopped being intimate with her.
According to the interpretation that it was a Heavenly Voice which declared that Tamar conceived through Yehuda, this was a sign that the entire episode was Divine Providence and that in the merit of Tamar being modest while living in her father in law's house, she merited to have kings come from her, and kings had been decreed to come out of the tribe of Yehuda, so their union was inevitable.
Tamar gives birth to two righteous twins, prematurely, at 7.5 months.
During the birth, one of the babies sticks it's hand out. The midwife ties a red string around its hand and says "this one was born first".
After having the string tied around his hand, he goes back in, and the second twin bursts forth. The midwife exclaims "How you burst forth with such strength!" And his name thus became Peretz (lit. "to burst forth")
Then comes the other twin (the one with the red string tied around him) and he is called Zerach (lit. "Brightness").
Side note: the word "hand" is written in this section 4x alluding to the greed of one of Zerach's descendants named Achan. Achan violated 4 bans. One of which was against taking spoils from Jericho from which he took 4 things: A Babylonian cloak, 2 pieces of silver weighing of 200 shekelim, and a gold ingot.
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