Several years ago, I set a goal to hike the highest peak in my area in Utah – 11,000 feet. The challenge that faced me was that I had just had a heart attack caused by stress and the doctor had told me my heart would never be pumping at its full capacity.
You can read my full story in any of my books, the part of the story I wish to share today is the setback before the victory.
I had decided to walk a half-marathon that was a cross country race, set on a smaller mountain. My thought was that if I couldn’t do it, there would be help along the way and I would be able to gauge my readiness for my real goal (the 11,000 peak) based on how my body responded during the half-marathon.
The morning of the race, it was cold and drizzly rain. I had paid my entrance fee and I even had a friend who was going to do the race with me. I stayed in bed, my friend raced…alone.
I cannot even describe the feeling of shame and guilt that I felt for days after that race. Having to face my friend, and explain that I was afraid.
Another good friend noticed my down-cast energy one day and shared a powerful lesson with me. If I throw an arrow towards a target it doesn’t go very far. But if I pull a bowstring back and release the arrow, it flies much more straight and true towards the target. Even though there is no forward motion on my part, I have created momentum that cannot be matched.
The rest of the story is that I used that lesson to help me stay true to my goal. When I awoke the morning of my mountain hike, it was not only cold and drizzly, it was a full-on lightning storm with torrents of rain pounding on the roof of our home!
There was no hesitation. I said: “I’m going!”
It rained for 20 minutes in the parking lot at the trail head, then the rain let up for just a moment. I jumped out of the car with my hiking buddy and we started up the trail. I ended up being a beautiful sunny fall day, bright and clear and freshly washed by the rainstorm. The autumn colors shone true and pure.
If not for the setback and feeling the guilt and shame of not following through. I am certain that I would not have completed my hike that day. The result of having the setback was renewed commitment and a do or die attitude that was part of my journey to full recovery from my heart attack.
I am so grateful for setbacks. I believe they must be part of our journey because it seems that they show up at the most critical moments, and teach us exactly what we need to be successful when it truly matters most.
New Ideas to Consider:
- I do my part
- I am dependable
- I learn the lessons and I am prepared for what is next
- I take action
- I see every part of my journey as necessary and perfect
- I am ready and prepared to move on
- I am ready for the next lesson
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