Dating Beyond Borders

Dating Beyond Borders

By Marina IakovlevaSociety & CultureRelationships
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Dating Beyond Borders episodes

  • Ep. 116 - She Escaped Saudi Arabia: Why Western Feminism Now Worries Her (Ft. Jasmine Faulk)

    In this episode of Dating Beyond Borders, writer Jasmine Faulk shares her experiences growing up in Saudi Arabia, from strict expectations around modesty and gender roles to dating, sexuality, and women's rights.

    We discuss how moving to America changed her perspective, why she's alarmed by some Western feminist attitudes toward Islam, and what she believes the West misunderstands about women's freedom.

    A candid and emotional conversation about Saudi culture, relationships, identity, and the contradictions of modern feminism.

    Say hi to Jasmin: https://www.instagram.com/jasmin.faulk/

    Read her book: https://sl1nk.com/keg9r9k

    Each week I will interview guests from all around the world on the topics of culture, connection and of course, dating. The goal is to go as deep as possible and to really understand where we all come from and how much culture influences our life.Want to join the mailing list? https://datingbeyondborders.eo.page/newsletterSay hi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingbeyondbordersDating Beyond Borders channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/datingbeyondborders

    1 hr 41 min
  • Ep. 112 - Why French Movies Hate Happy Endings ... And What It Says About France (Ft. Lost in Frenchlation)

    Can movies really reveal how a culture thinks and loves? While Hollywood is built on neat happy endings and grand romance, French cinema embraces unsaid tension, bittersweet realism, and the beauty of everyday messiness.Filmmaker Manon, co-founder of Lost in Frenchlation, joins us to explore French culture through cinema.

    Say hi to Manon: https://www.instagram.com/lostinfrenchlation/

    Each week I will interview guests from all around the world on the topics of culture, connection and of course, dating. The goal is to go as deep as possible and to really understand where we all come from and how much culture influences our life.Want to join the mailing list? https://datingbeyondborders.eo.page/newsletterSay hi on Instagram:  @DatingBeyondBorders  Dating Beyond Borders channel:  @DatingBeyondBorders ​

    1 hr 3 min
  • Ep. 115 - Why It's So Hard to Socialize in America: Cars, Suburbs & Third Spaces (Ft. Bobby in Space)

    In this episode, I sit down with Bobby in Space to talk about how the places we live shape our social lives, our relationships, and our ability to connect with others.From cities built around cars instead of people, to sprawling suburbs where you have to plan every interaction, we explore how modern environments can make spontaneous connection increasingly difficult.

    We get into the importance of third spaces, what happens when neighbourhoods lack places to gather, and why simply being surrounded by people doesn't necessarily mean you feel connected to them.

    We also discuss the appeal of 15-minute cities, how urban design influences our everyday interactions, and a question many of us have considered: Can moving abroad actually solve your problems, or do you end up taking some of them with you?

    Say hi to Bobby: https://www.instagram.com/bobbyinspace/

    Each week I will interview guests from all around the world on the topics of culture, connection and of course, dating. The goal is to go as deep as possible and to really understand where we all come from and how much culture influences our life.Want to join the mailing list? https://datingbeyondborders.eo.page/newsletterSay hi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingbeyondbordersDating Beyond Borders channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/datingbeyondborders

    1 hr 15 min
  • Ep. 114 - Brit in Russia: Gender Roles, Directness and Culture Shock

    What happens when someone from Manchester, England, moves to St. Petersburg, Russia, and never leaves?


    In this episode, I sit down with British author and blogger Craig Ashton, who first arrived in Russia as a university student in 2002. We talk about the differences between British politeness and Russian directness, rewriting the male to female dynamics, why British humour doesn't translate in Russia and what it’s like to build a life in a country where you’ll always be a bit of an outsider.


    We also explore how language shapes the way we think and communicate, and why being more direct can sometimes make connecting with people easier.


    Say hi to Craig: https://www.instagram.com/craigenglishspb/


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    Say hi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingbeyondborders

    Dating Beyond Borders channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/datingbeyondborders

    1 hr 22 min
  • Ep. 113 - Australian in America: Rudeness, Tall Poppy Syndrome & Friendship

    What happens when an Australian moves to America and discovers that speaking the same language doesn’t mean sharing the same culture?

    I sat down with an Australian who has lived in the US for years to talk about everything from politeness, humour and friendship to status, dating, customer service and Tall Poppy Syndrome.

    Why can Australian directness come across as rude in America? Why are Americans more comfortable talking about success? Why do Australians sometimes insult the people they love?

    We also get into what surprised him most when he first arrived, what America has changed about him, and what now feels strange when he goes back to Australia.

    Say hi to Michael: https://www.youtube.com/ ⁨@FromDownUndertoDownSouth⁩ 

    Each week I will interview guests from all around the world on the topics of culture, connection and of course, dating. The goal is to go as deep as possible and to really understand where we all come from and how much culture influences our life.

    Join the newsletter for cultural insights sent your way: https://datingbeyondborders.eo.page/newsletter

    Say hi on Instagram: / datingbeyondborders

    Dating Beyond Borders channel: / datingbeyondborders

    1 hr
  • Ep. 112 - From the UK to Italy to Amazonia: Does Privacy Make Us Lonely? (Ft. Dr. Cami)

    What does it mean to be polite? How much privacy do we actually need? And why can something that feels completely normal in one culture seem completely bizarre in another?

    In this episode, I sit down with anthropologist Dr. Cami Morelli to compare three very different approaches to communication, boundaries, family, sharing, and relationships.

    We talk about why Brits say “sorry” and “thank you” so much, why Italian family and friends can be much more involved in your personal life, and what Dr. Cami discovered while doing fieldwork in Amazonia, where ideas about privacy, sharing, and even romantic relationships can be very different from what most of us are used to.

    Say hi to Dr. Cami: https://www.instagram.com/drcamimorelli/

    Each week I will interview guests from all around the world on the topics of culture, connection and of course, dating. The goal is to go as deep as possible and to really understand where we all come from and how much culture influences our life.

    Want to join the mailing list? https://datingbeyondborders.eo.page/newsletter

    Say hi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingbeyondbordersDating Beyond Borders channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/datingbeyondborders

    1 hr 5 min
  • Ep. 111 - Why You Misread Your Partner: How Culture Changes the Way We Express Emotion (Ft. David Matsumoto)

    How much of what we think we’re “reading” in someone is actually shaped by our own culture?

    In this episode of Dating Beyond Borders, I’m joined by Dr. David Matsumoto, a leading expert on emotions, body language, microexpressions, and cross-cultural psychology.

    We talk about how culture shapes emotional expression, why we misread people when dating across cultures, what silence can communicate, and whether microexpressions really reveal what someone is feeling.

    If you’ve ever wondered why someone’s smile, eye contact, silence, or body language can mean completely different things across cultures, this conversation is for you.

    David's contact://www.humintell.com/Each week I will interview guests from all around the world on the topics of culture, connection and of course, dating. The goal is to go as deep as possible and to really understand where we all come from and how much culture influences our life.Want to join the mailing list? https://datingbeyondborders.eo.page/newsletterSay hi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingbeyondbordersDating Beyond Borders channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/datingbeyondborders

    1 hr 7 min
  • Ep. 110 - Living in Europe Changed How She Sees Americans (Ft. Roya Fox)

    Why do Europeans often think Americans are "fake"? And why does a simple compliment carry an entirely different weight in France compared to the US?

    In this episode of the Dating Beyond Borders podcast, I sit down with content creator Roya Fox to unpack what living abroad reveals about the American mindset.

    When you leave your home country, you start seeing your own culture from the outside. In this conversation, we dive into the hidden mechanics of American social norms: the baseline pressure of constant positivity, the contrast between high-context and low-context communication, the blunt honesty of European feedback and much more.

    Say hi to Roya: https://www.instagram.com/royaventurera/

    Each week I will interview guests from all around the world on the topics of culture, connection and of course, dating. The goal is to go as deep as possible and to really understand where we all come from and how much culture influences our life.

    Want to join the mailing list? https://datingbeyondborders.eo.page/newsletter

    Say hi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingbeyondbordersDating Beyond Borders channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/datingbeyondborders

    1 hr 21 min
  • Ep. 109 - Living in America Changed the Way He Sees Germany (Ft. Tobi Harms)

    Why do Germans often say America has "no culture"? And why is negativity seen as a sign of intelligence in Germany? In this episode, I chat with Tobi Harms, a German expat who moved to the US for love, to explore the deep mentality differences between German and American culture.

    Moving beyond classic tropes like punctuality, bread, and hiking, we unpack the psychological reality of living abroad: the German superiority complex, American optimism vs. German skepticism, small talk, making friends, and how living in America completely shifted his view of his home country.

    Say hi to Tobi: https://www.instagram.com/tobiharms1/

    Each week I will interview guests from all around the world on the topics of culture, connection and of course, dating. The goal is to go as deep as possible and to really understand where we all come from and how much culture influences our life.Sign up the newsletter: https://datingbeyondborders.eo.page/newsletterSay hi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingbeyondbordersDating Beyond Borders channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/datingbeyondborders

    1 hr
  • Ep. 108 - The Male Loneliness Epidemic in China: Why 30 Million Men Can’t Find Love (Ft. Violet Du Feng)

    Watch the preview here: Watch the preview here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-UjDPE2Dbjc

    China is facing a growing male loneliness crisis, with more than 30 million men who may never find a partner or marry.

    Filmmaker Violet Du Feng takes us inside the crisis: from male dating bootcamps in Chongqing to rising bride prices that put marriage out of reach for many working-class men.

    We explore how the One-Child Policy shaped this imbalance and what it means for a generation of Chinese men struggling to find love and connection.

    Say hi to Violet: https://www.instagram.com/violetdufeng/

    Each week I will interview guests from all around the world on the topics of culture, connection and of course, dating. The goal is to go as deep as possible and to really understand where we all come from and how much culture influences our life.Want to join the mailing list? https://datingbeyondborders.eo.page/newsletterSay hi on Instagram: @datingbeyondbordersDating Beyond Borders channel:  ⁨@DatingBeyondBorders⁩ 

    52 min

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