Men and women are very different when dating; from their way of thinking to them process their thoughts. But, there is also a common denominator that connects them both. Their pursuit to not be alone.

These days, if you’re single, your most likely going to be on a dating app. Dating apps are a great way to meet a lot of people, that you usually would never give the time and day too. But, let’s put that aside for a moment and focus on why you are on a dating app.

This article, I focus on Men, and how they are maybe going about losing potential matches, due to their bad habits, sad past, insecurity, or lack of attention/knowledge to details towards a potential life-partner.

Like in my article, “How To Lose A Guy In 5 Secs,” where I focused on what women were doing, this article will focus on men. Yes, it does take two to tango.

Here is a bit of context into my research. I’ve spoken to over hundreds of women. Texted also, hundreds of women, and from these women, I also got the first-hand look into their experiences on these dating apps with men. And it wasn’t pleasant. So needless to say, I needed to reach out to my fellow men out there, and have a beer talk about, what the heck is going on in their heads.

So let’s break it down with what men are doing that they shouldn’t be on these dating apps:

Dating Tips & Advice For Men:

* Shirtless photos: Men, please keep your shirts on. Even if your dream is to be a male stripper, dating apps are not the way to impress women. That would be a fetish site.* Muscle car photos: Men, women have spoken out loudly about how this is an extreme turn off. Unless you’re looking for Gold Diggers, and they are looking for you, you’ll Match up great. Otherwise, lose the car photos from your profiles.* Pictures Of You Not In Them: Listen, women are not interested in looking at pictures of where you’ve travelled when your not in them. They can view them on Google search all day long.* Pictures with Animals: Men, women are freaking out when they see you up too close and personal with your dogs, cats or any animal. It’s rather strange, and I know women do it also, but it doesn’t mean you need to do it too. Some men are showing off animal kills, and so on, it’s just shocking.* Bathroom pictures: When I heard men doing that, I was shocked, as I always heard men making fun of women taking those pictures. I guess the shoe’s on the other foot this time. Guys, WTF, cut that out. Get out of the bathroom and don’t raise that one eyebrow. I know its tempting, you’re not “The Rock!”* No Profile Photo: This is a big one. Women do it too but come on guys. That’s no cool. Don’t be lazy, put a photo up; otherwise, no one will respond.* Stop texting Dick pics: Men, this is just stupid. What’s wrong with you guys! Your making the Good guys look bad. Some women are still recovering from those Dick pics, and have stopped giving out their numbers. If that’s not enough, you start asking for nudes from women you just met.* Ghosting: Men, so if you can’t send Dick pics, or hook up with a woman, or can’t get away with lying, you’re going to ghost them? That’s not right or cool on any level. Communicate honestly; it goes a long way!* No Profile Description: Men, women can’t read your minds. So write something, which is not stupid and more than a few words. It will go a long way to helping you meet your partner.

The list is long on the things men do on dating apps. I’m not an expert by any means,