Dating Like A Goddess

Hello, Goddess,

On today's episode, we're going to talk about The Goddess is accountable, which has been inspired by one of my clients at the love school, and she was saying, Penny, why do you want me to post on the accountability thread is it not enough that I'm here and doing the work and healing, and I was saying to her, you have to go on there because The girls that are using the accountability threads are the ones that are achieving the success.

it's become really clear that everyone that is getting engaged and married at The Love School they are the heavy hitters. They are hitting the accountability thread.

For the 1st year, because it was the year of the pandemic, we didn't have accountability but in 2021, when finally, the pandemic was over, and the members were able to put the stuff into practice, that is when the success started, that's when we started to do the accountability, as a regular feature at the law school.

In 2022, we started to get the engagements and the weddings.

We got another marriage coming up next week!!! I'm so happy! 🎉

And who are these girls getting married?

The girls that show up for themselves.

I made a list of things that I've seen that work really well, how it works, and how accountability is very important and then you can also do it yourself and become self-accountable so if you want to become a success, listen up 🎧

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Hello Goddess,

Today we are going to talk about "The Goddess doesn't compare herself".

This podcast has been prompted by one of my clients, who actually suggested it based on something that she's going through herself, and this is the message she sent to me:

I recently learned about someone who's been engaged for four years, and she moved with him, just hanging out, waiting until they get married, washing his dirty underwear and warming up his bed.

My sister followed her high school boyfriend to a college she didn't choose. When they graduated, he was dragging his feet about getting married. She had to threaten him and say, look, are we getting married or not? Even though they had talked about it.

I'm shaking my head because he controls everything, including the money, even though he makes a lot of it.

I know of other stories where women just hang around, make the first move, follow the man without commitment, worship the man, and then end up getting married.

I'm not sure whether to blame her or him for being lazy and inviting women to audition to be their wives. I would never want this for myself. I always hold my standards and I'm always holding men up to their standard.

Still, it gets difficult sometimes to watch this because while holding high standards, there is a part of me that whines; it's so unfair!!!

We have all been there. I know the rules work, and I will continue to do them. Still, I am tired of seeing these women auditioning to be wives, hanging around, acting like a wife with no commitment, and then getting married eventually. I know many of these marriages are unhappy and end up in divorce, but it's still difficult to watch whilst you are holding high standards.

I have a feeling that this was easier to do back in the day instead of now when you see tons of women literally running after one man and the bachelor.

It just gets to Me once in a while. I would love to hear your wisdom on a podcast about holding the rule standard, being the ultimate payoff to a happy life. Thanks.

Thank you, my love, for posting this awesome question because I think this is something that we all feel, including myself. And I will tell you the reason why on this podcast, so click play to listen 🎧

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Hello Goddess.

In this week's episode, we are going to talk about the Goddess is mysterious. There are so many reasons why we want to be mysterious as feminine women.

For me and my clients, the most important reason is to protect yourself because masculine energy is all the time trying to outsmart you, to take advantage of you. Because masculine energy is going to be all the time trying to get information from you so that he can use it to his advantage. Because he wants to get the girl, right? And that's not a bad thing.

But you need to protect yourself from that as well. Because not all masculine energy is good. You don't know this person yet at the beginning of the dating journey; you don't know this guy. You don't know what his intentions are. So the best strategy is to be mysterious and remain mysterious until his intentions have been revealed.

We are pretty honest. We wear our hearts on our sleeves. We want to be authentic, right? There is this big word out there that we have to be authentic, and we have to be honest.

And especially if honesty is high up on your values, you want to be honest, and you feel like being mysterious is lying to the guy. But me being mysterious is just a matter of being smart, and it's a matter of protecting yourself.

If you want to be a smart cookie, protect yourself, and be irresistibly mysterious in his eyes, this podcast is for you 💕

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Hello, Goddess.

In today's episode, we are going to talk about the goddess has power.

This is something so very important to keep in mind when you are learning about being in your feminine energy.

Here's what happens. We are brought up in this masculine patriarchal world, and we carry so much trauma with us, which puts ups on our masculine energy. We carry so much trauma with us that make us hyper-independent. We carry so much trauma with us that makes us never ask for help and always have to do everything ourselves that sometimes leaning back in your feminine energy just feels like such an unsafe place to be. You feel vulnerable, and you've you feel like you're a sitting duck. And you feel like you're sitting in your hands. I've heard all ways of putting this feeling to work.

And Yes. You are going to feel like this, but the reason that you feel like this is not your feminine energy but trauma and your wounds coming forward.

Being in your feminine energy is going to allow for all your triggers to come out. It is going to allow for all your traumas to come out and your wounds to come out because you are not hyperactive, masking all your emotions anymore.

Your real feelings are going to come out. All these being busy, busy, busy Is a survival coping mechanism you have created to cope with your uncomfortable feelings.

The perfect cover-up for your wounds, your trauma and your hurt feelings.

So leaning back in your feminine energy is like you were taking the lid off and uncovering the place where you have been stuffing all your real feelings.

It's going to hurt, and it's going to suck; it's going to feel very uncomfortable and unsafe, which is why most women fail in their attempts to live a feminine energy life.

But listen to my podcast for a few mindset shifts that you can do that will make the transformation less painful.

Listen now 💕

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Hello Goddess,

In this episode, we're going to talk about The Goddess trusts the process.

This is all about having faith, trusting the process and remembering that the universe has your back.

When you're living the Goddess life, you're not controlling, you're not pushing, you're not manipulating, you're not forcing, you're not making things happen, you're not trying to prove anything, you're not selling anything, you're not convincing anyone or anything, you're not trying to fit a square peg in a round hole.

Instead, you're allowing, you're surrendering to the universe, you're trusting, you're having faith and you know, YOU KNOW, that your manifestation is on its way.

You know that the universe is working overtime for you to make it happen.

You know that the universe is conspiring to bring you what you want.

What do you do in the meantime?

Listen to this episode for a few tips 💕

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Hello beautiful,

In this episode of "Dating like a Goddess," we delve into the importance of accepting yourself, accepting reality and accepting others to live the Goddess life.

I share my personal account of why I didn't accept myself for the longest time, and if you relate, my experience might help you.

We explore how rediscovering the parts of yourself that you abandoned as a child can lead to self-acceptance and beautiful self love and transformation.

And just as important to learn to accept others for who they are and not for their potential, but for who they are.

Rather than trying to people please or become someone you're not, acceptance will lead you to authenticity and true transformation; by accepting reality and yourself, you can unlock the true power of the goddess within.

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Hello goddesses, In this episode of Dating Like a Goddess, we're going to talk about respect. We always want the guy to respect us; We want people to respect us; we want people to think highly of us. But we must realize that the responsibility of respect falls on us. If you don't respect yourself, then people will not respect you back. So what is self-respect anyway? Self-respect is treating yourself with care. Self-respect is staying true to your authentic self. Self-respect is staying true to your values. Self-respect is knowing your worth and acting accordingly. The thing is that originally children learn self-respect from their parents. They see the parents respecting each other, and if you didn't grow up with your parents, from your primary caregivers, or whoever that was. So we watch our primary caregivers respecting each other, and then we watch our primary caregivers respecting us, and then they get respect back. But what I see a lot of is that a lot of women don't grow up with respect, so they are very good at respecting others, but they are not very good at getting respect because they don't know what that looks like. Because growing up in abusive households or households where your parents were really busy and didn't give you a lot of time and dedication or households where there are mental health problems or where there are drugs and alcohol problems. Households where there is a lot of misogyny, meaning the male of the family gets all the respect and the woman doesn't get any respect. What happens is that the woman in any of these cases will grow up not knowing self-respect because she has never been allowed to respect herself. She's always been demanded to give respect to others, but whenever she has put boundaries, or she has tried to get self-respect, she has been told one way or another that she's not worthy of respect. If this situation sounds familiar, then this podcast is for you 💕

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Hello Goddess,

Hello Goddess! In today's episode, we are going to talk about the Aphrodite goddess.

You probably are wondering what an Aphrodite goddess is.

You may be aware that currently, at The Love School, which is my monthly membership, we are doing the feminine energy archetypes, and we all have within us 12 main archetypes.

Some of these archetypes may be more dominant within you, and some are less dormant, depending on your personality, upbringing, age, and life stage.

We are currently covering the Lover Archetype.

The Lover Archetype is represented in Greek mythology by the Aphrodite goddess.

That's why I'm calling this episode the Aphrodite Goddess, and I want to give you a little snippet of what we are doing at the love school.

We'll discuss the lover's unique traits, strengths, and potential challenges.

My goal is to empower you to recognize and embrace your inner lover archetype so that you can experience more fulfilling relationships and a greater sense of self-love by:

Understanding your archetype

Unleashing the Power of Your Archetype

Learn to embrace your archetype and stop repressing it.

Identify the shadow side of your archetype

How to nourish its strengths

How to work on its weaknesses.

By tapping into your inner lover, you can create the foundations for lasting, fulfilling relationships that meet your needs without losing yourself and staying authentic.

I hope you'll take away some valuable insights on how to embrace your inner lover 💕

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Hello Goddess,

Last week I asked you to share what you were struggling with and i would create a podcast episode just for you and I got the best question because I'm sure that lots of you have also felt this way at some point or another. God knows I have:

"I'm currently exercising and seriously getting in shape and healthy for both my own health and aesthetic reasons.

But the feminist in me says: Hey, why can't men like me for who I am and not for how I look?

I have a brain and a personality that no amount of looks or boobs can replace.

That inner voice crops up every so often with a sour grapes argument.

It's me trying to protect myself, but it's also me trying to embrace the feminine energy without losing my true self.

I would love another way to think about this so when this voice pops up again, I can deal with it."

Listen to this week's podcast to learn how you can achieve your goals, whether they're body goals, or relationship goals, with the power of intention whilst loving yourself and staying true to your values and your authentic self.

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Hello Goddess 💕

Today we are going to talk about the Goddess has an abundance mindset.

And what is an abundance mindset?

For me, the best way to understand this kind of terminology is to understand what the exact opposite of abundance means.

So what is the opposite of abundance?

It means lack; it means scarcity.

And if you think about the words that describe lack and scarcity is like there is not enough.

I don't have enough.

There is always this feeling that there is never enough to go around.

There is not enough for everyone, so you have to fight for what you want, and you have to compete to get the one thing.

In the feminine energy world, this kind of mindset is very damaging, and in this podcast, I explain why and what you can do about it that worked for me 💕

Recommended reading

💕 The Magic by Rhonda Byrnes

💕 The Rules for Dating by Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider

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