Dating Like A Goddess

This a Podcast for The Romantic Goddess wanting to learn to date the high-value way in order to magnetise her divine masculine man and manifest the relationship of her dreams.

💕 If you want to awaken the confident, intuitive and creative Goddess within you. 💕 If you want to awaken your inner feminine strength and wisdom. 💕 If you want to be the goddess who doesn't chase. 💕 If you want to be the goddess who attracts. 💕 Who magnetises, who creates her own life. 💕 If you want to be the goddess who attracts her equal. 💕 If you want to be the goddess who doesn't settle 💕 If you want to attract a high-value healthy masculine man who you can respect and admire, who will love you, adore you and cherish you, respect and support you, lift you up and make you feel safe in your feminine energy. 💕 A man that knows your worth and treats you like the Queen you are. 💕 The king that you deserve

Then this podcast is for you.

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I already gave you a little clue last week that we would be talking about boundaries in this episode because it's a very important part of being your goddess self; it's a very important part of being feminine energy, and it's a very important part of being high value that you must, must, must, must, must, must, must, must, must have strong boundaries.

Having boundaries in your relationships is gonna have several purposes, and one of them it's gonna help you to define who you are as a person and who he is as another person so that you don't lose yourself in the relationship and you don't lose who you are in the process.

Having boundaries also it's going to help you to see if he's the one, and to see if he's a good person, if he loves you. If he respects you, if he respects who you are, if he respects your time

You are giving him the chance to show you that you matter to him by him respecting your boundaries.

The first time I read about boundaries, it was in the rules books

And then, when I was trying to do the rules and follow the rules books, I found that boundaries were the most difficult thing in the world because boundaries were not taught to me as a child like normal people are so, if you are like me, you never had boundaries before because you know what they are because they were never modelled to you and nobody taught you, this is a great time to learn about boundaries and to put them into practice while you are dating before you meet the guy.

And if you already have met someone, then it's really good for you that you start to implement boundaries before you commit to the guy.

And if you already have made a commitment to the guy, then it's really good that you begin to put boundaries in place to see if he's the one.

And if you already know that your guy is the one, then you wouldn't be listening to this podcast, so I will not continue down that road. Lol.

So to see how boundaries are gonna help you, I'm just gonna give you a few tips on how you can begin today to practice boundaries.

So if you are single and dating, you probably are on dating apps. Dating apps are the perfect place for you to practice boundaries for the first time.

If this is not your first time, it is gonna be a good opportunity to practice boundaries as a high value woman.

So let's imagine that you are on Tinder.

If you're following my advice, you already have upgraded to Tinder Gold, and you are matching with guys who really liked you and they have messaged you first and when replaying, you are not going to reply in nanoseconds; you are not gonna straight away drop everything and reply to the guy. But instead, you're gonna take your time.

I normally advise my clients to like wait for the next day.

So let's say it's Monday. So you're gonna wait to reply on Tuesday.

The second way that you can implement boundaries is if he sends you a text message that has four or five words; for example, he says, hey, how are you? Then you're not gonna reply to him: Oh hi.I am great.I'm so glad that I hear from you.

You're not gonna tell him your life, you're gonna have boundaries, and you're gonna reply exactly what he says.

Another boundary is you're not gonna text with the guy forever. There is no need. A masculine guy who sees what he likes. He's not gonna, he doesn't want a pen pal, he wants to date you. He wants to meet you. He wants to see the girl.

So with that information, I know that if the guy just texts you forever, it means that he's not that into you.

So there's no point in wasting your time texting and texting guys that are not asking you out.

Give him a handful of messages and allow him to ask you out.

But if in a handful of messages, he's not asking you out, then you're gonna put a boundary in place, and you are going to start ignoring his messages.

When you start ignoring messages, he's gonna be like:

hey, how are you?

Are you there?

Happy Monday.

Happy Wednesday.

Happy weekend.

What are you doing this weekend?

You're going to ignore, ignore, ignore, ignore all the messages and wait till he asks you out, and he's gonna either ask you out or continue texting you rubbish.

If he gets too annoying, you can just unmatch him or delete him.

And if he asks you out, then you reply to his date request.

But do not text the guy for ages. There is no need.

A guy that likes what he sees he's going to ask you out straight away.

He's gonna ask you out on the second, on the third message.

So he's not going to be texting forever.

And remember in the first episode we said, what do you want? Do you want a partner?

You don't want a pen pal.

So you must be in integrity with yourself and stick to what you want.

That's why that was the first episode, it is so important that you know what you want, you want a partner, you don't want a pen pal.

Another way to put boundaries in place it's, let's say, that you have exchange numbers. He's asked you out, you exchange numbers, and he's gonna call you, right?

So don't be on the phone with him all night. Don't be like in the movies.

In the movies, the girl is like:

"It's so romantic that we talked for hours."

"We told each other our lives."

No, you're not gonna do that. You're not gonna tell him your life. You're not going to be on the phone for hours.

You're going to give him 10 minutes, and in 10 minutes, you're gonna say:

"Well, it was great talking to you, but I have to get going because, you know, I am busy doing this and tha"

You got a life.

You're a woman of high value.

You can be all day to be talking to him

Especially if he's not asking you out.

Imagine if you talk to him all night, and he's not even thinking about asking you out on a date.

You just wasted a whole evening on a guy who is not into you. He just wants a little bit of entertainment; he is just lonely and wants to chat with someone on the phone.

You are not the Samaritans. You're not here to chat with bored guys.

So we're not going to be doing that.

You're gonna give him 10 minutes, and you're going to end the phone call.

And what's gonna happen is that when you end the phone call, that will remind him of the purpose of his call and he will be like:

"Oh, wait, how about, you know, a drink?"

It will actually remind him what the reason why he called you in the first place.

Another way that you're gonna put on boundaries is the same way that you're not gonna spend hours on the phone with him, you're not gonna be on a date with this guy all night.

So in your very, very, very, very first date, if he asked you out on a coffee, you're gonna go out, drink your coffee and go home.

You're gonna end the date when you end the coffee.

If he asks you out for a drink, you drink your drink and go home.

If he asks you out on a dinner date, then you're gonna go have your dinner, skip desert end the date and go home.

You're not going to be with him all night.

The rules for dating say don't spend with him longer than two hours on the first date, but sometimes you don't even need to spend two hours because if he just bought you a coffee, what the hell are you doing in two hours with a guy sitting there with a cold coffee? Or with an empty cup?

It's just ridiculous that you stay with him for two hours.

And lastly, another way that you can put boundaries that will really help you, especially if you are listening to this episode and you already are in a relationship, it's not to date him forever.

If he likes you and if he loves you, if you are his dream girl, he will want to commit, and you don't need to convince him, and you don't need to date him forever for him to make a commitment with you.

So if you are at the beginning of the relationship and you were just dating, stay dating others until he asked you to be his boyfriend.

If it's gone three months and he's not claiming you, then it's time to end the relationship and continue dating others. Do not date this guy forever.

And, let's say that you are in a relationship with a guy, do not stay in a relationship with him forever.

If what you want is a life partner, you want to get married, and you want to create a family, then do not be in a relationship with him forever.

How long you stay with him is gonna really depend on your age.

If you are 18 years old is not going to be the same as, for example, me, I'm 47. So it's not going to be the same. Men know very, very, very soon whether they want to marry you or not, so there is absolutely no reason why you should be dating this guy forever.

If you are anything like old me used to be, you are gonna listen to this podcast, and fear is gonna set in because you're gonna think, oh my God, if I put boundaries, then he's never gonna ask me out. He's never gonna date me.

This fear is absolutely valid.

But I invite you to work through your fear.

This was very much my case.

I was so scared to put boundaries in place because I didn't think that I was worthy.

I thought if I put boundaries, the guy is going to dump me, the guy that is not gonna want to date me, the guy will not want to see me.

And that is going to be very much the truth when he's not the one, when you put boundaries in place, this guy is not going to be interested in you.

But when the guy really likes you, he will not care. It's not that he won't care about your boundaries, but he will respect your boundaries.

And a guy who is not interested in you he's gonna be just thinking about himself and go like, oh, who does she think she is?

But a guy who likes you, he is going to think. Oh, sure. Of course. She's busy, she has a life, and she's a busy woman. She's got a really good job. She's a single mom. She's got responsibilities. She's a woman of high value. She's got hobbies, and I am not the only thing in his life. It's okay for her to have other things going on in her life.

So, can you see the difference in energy with the guy who's not interested at all and the guy who is just thinking about himself?

He's all about me, me, me, me, me and the guy who's a really good guy, he's gonna judge you kindly, like, oh, she's busy. She's got a life.

But a guy who, who is, you know, more narcissistic and he's only thinking about himself, is gonna judge you harshly and say, who does she think she is?

So you want to date the good guy instead of dating the guy who doesn't give a shit about what you got going on, that you might be busy, that you might have all the responsibilities and that you might already have plans and things like that.

You are going to have boundaries, and that is going to allow you to see who he is.

Having boundaries is the best, best thing that I have ever learned because having boundaries:

It's gonna save you so much time.

It's gonna save you so much energy.

It's gonna save your dignity

it's gonna save you from being with the wrong guy.

It's also gonna save you from dangerous guys.

It's going to save you from men who don't care about you.

It's gonna save you from narcissistic men.

It's gonna save you from toxic relationships.

It's gonna save you from dating the wrong man forever.

So having boundaries is the best thing that you will ever learn.

it was the best thing that I ever learned

And in particular, if you are an empath, if you are a nice girl, if you identify with being a people pleaser, right? So if you are any of these kinds of personalities, then boundaries are gonna save you so much; it's not gonna be easy, but it's gonna be so much worth it.

And I'll tell you what. it's worth it because you are worth it.

If you are new to boundaries, I'm going to learn a bit more about boundaries, I really recommend you to get either my boundaries masterclass, which is called The Feminine Art Of Creating Beautiful Boundaries or get yourself my boundaries course, which is called The Beautiful Art Of Feminine Boundaries.

The masterclass is just the one class, (it's a few hours long) and the course is a series of classes, I break down boundaries for you so that you understand it from every perspective and in every stage of the relationship.

So it will be really good for you if you are new to boundaries.

Exercise:

So ladies, so your exercise for today is to, in your journal write down what your new boundaries are going to be.

How many messages are you going to give to the guy?

How are you going to reduce the number of messages that you give the guy?

How long are you gonna wait to reply to his text message?

How long are you gonna wait for him to ask you out on a date?

How many messages are you gonna exchange with him before he asked you out on a date?

And when are you gonna stop?

How many dates you are going to give him for him to make it official?

How many dates is it going to be before you give him the cut-off?

He's not asking you to be his girlfriend, then that is the next, and he's gonna drop out from the rotation, and you will carry on dating others, open his rotation spot to somebody else who is serious about dating me.

Write down according to how old you are.

Write down how long are you going to be in a relationship with a guy before he proposes to you, especially if you, obviously, if you want to be married, how long do you want to be?

Decide how long are you going to be on the phone with him?

Are you gonna give him five minutes?

Are you gonna give him 10 minutes?

What does it feel right for you?

Write it down and stick to it and come and share it with us on the Facebook group

How long will your first date be?

Come into my Facebook group, the feminine goddess community and share your new boundaries with the other ladies in the community.

Your feminine sisters will give you courage and help you to be accountable and to stick with it.

Don't forget that you are a beautiful, high-value, feminine, romantic goddess, and you deserve the world.

If you have enjoyed this podcast, you probably love my monthly membership, The Love School, where I coach, teach and guide my goddess members all the way to achieve their romantic goals.

You will find The Love School at https://coachpennylove.com/love-school/

Thank you so much for listening. (Reading)

I would be so honoured if you decide to subscribe, and if you do, I can't wait to see you on the next Dating for the romantic goddess episode.

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💕 Visit my website

💕 Follow my Facebook Page

💕 Follow my Instagram

💕 Follow my Tiktok

💕 Join My free Facebook group, The Feminine Goddess Community

💕 Become a member of my monthly subscription program, The Love School

💕 Work with me

This a Podcast for The Romantic Goddess wanting to learn to date the high-value way in order to magnetise her divine masculine man and manifest the relationship of her dreams.

💕 If you want to awaken the confident, intuitive and creative Goddess within you. 💕 If you want to awaken your inner feminine strength and wisdom. 💕 If you want to be the goddess who doesn't chase. 💕 If you want to be the goddess who attracts. 💕 Who magnetises, who creates her own life. 💕 If you want to be the goddess who attracts her equal. 💕 If you want to be the goddess who doesn't settle 💕 If you want to attract a high-value healthy masculine man who you can respect and admire, who will love you, adore you and cherish you, respect and support you, lift you up and make you feel safe in your feminine energy. 💕 A man that knows your worth and treats you like the Queen you are. 💕 The king that you deserve

Then this podcast is for you.

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Hello, My loves. Today we're going to be talking about "allowing."

You have no idea how happy I was when I was a baby coach; I realised that allowing in feminine energy and allowing in the law of attraction meant the same. I was so happy because I thought, oh wow, this will make our jobs so much easier because, like this, we won't have to work so hard at getting what we want.

And because I was trying to manifest love, and I wanted to manifest growing my business, I thought: well, this is just like magic. I can apply the same concept to getting everything that I want in my life.

So today, what we are going to talk about, you can apply it to dating, but you can also apply it to everything in life.

And the very first thing that I always do when I teach a new concept to my clients is to see what the opposite means.

Because English is my second language, I needed help understanding what allowing meant initially. So when I searched for the meaning of allowing in the dictionary, it needed to make more sense. But it all started to make sense when I looked at what not allowing meant.

So allowing means:

to give yourself permission

to go with the flow

to not be in resistance.

The opposite of allowing means:

to hold

to to resist

to ban

to lock,

to restrain

to limit

to bar

to halt

to constraint

to the tear,

to discourage

to inhibit

to withstand.

When I saw the opposite meaning of allowing, it all began to make sense, and obviously, when we are trying to achieve something, it just makes sense that you allow and you don't do the opposite, which would be in resistance.

The universe is trying to give you all these things, and you're saying no, no, no, the universe would be like, whaaaat? You told me you wanted this? What's wrong with you?

But sometimes, consciously, but most of the time unconsciously; this is what we do. We resist, and we deny ourselves exactly what we want.

Isn't that crazy?

So becoming aware of you not allowing it's a big, big, big principle to manifest what you want, but also in feminine energy and within a dating context, to allow it will mean:

To let him do all the work.

Let him do all the chasing.

let him do the initiating,

let him do all the planning.

You let him do the asking,

let him do the pursuing,

and all you have to do is lean back, go with the flow and enjoy yourself.

In the modern style of dating, we get these messages all the time, "oh, you know, we can do it like the men, we can date Like men, we can ask men out," and sure, you can, and if that's what you want, yes, you can. But that is not going to lead to a very romantic relationship.

And as a feminine woman if you identify yourself as a feminine woman, this is not going to make you feel really good about yourself. And if you are after a masculine man, a healthy mature, masculine energy man, he is not going to feel very good about himself either. If you are doing all the work and you are doing all the asking.

So it just makes sense that to achieve a healthy relationship, you would allow and let him be who he is, and then all you need to do is like have your eyes open and see, you know, oh well, I like him how he is, or I don't like him how he is.

If you are happy with how he is, you lean back and allow, and if you're not happy, if you see something that you're not aligned with, you put boundaries in place, and you stop seeing this person, and you continue seeing others until you find someone that is in alignment with who you are.

Examples of allowing within the dating context:

Make sure that the dating apps that you go to are aligned with feminine energy.

Stay away from apps like Bumble, which forces you to be in your masculine and take the first step.

Instead, go with apps like Tinder or, even better, upgrade yourself to Tinder gold because then you will be able to swipe on men who already liked you and then be able to allow men to message you first.

Allow the man to be the one who asked you out on a date.

Allow the man to plan the date.

Allow the man to choose where the date is going to be.

Allow the man to do the planning

Allow the man to arrange all of the details,

Allow the man, when you start seeing him, to ask you out on another date,

Allow him to be the one who claims you and says I want to be in a relationship.

And in the meantime, you're not manipulating. You are not resisting; you are not doing things. You just lean back, allow and go with the flow, and let him do all the work.

What happens is that when you are in allowing energy and going with the flow, he has no option but to be on his masculine energy. Of course, it's going to feel natural to him to do all the work and all the asking and all the chasing and all the pursuing. (if he's a masculine man) And this will also lead him to feel really good about himself because he's with you doing all this masculine energy work, his testosterone levels will go up, and he will just be in a feel-good bubble when he is with you. He might be dating someone else who is richer, more beautiful and more successful or whatever than you. But this woman is doing all the work, So he will not feel really good when he is with her. But he will feel really good about himself when he is with you Because you are on your feminine energy. You are on your allowing energy. He doesn't feel manipulated. He doesn't feel overwhelmed. He enjoys being with you with your light and breezy energy.

Another magical thing that happens when you are in your allowing energy is that men really hate to be controlled, and they hate to be told what to do.

So you are not going to be doing any of that. You're going to be in your allowing energy letting him lead.

And this doesn't mean that you're letting him control you. You are just letting him lead, And by doing this, you can see what kind of man he is, what kind of man he is going to be, and you are going to be able to really see what he's made of.

And when you are allowing, you will be able to see this because you are taking a lean-back approach where you are not acting, you are not busy doing all the work you will be able to see what kind of person is. Men are showing us what kind of people they are, but when we are in pursuit mode, we are not able to see this.

If you have followed me for a while, you will know that I'm actually a certified Rules for dating coach and there are a lot of women that read the rules and throw the book away, and this is because the rules are giving you all these guidelines to embody allowing and some people feel don't feel very empowered by it because we're used to doing all the work all the time. (Masculine energy)

But if you go beyond, you will realise that the rules really empower you because what the rules tell you is what to do so that you are allowing energy.

When you are in a fear energy, when you are in controlling energy, this is going to feel really easy to you, and it's going to feel like they're taking away the power from you.

But actually, to be in allowing energy, it's a very beautiful energy to go with the flow where you can lean back and allow and allow things to come to you, allow the guy to do things for you, allow him to woo you allow you to romance you allow you to sweep you off your feet instead of you doing all the work because society forces us all the time for us as women to be all the time on masculine energy, allowing energy might not feel 100% aligned to you.

And this is a big, big warning signal for you.

That means that you are on your masculine energy and you are not feminine energy.

So if you can, even though you are not dating, if you can practice being in your allowing feminine energy as much as you can, it will be really, really, really good for you.

It will allow you to be happier, and it will allow you to be more in alignment with your true authentic self.

If you want to learn more about allowing from the law of attraction point of view, I recommend that you go on youtube and search for Abraham Hicks or Esther Hicks and listen to what she has to say about allowing and about being in your, allowing energy to manifest anything that you want in your life.

But also within the dating context and within attracting the man of your life, you must allow and follow these steps.

To learn more about this, you can get my masterclass called the feminine art of surrender; I'll add the link to the show notes so that you can look at it.

And also, I do have an entire course on allowing, which is called The beautiful art of allowing.

In the beginning, when you are practising allowing, you might feel like you have no control over your life. You might feel like you're sitting on your hands. You might feel like you have no say in your love life. But I want you to remember that When you allow, you might not have the power to initiate. But, still, you do have the power to say no (this is going to be my next episode) you have the power to say no. You have the power to put boundaries, and when you are allowing, and you see something that you don't like, you have the power to turn around and say, well, I don't like this anymore, and just say no, I don't need to see this person anymore. I don't need to stay on this date anymore. I can end the date, I can end the phone call, I can end the conversation, I can end the relationship, and I can have all the power that I need.

So, you will not have the power to initiate, but you have all the power to end things.

You have all the power to say. Good luck to you. This is not me. Thank you very much. See you. You can have boundaries and say no.

And that's what we will talk about on the next podcast.

And with all that, I'll leave you to marinate in this information, and I have an exercise for you:

I want you to have a look at your dating life, your life, and your relationships.

How have you not been allowing?

How have you been doing the opposite of allowing?

In which ways have you been managing him?

How have you been controlling him?

How have you been telling him what to do?

How have you been planning your dates, and how have you been doing all the work?

And how have you not been in your feminine energy?

And I want you to ask yourself what would happen if you stopped doing that, and you would relax, lean back and let him do all the work.

What would happen?

And I want you to come into my free group, the feminine goddess community, on Facebook, which I will also link on my show notes so that you can come in and share with me what would happen.

If you were to stop, Would he keep chasing you and pursuing you?

Would he keep doing the work?

Would he enjoy it?

Would he complain?

This will be a really big telltale sign.

If he is the one for you and truly in love with you, if he truly likes you, he will really, really enjoy the fact that you are giving him the power to lead.

But if he is Mr wrong and is not in love with you, and if he doesn't like you, he will not be happy.

And sometimes, we control and do all the things that we do, and we do not allow it because we are scared and we are in fear that if we don't do it, he will not do it, and then the relationship will end.

So I want you to journal about it and ask yourself what would be so long if the relationship ended If it is not the one,

how will that affect you negatively in your life?

And I want you to realise that it wouldn't be the end of the world because when you lean back and allow, it means that you will allow the right guy for you to come into your life.

And then when you lean back and allow, and you are dating the right guy, then things will go so smoothly, and you will have the most beautiful relationship.

And then, when you lean back and allow it, it also means that the relationship will have the happy ending that you want. If you actually want to get married and you want to find a long-term relationship, you want to find your life partner. Then when you allow that is when things will go so much more beautifully and will be so much more in alignment with what you want so that you can continue being the feminine goddess, and for this, you need to be with a masculine man that shows up for you.

If you are doing all the work, It means you're not being your Goddess self.

It means that the guy you're with is not the man of your dreams.

It means this is not the man that you want, and you need to be brave and courageous and let that go.

To allow it also means to let go.

And this is a beautiful, beautiful, beautiful principle that I wanted to share with you today because you are worthy of being in your allowing energy. You are worthy of being in your goddess energy, and you are worthy of a man who wants to be with you, who will step up for you, who would be a masculine man for you and who you can relax and be safe in your feminine energy.

Don't forget that you are a beautiful, high-value, feminine, romantic goddess, and you deserve the world.

If you have enjoyed this podcast, you probably love my monthly membership, The Love School, where I coach, teach and guide my goddess members all the way to achieve their romantic goals.

You will find The Love School at https://coachpennylove.com/love-school/

Thank you so much for listening.(Reading)

I would be so honoured if you decide to subscribe, and if you do, I can't wait to see you on the next Dating for the romantic goddess episode.

Links

💕 Visit my website

💕 Follow my Facebook Page

💕 Follow my Instagram

💕 Follow my Tiktok

💕 Join My free Facebook group, The Feminine Goddess Community

💕 Become a member of my monthly subscription program, The Love School

💕 The Feminine Art Of Surrender Masterclass

💕 The Beautiful Art Of Feminine Allowing Course

💕 Work with me

This a Podcast for The Romantic Goddess wanting to learn to date the high-value way in order to magnetise her divine masculine man and manifest the relationship of her dreams.

💕 If you want to awaken the confident, intuitive and creative Goddess within you. 💕 If you want to awaken your inner feminine strength and wisdom. 💕 If you want to be the goddess who doesn't chase. 💕 If you want to be the goddess who attracts. 💕 Who magnetises, who creates her own life. 💕 If you want to be the goddess who attracts her equal. 💕 If you want to be the goddess who doesn't settle 💕 If you want to attract a high-value healthy masculine man who you can respect and admire, who will love you, adore you and cherish you, respect and support you, lift you up and make you feel safe in your feminine energy. 💕 A man that knows your worth and treats you like the Queen you are. 💕 The king that you deserve

Then this podcast is for you.

Ep. 2

Getting specific 💕

Hello, my beautiful Goddesses And welcome to episode two of Dating for the Romantic Goddess.

So last week, we talked about the first step towards the relationship of your dreams, and we talked about what you want, why you want it and accepting where you are right now and deciding that that was as good a place as any. You are good enough where you are now, even though you may not like your current situation. And also to ask yourself why you deserve what you want. You have to give permission to yourself to want what you want.

And today, we are gonna talk about the second step, and the second step will be about getting specific about what you want.

When I say about getting specific, I am sure that your mind is going like, oh yes! I want him to be with blue eyes and tall with a beard and this and with a mortgage and a car and a good career, right? lol

But that's not where I'm going. Gonna be really disappointed.

We will get there.

Today we are gonna get specific about what it is that your heart desires.

When you say, oh, I want him to be dark tall and handsome with a big fat paycheck, that's your ego doing the talking. Your heart wants different things.

💕 Your heart wants to feel loved. 💕 Your heart wants to feel safe. 💕 Your heart wants to feel peace.

So we are gonna go deep within, and we are gonna find out what all these things that your heart desires.

To discover what it is that you want authentically, you need to go deep within yourself and to do so; we're gonna do an exercise together.

(Grab your journal 📚)

Exercise:

Close your eyes and focus your awareness on your third eye, which is in between your eyebrows, between your eyes just a little bit above, in between your eyebrows. Or even just a smidge above your eyebrows.

Just focus your awareness there and go deep within; straighten your back so if you're sitting on your chair, get your back fully extended so that your whole body is aligned, and just focus your awareness on the third eye and deep within.

Put one hand on your heart and another hand on your belly.

Take a couple of deep breaths for me.

I want you to imagine that it is 5 or 10 years from now, and you're already married to the man of your dreams. It has happened already. You are already with this man; you're happily married. You've never been happier in your life.

Imagine you are in your house, in your home with your things, and I want you not to see him, but I want you to feel his energy. I don't want you to focus on anything physical about him.

Just feel his energy.

What does this energy feel like? And when I ask you this question about his energy, where can you feel him in your body?

And how does he feel like? Does it feel like a little pinch? Like a little flatter? Like little bubbles? Like a little pressure?

How does it feel like?

Imagine that he's getting closer to you, and you can feel his energy more intensely now, and I want you to focus on how he makes you feel. How does his presence make you feel?

List all the things that you feel mentally.

Do you feel safe? Do you feel protected? Do you feel loved? Do you feel cherished?

List all the things that you feel when you are in his essence, in his energy.

Do you feel wonderful? Do you feel beautiful? Do you feel sexy?

Just mentally go through all the things that you feel, and this is just as specific as we're gonna get today.

You can stay here feeling his energy for as long as you want; the more you do this exercise, the faster you will manifest him because every time you are feeling this energy, you're feeling these feelings, you're feeling these emotions, you are calling him closer to you.

When you are ready, you can grab your piece of paper. Maybe you want to continue on the same piece of paper or the next page from where you were last week and write down the list of feelings and emotions you felt during the exercise.

How did he feel, and how was it?

Point out where you felt it in your body and what type of sensations you felt in your body, and if you feel a little pinch or tingling somewhere in your body, some people feel it in their heart space. Some people feel it in the lower back. Some people feel it on the solar plexus.

Breathe through the feeling. Just breathe through it. Just breathe towards that feeling, breathe and let go, breathe and let it go.

And try to describe it on your page.

And this is how specific we are gonna get today.

I invite you to come back and feel these feelings as many times as you like and for as long as you like; even as I say in this, you can keep your eyes closed still, and you can write things that come to mind that you're feeling and come back close your eyes again and go deep within and continue feeling his energy.

Continue to discover how you feel when you are in his presence, and what will happen is that one day, you will be on a date, and you will recognize your man because he will make you feel all these feelings.

And I tell you what, we're gonna debunk all these crazy stories that people say like: Oh, I felt the chemistry; I felt the butterflies. All that means (the chemistry and the butterflies)is that you are trauma bonded. He's toxic. He is giving you anxiety, and that's where the butterflies come from.

The man of your dreams is gonna make you feel safe. He's gonna make you feel serene. He's gonna make you feel at peace. He's gonna make you feel quiet and loving and special and beautiful.

He's not gonna be up and down, and butterflies and anxiety You're not going to be on the edge of your seat. He's not gonna make you feel like that. He's not gonna give you cause for worry. He's not gonna give you cause for anxiety.

We need to debunk all these myths from the movies and the novels and all the toxic people and all the toxic relationships that we have been in in the past.

Those relationships where you have to feel the chemistry, and you have to feel the butterflies could mean that you're addicted to the drama, you are addicted to the toxic cycle, you are addicted to the narcissistic cycle, you are addicted to unhealthy relationships, and this is really bad for you. It's really bad for your health, for your mental health, and it's also very bad for your physical health.

Write all these things down and go deep within.

Do it as long as you like, and do it as many times as you like this week. Practice, practice, practice.

If you like, I invite you to come over to my free Facebook group, The feminine goddess community; come in and share. My Facebook group is a safe space to come and share.

I want you to come and share your feelings because this will help others that might be newer to this exercise, and I've never done it before. So you all inspire each other and help each other and support each other, it will be a lot of fun.

It'll be lovely to meet you all.

And this is it. This is all I've got for two for you today.

I will be seeing you again next week with another exercise for step number three.

See you all next week.

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