Dear Chiefs Podcast

Dear Chiefs Podcast

By Audra Carrion and Chelsi McFaddenHealth & FitnessMental Health
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Dear Chiefs Podcast episodes

  • From Silence to Support

    Audra's husband, Fire Captain Damien Carrion, bravely shares his personal journey through the aftermath of a suicide within his own department. For 15 years, Damien silently wrestled with the impact and stigma surrounding mental health in the firefighting community. Tune in as he candidly discusses his struggles and the pivotal moment that drove him to champion change. From struggling alone to becoming an advocate for mental wellness, Damien's story is both raw and inspiring. Join us as we explore the importance of breaking the silence surrounding mental health in high-stress professions and the transformative power of one person's courage.


    49 min
  • Psychedelic Therapy & Mental Wellness

    Welcome to another enlightening episode of the Dear Chiefs Podcast! Today, we have the privilege of hosting Angela Graham, Co-Founder of The S.I.R.E.N. Project, whose journey is as remarkable as it is inspiring. With a background spanning 17 years as a firefighter/engineer in the esteemed Santa Clara County Fire Department and a previous career as a Division 1 and professional softball pitcher, Angela brings a wealth of experience to our conversation.

    In this raw and honest dialogue, Angela delves into her personal challenges as a single mother during pivotal moments in her son's upbringing and her unwavering commitment to achieving mental wellness. Despite encountering numerous avenues, Angela's life took a transformative turn when a fortuitous encounter with a military friend introduced her to the world of psychedelic therapy, specifically entheogenic medicines.
    Join us as Angela shares how these unconventional therapies reshaped her life, offering invaluable insights into resilience, hope, and the profound impact of psychedelic therapy on mental wellness.
    At The S.I.R.E.N. Project's mission is clear: to provide access to alternative mental health therapies, including psychedelic therapy, tailored specifically for First Responders. Through dedication to education and advocacy, we aim to break down barriers and promote public safety mental wellness. Join us in our journey as we empower individuals like Angela and work towards meaningful change in mental health treatment.
    Don't miss out on this riveting conversation. Tune in now.


    For more information or to doante, visit https://thesirenproject.org/ or contact Angela at [email protected]


    30 min
  • A Fire Spouse's Journey: Navigating Firefighter's Cancer Diagnosis

    Join us in this poignant episode as we sit down with Brittney Sampedro, a devoted spouse, speech therapist assistant, and mother, to delve into her courageous journey alongside her firefighter husband's battle with Stage 2 Hodgkin's lymphoma.

    In late October of 2019, Brittney's world shifted when her husband, a dedicated firefighter, discovered a small bump on his collarbone. What followed was a life-altering diagnosis, marking the first-ever line-of-duty cancer diagnosis in the history of the Greeley Fire Department. The impact didn't end there; it triggered crucial changes within the department, leading to enhanced screenings and early detection measures that have potentially saved the lives of fellow firefighters.

    In this heartfelt conversation, Brittney opens up about navigating the uncertainties, fears, and challenges that come with a sudden health diagnosis. Her resilience and unwavering support for her husband reflect not only their personal journey but also their advocacy for change. Through her story, Brittney aims to offer solace to those feeling isolated and afraid after receiving similar health news.

    Beyond the personal narrative, Brittney underscores the critical importance of regular screenings and early detection, advocating for proactive health measures that can make a life-saving difference.

    Contact Brittney:

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/b.r.i.t.t.n.e.y.r.o.s.e/


    Books Mentioned During This Episode:

    The Woman In Me by Brittney Spears


    *Disclosure: We only recommend products and services that we would use ourselves, and all opinions expressed here are our own. This episode description contains affiliate links, and at no additional cost to you, we may earn a small commission.

    26 min
  • The Often Unseen: Life as a Spouse of a Correctional Officer who is Battling PTSD

    👥 Special Guest: Daniela, Creator of The Often Unseen Blog


    Join us for a poignant conversation with Daniela, the compassionate creator behind The Often Unseen blog. In this episode, she candidly shares her journey as the spouse of a correctional officer battling PTSD. Daniela's life took an unexpected turn when her husband faced a traumatic incident on duty, leading to a profound impact on their family. Discover the often unseen challenges spouses face in similar situations and the importance of seeking support for the affected officer and their loved ones.


    About Daniela:

    Daniela’s life changed forever when her husband was taken hostage during a shift when he was working as a correctional officer. Four of the most extended hours ensued, not knowing what the future would bring. Thankfully, through the hard work of the negotiating team, he was released with minimal physical injuries.

    But it would be the invisible injuries that would have the most profound effect, and that would end up testing them as individuals and as a couple.
    While her husband recognized that he would need some immediate help facing the challenges that would come with PTSD, Daniela pushed the need to reach out for support for herself in dealing with the trauma and focused 100% of her attention and care for him and two children.
    As time progressed, Daniela recognized that she, too, finally needed to truly process the ordeal and the injuries she had been enduring as a result. Starting a blog called ‘The Often Unseen’ was a significant step in that direction.


    🎧 Listen in to discover:

    • The profound impact of a correctional officer's traumatic incident on the individual and their spouse
    • Daniela's raw and honest account of the invisible injuries that tested her resilience as a partner and a parent.
    • The crucial importance of seeking support for both the affected correctional officer and their spouse in dealing with PTSD.


    • 🚀 Why Tune In?

      Whether you're a correctional officer, a spouse supporting a loved one with PTSD, or simply interested in stories of resilience, this episode offers a rare glimpse into the often unseen struggles faced by those in demanding professions and their families.


      🌐 Connect with Daniela and Explore More:

      • The Often Unseen Blog: https://www.theoftenunseen.com/
      • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theoftenunseen/
      • 🎉 Join the Conversation:

        You can engage with us on Instagram (@dearchiefspodcast) to share your experiences or questions. Let's continue raising awareness about first responders and their families' often unseen struggles.

        24 min
      • Nutrition On-the-Go for Busy First Responders and Default Parents

        Are you gearing up for the holiday season's hustle and bustle while trying to manage your child's sports activities, juggling holiday preparations, and maintaining your energy levels? Look no further! In this episode, we explore the crucial components of nutrition, with our guest, Megan Lautz.


        Megan Lautz, a registered dietitian and an experienced strength coach, holds a master's degree in sports nutrition. Her extensive experience and profound understanding of the unique challenges faced by first responders make her a standout in the field of health and wellness.


        Megan's daily commitment to Fairfax Fire and Rescue equips her with a deep understanding of the unpredictable nature of the profession. She is dedicated to creating nutrition strategies that seamlessly fit the distinctive lives of first responders.

        Furthermore, Megan is the visionary behind RescueRD LLC, offering nutrition seminars and coaching to first responders and their spouses nationwide. Her primary goal is to empower them to achieve peak performance, maintain optimal health, and combat fatigue, especially during demanding periods like the holiday season.


        Join us in this episode as we unveil the secrets to boosting your energy, adopting a healthy on-the-go lifestyle, and enjoying the holidays without overindulging. Whether you're a first responder or an individual working on enhancing your health, Megan's insights will revolutionize your approach to wellness. Tune in to discover how to achieve optimal health and fitness during the busiest times of your life.


        Mentioned During This Episode


        ALOHA Bars: https://www.gopjn.com/t/2-496436-334468-214393


        Precision Nutrition: https://www.precisionnutrition.com/blog/food-nutrition


        Examin.Com: https://examine.com/


        Books by James Patterson: https://www.jamespatterson.com/landing-page/james-patterson-home/


        Follow Megan

        ⁠Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rescue.rd/⁠

        Website:⁠ https://www.rescuerd.com/⁠



        *Disclosure: We only recommend products and services that we would use ourselves, and all opinions expressed here are our own. This episode description contains affiliate links, and at no additional cost to you, we may earn a small commission.




        37 min
      • Turning Loss into Love: A Police Widow's Story

        In this moving episode, we chat with Gracie Parrish Miller, a remarkable woman whose life underwent a profound transformation on December 31, 2017. That day, She received "the knock"—an event dreaded by every family of first responders. Gracie recounts her journey from being a police officer's wife to becoming a widow at 29, suddenly thrust into raising her two young children independently.


        Amidst the tragedy, Gracie discovered a newfound purpose and strength within herself. Inspired by a divine calling, she stepped into the shoes once worn by her late husband, Zack, and dedicated herself to serving the community. Gracie's path led her to establish The Shelter Foundation in Denver, Colorado—a sanctuary for first responder couples seeking to fortify their relationships. The foundation actively provides marriage counseling, getaways, support for widows, financial assistance, and scholarships, emphasizing not just

        enduring but thriving together.


        Tune in as we hear Gracie Parrish Miller's distinctive perspective as an LEO widow and now a firewife. Her story of resilience, hope, and the journey to finding love after experiencing loss showcases the extraordinary ability to uncover purpose in life's most difficult times.


        Join us for this episode and be inspired by a woman whose commitment to aiding others has illuminated a path toward healing and strength.


        Follow Gracie

        Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theshelterfoundation/

        Website: https://www.theshelterfoundation.org/

        44 min
      • A Real LA Fire & Rescue Story: Balancing Family Life

        Join us for an insightful episode with Scott Woods, a seasoned veteran of the LA County firefighting scene and dedicated peer counselor. We delve into the daily challenges and triumphs of a career firefighter in California, managing family life, and even discuss Scott's exciting appearance on NBC's LA Fire& Rescue. With 29 years of service under his belt, Scott shares gripping stories and valuable insights.


        Follow Scott

        Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/scottwoods41s/


        Podcasts Mentioned on this episode:

        RJ Bell's DREAM PREVIEW





        43 min
      • Navigating Change: A Fire Family's Journey to Better Work-Life Balance

        In this heartfelt episode, Chelsi shares her family's courageous journey—a transition after over two decades of dedicated service with CAL FIRE. Join us as we delve into this significant move, embracing the role of ECC Assistant Director in a municipal fire department. Our hosts shed light on the unique challenges faced by firefighter families during such pivotal career shifts and offer invaluable advice on achieving and maintaining a healthy work-life balance. Tune in for an enlightening conversation aimed at empowering and inspiring fellow firefighter spouses navigating similar transformative journeys toward a more balanced life. Explore real insights on Firefighter Life, Career Transition, and Work-Life Balance. Only on the Dear Chiefs Podcast!


        Follow Dear Chiefs Podcast


        Website: http://www.dearchiefs.com

        Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dearchiefspodcast/

        TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dearchiefspodcast

        Twitter: https://twitter.com/DearChiefs

        Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/dearchiefspodcast


        26 min
      • Diane Cotter: A Fearless Firefighters' Hero Leading the Fight Against PFAS

        In this gripping episode, we sit down for an enlightening conversation with Diane Cotter, exploring her impactful journey through firefighter cancer and the extraordinary efforts she made to support her husband in the face of his cancer diagnosis.


        For decades, the prevailing belief leaned towards cardiac events as the primary threat to firefighters' well-being. However, a paradigm shift has occurred, highlighting cancer as a significant concern within the fire service, responsible for a considerable portion of firefighter mortality. Shockingly, a whopping 66% of firefighter fatalities can be attributed to occupational cancer.


        Yet, a critical concern arises—our protective gear, designed to safeguard firefighters from perilous carcinogens encountered during fires and exposures, may unintentionally contribute to these alarming cancer statistics.


        Discover the inspiring journey of Diane Cotter, a self-taught citizen activist and a beacon of hope for firefighters. Learn about her relentless campaign to remove PFAS "forever chemicals" from firefighters' gear, chronicled in the documentary "BURNED - Protecting The Protectors," produced by award-winning actor Mark Ruffalo.


        Diane Cotter is a remarkable citizen activist and a beacon of hope for firefighters. Her relentless dedication and unyielding support for her husband, Fire Lieutenant Paul Cotter, during their battle against his occupational cancer, have inspired the documentary "BURNED - Protecting The Protectors," brought to life by filmmaker Elijah Yetter-Bowman and Executive Producer, award-winning actor Mark Ruffalo. Ed Kelly, General President of the IAFF, rightfully recognizes Diane as "the firefighters' hero."

        Diane stands as the ultimate standard-bearer, embodying qualities of intellect, fearlessness, and unwavering focus. Her resolute efforts continue to lead a six-year campaign aimed at eliminating PFAS "forever chemicals" from the gear worn by today's firefighters.


        Learn More About PFOAs and Your Turnout Gear: www.yourtutnoutgearandpfoa.com⁠


        Screen the film for your department: https://etherealfilms.org/license-request/


        Articles Mentioned During This Episode:

        The Real Cancer In Your Gear


        Other Notable Links:

        https://twitter.com/JeffKnobbe

        https://twitter.com/MarkRuffalo/status/1620084310224130049

        https://www.pfaslawfirms.com/


        Follow Diane

        www.yourtutnoutgearandpfoa.com

        Medium: https://dianecotter.medium.com/

        Twitter: https://x.com/Di_Cotter?s=20

        Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/di_cotter/

        47 min
      • Navigating the First Year as a Firewife, Loss, and Resilience

        Join us for an inspiring episode as we sit down with Krista Harkin, a remarkable firewife, and real estate powerhouse in Chicago. Krista's journey into the firefighting lifestyle began recently, and it wasn't long before she experienced the profound realities that come with it.


        Shortly after her husband graduated from the Chicago Fire Academy, tragedy struck his engine company with a line-of-duty death, leaving an indelible mark on their family. But the challenges didn't stop there. Just months later, an unexpected medical emergency forced her husband into a six-month medical leave, reshaping both their work and family life.


        Through these trials, Krista gained a unique perspective on the 'firefighting life'—learning to let go of what cannot be controlled and finding strength in the face of the unexpected. Her journey took an intriguing turn when she discovered our podcast, finding solace in the stories of fellow firewives across the nation.


        In this episode, Krista shares her own story, providing insights that will resonate deeply with our listeners. Her experiences shed light on the challenges and triumphs of firefighting families, fostering a strong sense of community and support.


        Join us as we delve into Krista's inspiring journey and the invaluable lessons she's learned along the way.


        Books Mentioned During This Episode:

        The Daily Stoic: 366 Meditations on Wisdom, Perseverance, and the Art of Living


        Follow Krista

        Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kharkrealtor_firewife/


        *Disclosure: We only recommend products and services that we would use ourselves, and all opinions expressed here are our own. This episode description contains affiliate links, and at no additional cost to you, we may earn a small commission.

        31 min

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