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  • Mini Moment Ep. 8: Reframing Your Confident Mindset
    In these "Mini Moments" we pull some of my favorite and most impactful mini lessons from past episodes of the Made for More Podcast to give you a quick digestible lesson in under 10 minutes.   If you liked this mini moment, check out the rest of this full episode here - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/made-for-more-with-amanda-kolbye/id1529443551?i=1000492082867   Summary It's normal to not feel like you know exactly what you're doing at every stage of business. While the things you don't know change as you grow in business, you'll never know it all. That doesn't mean you're always going to have to "fake it to you make it," but you will have to act confidently, even when you don't feel confident. That's why establishing a confident mindset is so crucial to success. In this mini moment, we are discussing some mindset reframes for where you can derive confidence from to act more confidently, whether you know exactly what you're doing or what the outcome of your actions will be.   Our Favorite Quotes "We have to figure out, how can I go execute confidently, even when I don't feel confident."   Thanks for listening, and if you like what you've heard, I would greatly appreciate you shaing this episode with your friends or on your Instagram stories (and tag @laptop.lifestyle.co)! There are so many amazing women who need to hear this message and who are working to build their dream lifestyle, and I'd love you to help me spread the word.    Resources and links mentioned in this episode: Laptop Lifestyle Co Links: Website Instagram Tik Tok YouTube Channel
    10 min
  • 132. How To Get Sh*t Done (Even When You Don't Feel Like It)
    This week I am sharing with you a real life training I did for the ladies of Laptop Lifestyle Bootcamp. To give some context, I had been asked multiple times how I get sh*t done - even when it's hard or I don't want to. In order to give this question the full answer it deserves, I recorded this video training to share some of my tips and suggestions for taking action and just doing it, even when you don't exactly feel like it. There is so much actionable information in this training that I had to share it with you all here on the Made For More Podcast!   In this episode, we cover…
    • How our nervous system impacts our ability to take action
    • Why we often have to eliminate choices and opinions to be productive
    • How expectations impact our emotional responses
    • The importance of priorities in business & life
    • The impact our environment has on our productivity & habits
    • Mindset shifts to help you stay consistent and getting shit done

      Quotes "I'm a firm believer that you truly can have and do anything, but you cannot have everything at once."   "You have certain habits and defaults that your body just has trained and gotten used in your current environment now. It's very very difficult to change your habits and way of thinking in the same environment in which you were used to other habits and ways of thinking."   Links & Resources Mentioned in this Episode Laptop Lifestyle Co Links: Website Instagram Tik Tok YouTube Channel   Other Links Mentioned: Offer Oversight Quiz Uplevel Your Offers & Make $100k/year Masterclass Laptop Lifestyle Bootcamp
    23 min
  • Mini Moment Ep. 65: Manifesting Money with Amanda Kutner
    In these "Mini Moments" we pull some of my favorite and most impactful mini lessons from past episodes of the Made for More Podcast to give you a quick digestible lesson in under 10 minutes.   If you liked this mini moment, check out the rest of this full episode here - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/made-for-more-with-amanda-kolbye/id1529443551?i=1000538906035   Summary In this mini moment NLP practitioner & coach Amanda Kutner is sharing her perspective on lack, our money stories, and manifestation. When we feel lack, we can end up sabotaging our success. Instead, we have to state it how we want it to be able to manifest the abundance that we want. Along the way, we can address the money stories that we have developed through our lives to act without resistance.   Our Favorite Quotes "State it how you want it. Because when you state it how you want it, it's creating a positive and real representation of what you want to be creating instead of what you don't have yet."   Thanks for listening, and if you like what you've heard, I would greatly appreciate you shaing this episode with your friends or on your Instagram stories (and tag @laptop.lifestyle.co)! There are so many amazing women who need to hear this message and who are working to build their dream lifestyle, and I'd love you to help me spread the word.    Resources and links mentioned in this episode: Laptop Lifestyle Co Links: Website Instagram Tik Tok YouTube Channel
    6 min
  • 131. Unblocking Your Mindset Around Success & Money with Ruthie Johnson
    With today's guest, lifestyle & wellness coach (and Laptop Lifestyle Bootcamp alum!) Ruthie Johnson, we are diving into the depths of mindset. In the entrepreneurial world, mindset is a much talked-about and yet somewhat elusive concept, so we are aiming to breakdown and make more concrete through this conversation. We are getting into everything from what it means to work on your mindset, why the way so many of us chase success is harmful, and how our money stories from childhood impact our lives and businesses.   Ruthie Johnson is the founder, coach and self-care enthusiast behind Ruthie & Rose - lifestyle and wellness coaching for ambitious women to help them prioritise themselves, learn how to balance it all and scale their success stress-free with ease & alignment. Ruthie is a qualified Transformational Coach, Personal Trainer & Nutritionist, having worked with over 150 clients in her 5+ years of experience. Behind-the-scenes of her business, Ruthie enjoys spending time with her boyfriend and their cat Matilda, at the gym, or enjoying the best food she can find around their home city in Bristol.   In this episode, we cover…
    • The role mindset plays in success
    • What it can look like to engage in mindset work
    • The ways we tend to self-sabotage
    • Why self-worth work is crucial for high-achieving people
    • How the Hunger Ghost Syndrome has us constantly chasing the next thing
    • Advice to cultivate a healthy money mindset

      Quotes "In western cultures we're very strategy heavy. And actually that stops us from seeing that there are other dynamics and other paradigms we can be in."   "If you already knew you were worthy, then how capable would you be to step into everything that you wanted?"   "Your worth is inherent. Like no lion wakes up in the morning and goes, no, I'm not worthy. I'm not gonna eat today. Like it's just a completely made up construct."     Links & Resources Mentioned in this Episode Laptop Lifestyle Co Links: Website Instagram Tik Tok YouTube Channel   Other Links Mentioned Ruthie's Instagram Ruthie's Website
    51 min
  • Mini Moment Ep. 27: How A Day Rate Offer Can Work For Your Business with Krystle Church
    In these "Mini Moments" we pull some of my favorite and most impactful mini lessons from past episodes of the Made for More Podcast to give you a quick digestible lesson in under 10 minutes.   If you liked this mini moment, check out the rest of this full episode here - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/made-for-more-with-amanda-kolbye/id1529443551?i=1000506595618   Summary In this mini moment, copywriter & coach Krystle Church explains what a day rate is and how this unique offer type can be integrated into different business types. Day rates are packaged-up services that can be fulfilled in a single day, and Krystle how business owners can create specific day rate offers based on their services and how they work best. There are so many kinds of service-based offers out there, and the day rate may be a perfect fit for your offer suite!   Our Favorite Quotes "Day rates work best for service providers and consultants who want to provide that white glove client experience, that VIP offer, and make their clients feel really taken care of."   Thanks for listening, and if you like what you've heard, I would greatly appreciate you shaing this episode with your friends or on your Instagram stories (and tag @laptop.lifestyle.co)! There are so many amazing women who need to hear this message and who are working to build their dream lifestyle, and I'd love you to help me spread the word.    Resources and links mentioned in this episode: Laptop Lifestyle Co Links: Website Instagram Tik Tok YouTube Channel
    7 min
  • 130. [Part 2] Mind Blowing New Perspective on Niching Down, Being Multi-Passionate & Effortless Sales
    In this episode, I'm sharing a fresh perspective on niching down, and why it's so valuable to your business! Because there's so much to cover, we’ve broken this conversation into two separate episodes to make it easier for you to take in. This is Part 2, so make sure you've already listened to Part 1!   We are getting back to the basics - but don't worry, this episode is for you no matter what level of business you are in. In this episode, I'm giving you my fresh, never-shared-before perspective on the power of niching down & making sales. It all comes down to the magic trio to sold out offers, and I'm spilling the tea on exactly how you can niche down to stand out. Expect to be sold on niching down after this episode - even if you're multi-passionate, new to business, and feeling frustrated the current state of social media. Plus, I'm giving you a behind-the-scenes look on how I've been implementing everything I talk about here in my own 7-figure business.   In this episode, we cover…
    • Revisiting the basics at every level of business
    • The magic trio to sold out offers
    • Why being multi-passionate shouldn't stand in the way of niching down
    • Why being new to your industry doesn't have to hold you back
    • How you can become known, regardless of the IG algorithm

      Quotes "Making money and standing out are based on value. Therefore, if we make it really simple, if you can be the most valuable person or thing, you will sell."   "If my service is for many people, its value is watered down and not always applicable. If my service is niched down or rather specific to one person in one situation during one time, it can become the highest value possible."   "In order for you to sell more, in order for you to sell out your offers with ease and stand out, you cannot continually just do new and keep hopping from thing to thing or keep executing with the short term thinking."   Links & Resources Mentioned in this Episode Laptop Lifestyle Co Links: Website Instagram Tik Tok YouTube Channel   Other Resources Offer Oversight Quiz
    33 min
  • 130. [Part 1] Mind Blowing New Perspective on Niching Down, Being Multi-Passionate & Effortless Sales
    In this episode, I'm sharing a fresh perspective on niching down, and why it's so valuable to your business! Because there's so much to cover, we’ve broken this conversation into two separate episodes to make it easier for you to take in. This is Part 1, so make sure to tune into Part 2 when you are finished listening.   We are getting back to the basics - but don't worry, this episode is for you no matter what level of business you are in. In this episode, I'm giving you my fresh, never-shared-before perspective on the power of niching down & making sales. It all comes down to the magic trio to sold out offers, and I'm spilling the tea on exactly how you can niche down to stand out. Expect to be sold on niching down after this episode - even if you're multi-passionate, new to business, and feeling frustrated the current state of social media. Plus, I'm giving you a behind-the-scenes look on how I've been implementing everything I talk about here in my own 7-figure business.   In this episode, we cover…
    • Revisiting the basics at every level of business
    • The magic trio to sold out offers
    • Why being multi-passionate shouldn't stand in the way of niching down
    • Why being new to your industry doesn't have to hold you back
    • How you can become known, regardless of the IG algorithm

      Quotes "Making money and standing out are based on value. Therefore, if we make it really simple, if you can be the most valuable person or thing, you will sell."   "If my service is for many people, its value is watered down and not always applicable. If my service is niched down or rather specific to one person in one situation during one time, it can become the highest value possible."   "In order for you to sell more, in order for you to sell out your offers with ease and stand out, you cannot continually just do new and keep hopping from thing to thing or keep executing with the short term thinking."   Links & Resources Mentioned in this Episode Laptop Lifestyle Co Links: Website Instagram Tik Tok YouTube Channel   Other Resources Offer Oversight Quiz
    23 min
  • Mini Moment Ep. 51: What to Do Instead of Chasing Happiness
    In these "Mini Moments" we pull some of my favorite and most impactful mini lessons from past episodes of the Made for More Podcast to give you a quick digestible lesson in under 10 minutes.   If you liked this mini moment, check out the rest of this full episode here - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/made-for-more-with-amanda-kolbye/id1529443551?i=1000528580881   Summary The truth is, chasing your passion isn't what's going to get you to happiness. Instead we have to consciously decide what small things will bring us closer to our own definition of happiness and contentment. In this mini moment, we are talking about the importance of enjoying the journey instead of constantly chasing an elusive destination of happiness, and actively finding joy and gratitude in the small moments to create the life that we are dreaming of.   Our Favorite Quotes "Instead of chasing after a destination, it's about consciously deciding to be happy today, and knowing that we can be content and have gratitude for where we are now while still desiring more."   Thanks for listening, and if you like what you've heard, I would greatly appreciate you shaing this episode with your friends or on your Instagram stories (and tag @laptop.lifestyle.co)! There are so many amazing women who need to hear this message and who are working to build their dream lifestyle, and I'd love you to help me spread the word.    Resources and links mentioned in this episode: Laptop Lifestyle Co Links: Website Instagram Tik Tok YouTube Channel
    6 min
  • 129. Spilling the Tea About Memberships & In-Person Events with Kelci Douglas
    Memberships in business are a hot topic right now, and this week on the Made For More Podcast we are sitting down with Kelci Douglas to talk all things memberships & in-person events. Kelci brings her experience launching and running an in-person membership along with her advice on taking action before you have it all perfectly figured out, adapting to feedback, and building impactful communities.   Kelci Douglas is the CEO of Sherose, a consulting + community platform that empowers, educates, and supports female founders to build their Pinterest 'dream board' lives. As a seasoned marketer and former athlete, she encourages others to adopt an athlete's mentality to grow their companies with connection-focused strategies. Since 2018, she's helped hundreds of clients grow their brands and most recently has started a highly-sought after community event in Boise, Idaho that she plans to launch across the country.   In this episode, we cover…
    • The value of networks and communities
    • Getting started without feeling the need to do "extra"
    • Logistics and profitability of memberships & in-person events
    • Establishing a long-term vision for your membership
    • Creating an experience that markets itself

      Quotes "I truly led with my passion for helping others, and I think that's what's made it so successful. People can feel how passionate and how genuinely excited I am to see each and every one of them."   "When you get to know the human behind the business, your relationship is going to go that much further."   "If you're really hellbent and passionate about something, freaking do it. Because the passion is going to be evident for the people that you are bringing into whatever the environment is that you're creating"   Links & Resources Mentioned in this Episode Laptop Lifestyle Co Links: Website Instagram Tik Tok YouTube Channel   Other Links Mentioned  Kelci's Website Kelci's Instagram Kelci's Podcast
    51 min
  • Mini Moment Ep. 37: You Are In Control
    In these "Mini Moments" we pull some of my favorite and most impactful mini lessons from past episodes of the Made for More Podcast to give you a quick digestible lesson in under 10 minutes.   If you liked this mini moment, check out the rest of this full episode here - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/made-for-more-with-amanda-kolbye/id1529443551?i=1000515802213   Summary One of the hardest lessons you'll learn as an entrepreneur is that you are in control. We all have the power to choose, and it is in the choices that we make that we can move ourselves forward. Often times, we tell ourselves that something isn't an option, when really, it's just not the decision we are making in that moment. In this mini moment, we get into how to take action even when we don't feel like we know what we're doing and embrace an unstoppable mindset to get what we want.   Our Favorite Quotes "Not knowing something is not a valid excuse ever for why you shouldn't or why you can't do something."   "The worst place to be is dreaming. The worst place to be is in that middle ground of not being satisfied with your current reality and yet not doing anything to actually change it either."   Thanks for listening, and if you like what you've heard, I would greatly appreciate you shaing this episode with your friends or on your Instagram stories (and tag @laptop.lifestyle.co)! There are so many amazing women who need to hear this message and who are working to build their dream lifestyle, and I'd love you to help me spread the word.    Resources and links mentioned in this episode: Laptop Lifestyle Co Links: Website Instagram Tik Tok YouTube Channel
    9 min

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