Dear MK

Dear MK

By Mya KermelewiczSociety & CultureRelationships
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Dear MK episodes

  • 50 Shades of Female Rage

    In this episode, Mya and K dive into the extistential crises their facing and talk about their life plans for the next few years, normalizing the feelings that go along with growing up. After recovering from the quick therapy session they move on to talking about "female rage" in the world right now including health care, period pains, and commencement speeches gone wrong. 

    Topics Include:

    • feeling okay with where you’re at in life
    • “If social media didn’t exist, I wouldn’t feel this way”
    • engagements, marriages, babies
    • studies on women treating women in health care
    • “men could never do periods”
    • women’s period cramps can be just as painful as heart attacks 
    • chiefs player talking about “me too” movement
    • cathardic ptsd moments
    • K’s 50 Shades of Grey Review
    • Follow us on socials and read our blog to always stay in touch xoxo  

      49 min
    • Are We Snapchat Cheaters?!

      In this episode, Mya and K talk about wild snapchat and cheating stories from both personal experiences and listener write ins! K always said she didn’t have toxic habits until today when she realized she was “cyber toxic” and joined Mya in revealing the sneaky things they did in their abusive relationships (with no regret we should add)! 

      Topics Include:

      • bf reading through text messages
      • snapchat ‘microcheating’
      • leaving the ex on open & being PROUD
      • snapchat is a dating app.
      • hot one-liners from men 
      • afraid of micro-cheating moments
      • screensavers of your bf/gf
      • Follow us on socials and read our blog to always stay in connected and hear our dating advice & stories xoxo

        35 min
      • My BFs Ex Tried To Choke Me

        Mya and K are starting their casual summer series of episodes talking about any topics and stories that feel relevant for them, making each episode spontaneous compared to their typical themed structure. Although they didn’t anticipate their episode being themed today, they shared stories around exes, exes’ exes and jealousy!

        Topics Include:

        • being assaulted by your bfs ex gf
        • meeting the exes
        • going to school with your ex
        • is jealousy normal in healthy relationships?
        • telling your partner about ex encouters & flirting
        • “is it jealousy or do I just love him?” 
        • Follow us on socials and read our blog to always stay connected xoxo  

          43 min
        • Planting The Seeds: Plan Your New Era

          Who is she? What does she look like? What are her passions? Take out your journal and pen because in this episode Mya and K help guide you through planning your new era! It can be easy to lose yourself in a relationship so whether you're recovering from a break up or simply starting a new chapter of your life, this episode is for you.


          Topics include:

          • Journal questions to guide you
          • Identifying yourself beyond your trauma
          • Routines and self-care
          • Manifestation
          • Fun topics to end (do you NEED to have sex every day in a relationship?; calling friends on their BS...)
          • Follow us for more content like this on our socials!

            43 min
          • Making The Right Pick: Post-Breakup Clarity

            In this episode Mya and K discuss finding clarity after a break-up. Together they list off the things they would miss and want to keep in future relationships as well as the things they swear they will NEVER put up with again! Listen to find out how to prioritize your wants and needs in future relationships.

            Topics include:

            • “I knew what I had is what i didn’t want”
            • What keeps people holding on
            • Love bombing
            • Feeling embarrassed by your partner
            • Niche "icks"

            • Follow along with us on socials and write in your stories!

              41 min
            • Singing in The Rain: Finding Your Voice

              This episode took a FULL TURN as Mya and K dove into wild analogies and high school stories that will make your draw drop and possibly question everything. Thankfully, they were able to pull it together and talk about finding your voice after trauma and what that means for you because everyone's journeys are unique!


              Topics include:

              • Louis C.K. allegations and analogies
              • Survivor experiences & consent under threat
              • "You're damned if you do and damned if you don't"
              • Lack of spatial boundaries/awareness in public
              • Different versions of finding your voice: court, therapy, friends & family, journaling, and more!
              • Make sure to follow us for more content like this and write in all your stories and questions!


                43 min
              • Starting to Bloom: Growth After Trauma

                In this episode Mya and K talk about their personal experiences in finding “the light at the end of the tunnel” when recovering from trauma. Together they share 'small' moments that made them realize they were going to be okay and moments to celebrate and be proud of.

                At the end they answer a listeners question, "How do I stop feeling guilty for being sexually assaulted? I constantly make myself think I'm at fault for overreacting."


                Topics include:

                • Healing with the right person
                • Everyone's journey is unique
                • Celebrating big & small wins
                • Healing your inner child
                • Finding a story/ending that works for YOU and your healing! (karma, hate, forgiveness)
                • Make sure to write in and follow us on socials to keep up with the latest topics and trends!

                  35 min
                • Showered With Regret: Breakup Blues

                  This week Mya and K asked you what the hardest part of getting over a break up is and they dive in talking about the post-break up blues. After catching up with each other and deciding they aren't going to talk about abuse for once, they go through all your write-in’s giving their best advice and empathizing with all types of break ups and the feelings that come with that. 

                  Topics Include:

                  • Coping methods for breakups
                  • Wanting to text your ex
                  • Your ex getting over the break up FAST
                  • Guilt & regret
                  • Do you believe in getting back together w your ex?
                  • When it just “isn’t working” anymore
                  • How do you get over the person you were never  “officially dating” 
                  • Laughing at high school relationships
                  • Follow us on socials!

                    42 min
                  • Dirty Work: Courts, Kits, & Counselors

                    This month’s theme is April Showers! This episode Mya talks about options for survivors post assault, because you deserve OPTIONS and to know your RIGHTS. In the Dear MK segment, Mya and K talk about K’s journey going to court and seeking justice after ending her abusive relationship to give hope to all our listeners who want to feel understood or have questions around this process! Survivors deserve justice!

                    Mya's Solo Segment Topics Include:

                    • Steps to take post-assault
                    • Rape Kits
                    • Title IX
                    • Ask MK Segment:

                      • Can girls ‘get away with’ more?
                      • Is ‘playing the game’ manipulative?
                      • Petty moments
                      • When the relationship ends, the trauma doesn’t, the journey doesn’t
                      • Stalking & “seeing” your abuser
                      • Taking legal actions
                      • Resources for you!

                        51 min
                      • Wilting Away: Effects of Abuse

                        This month’s theme is April Showers! This episode Mya talks about power plays abusers use to control and manipulate their victims, explaining unhealthy coping mechanisms that she developed during her own experiences. In the Dear MK segment, Mya and K talk about ways to check in with yourself and the common coping mechanisms survivors develop. They share a list of power and control tactics used in relationships for you to evaluate your own relationships!


                        Topics include:

                        • Explaining all types of abuse
                        • Fear & manipulation tactics
                        • Stop wishing to be hit
                        • When is the line crossed?
                        • Psychological symptoms 
                        • Your story matters, you matter!!!

                        • Follow us on socials to keep up with all our content, and check out our resources!

                          45 min

                        About Dear MK

                        From the publisher's feed

                        Welcome to Dear MK, a safe and empowering space for survivors, allies, and anyone looking to learn, heal, and connect. We’re here to share real stories, amplify survivor voices, and remind you that you’re never alone. Whether you’re grieving the past, finding inspiration for your healing journey, or just looking for a place to laugh through the pain, we’ve got you. We dive deep into topics like dating violence, sexual assault, mental health, relationships, and recovery— sometimes sprinkling in celebrity gossip!