Are you "thrill fucking" or are you REALLY turned on?

Let’s talk about the kind of sex that grabs you by the throat VS the kind that whispers you open, and then more open. Adrenaline sex thrives on thrill, drama, and the dopamine crash that follows.

Dopamine sex? It’s the art of slow seduction, safety, and being fully seen. In this episode, we unpack the difference, how to spot your patterns, and what happens when you stop chasing the high and start choosing depth.

Literally, there’s sex that burns you out and there’s sex that brings you back to life. If you’re craving depth, connection, and orgasms that do more than just get you off…

My Orgasmic Consciousness Blueprint Course is open now!

This isn’t surface level pleasure....this is sexual sovereignty.

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(Content Warning: There is discussion of revisiting our first encounter with sex. If you are not comfortable with this, please skip this episode)

And who else? Because manifesting a broken G-spot was a crazy set up! I was having sex out of routine, in hopes to not be cheated on. And on top of that offering no energy in sex-per my broken pleasure system.

How many more of us have manifested broken G-spots and signed sex practice contracts that coined us as JUST a tool for HIS SEX?? I manifested a vagina that didn’t work y'all! :(

Guys get in here……..!!!!!!

I need you to hear this story I fucking told myself! PLUS: A writing prompt for helpful SELF EXAMINATION in your own sex practice or to be used in a helpful SELF DISCOVERY Guided Meditation.

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Nikki

Most of us never got real sex education…just fear, shame, and silence. The whole "just don't get pregnant bit"!

Well, I created a breakdown, a cheat sheet, if you will, for WOMEN EVERYWHERE! I grew exhausted with the ridiculous line about women not being orgasmic, with the concept that we weren't experiencing OUR PLEASURE inside of sex. I changed my orgasm story, you can too! It's simple a lack of education.

You DESERVE to feel INFORMED.

You DESERVE to feel TURNED ON.

You DESERVE to come HOME to YOUR AUTHENTIC SELF.

(No more being content with miseducation - there is so much more to our truth)

Join my sex education course, "The Orgasmic Consciousness Blueprint" for women...designed to help you build confidence, release shame, and feel empowered in your body again.

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Nikki

Instead try SPIRIT LED!! Here's why...

Having a sex practice as women, where we are being used as a tool is not going to sustain longterm happiness. Period.

Having a sex practice that is theatrical and performative, is not going to create a feeling of connection, true desire or satisfaction. This does nothing for opening our portal. We desire an open portal during sex! Why??

As women, we have a sexual system that is design to receive RESONANCE COUPLING & FREQUENCY. We are the ANCHOR and RECEIVER of sexual energy. We literally CRAVE this from our souls design. If our sexual connections are lacking this design of energy coupling, receiving and using frequency, we break. Our bodies are off.

I just launched a 12 week Masterclass...

"The Orgasmic Consciousness Blueprint"

Where I have compiled and simplified all of the research I found, discovered, "trialed and errored", surrounding women's Sex & Orgasm Education. Click the link to learn more! And schedule a call with me to get started and to find out if this is a good fit for your journey!

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Toodles! :)

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My pleasure/orgasm story changed completely when I told the world, "I DON'T BELIEVE YOU".

I stopped being willing to accept lies like:

"the g-spot is a myth" - A CNN Debate

"it's difficult for women to reach orgasm from sexual intercourse" -Sex therapists all over

The information was too wide spread and way too accepted as normal for me! I told them ALL, "I don't believe you" and I changed my pleasure/orgasm story.

How? By making new things that WERE TRUE, a priority, like:

Understanding myself

Reclaiming control and inner wisdom

Feeling what came to me without "puppet masters"

Finding my forgotten sensual wisdom and self

Determining that pleasure was actually important to me

This episode is all about slowing down and how self discovery connects so deeply to our sex practice.

I learned that in order to lock in on our journey in connecting to higher self, it’s necessary for us to stop chasing the “something" that "someone else" told us to chase. It’s time to go inside. Come hither!

Check out my newest immersive offer "The Orgasmic Consciousness Blueprint" a 12 week educational experience with me in sex education, feminine alignment and authentic embodiment.

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As we close out this season, I want to give you something super important to ponder...

Whose design of sex are you having? 

How much are you paying attention to literally EVERYTHING? Especially what's inside you? 

Are there still parts of your system that you haven't come to understand yet? And if you're dealing with this sort of disconnect.....whose doing is this? Is it some teaching you stumbled upon, your parents, the matrix *giggling*.......this too has a cause and effect! So, give us a listen and ponder, or call me!

I just heard a voice say "say less" (it was me LoL)...so y'all are ready to tune in....get in here!!!

PS: Enjoy a fun mini guided visualization in this episode!

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Or check out the over 50 episodes on the podcast!

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If interested during the call we can also see if you do in fact have some space to learn more about the sexual, highly orgasmic system of the woman. Schedule your call below! Investment change---Now offering Personalized Investments. Toodles xxo Talk Soon :)

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THIS IS HELLA IMPORTANT!!! The less feeling or reason he attaches to sex, the less boundaries he will have when it comes to choosing to have sex. This makes temptation run higher and sometimes means anything might go, and we don't want that. And we have an obligation to “show up” in sex too, we’re not off the hook just because men are “horny”, we can bring a lot to this experience.

What has your role been here? Like literally, what type of sex have you created for him? In turn, what does he now crave from sex? Because as women, we control access to sex, so what is his experience when you welcome him in?

I see it this way....men are not just PROVIDERS & PROTECTORS...they are also receivers of the woman's magical essence! Ladies, whats your magic about and are you also connected to it via your sex?

And for the ladies that identify with the whole "Queen Energy" thing.....perhaps it's time you learn how to fuck like one! =) Stop walking around with a man in tow that only has sex with you to "get off". LOCK IN and think beyond him only getting "off" when he plugs in to your sexual temple.

WaaAAnnnNNNNttttTTTT MORE?!

Schedule a FREE INTEREST CALL for a deep dive into new, essential sex education with me, the Enchantress (thats literally my Feminine Archetype) *I'm dancing as I type this*

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What do the feminine women do for VALENTINES DAY? We find out what sex means to our man…we find out what motivates our guy to want to slide inside of us! We are gaining CLARITY and UNDERSTANDING in order to connect more deeply and learn what else we can bring to the table aka bed! 

And we will teach him, through our new energetic sex practice, how to have even more reason to connect with us in sex. He LEADS in LIFE, we are going to LEAD HIM, IN SEX - yes, this is allowed, teehee! We are learning how to make him feel loved from the inside of us and giving him a new theory on “why sex”. No more porn stuff, no more "animal body only”, we are the healers, it’s time to heal.

Is it dangerous to have a sex practice where “anything goes” or is this okay?

Also, fun thought.....Ladies, is your sex like connecting to a thunderstorm or like connecting to fog?! also "teehee"...

And at the start of all this, we are asking all the men….”why do you have sex with me?” Simply to gain clarity. Again…this is what the feminine women do! Get in here!!!! 

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If we can beautifully use our imagination to visualize and fantasize, creating our desire for our ideal husband and our ideal wedding day……why are we not using our imagination to visualize, fantasize and create a BETTER SEX PRACTICE?!

In this episode I give free tips on how I manifested, via imagination, a more thirst quenching ORGASMIC sex practice….and I offer you a writing prompt on how to do the same….And a fun DESIRE DIFFERENT FREEBIE: a simple, very doable orgasmic movement in sex, that I LOVE! Just in time for Valentine’s Day!! Enjoy!!! Have fun manifesting for your Valentine’s Day sex!!! ♥️🌟✨

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Why are we still walking around in bodies we don't understand? How does this add to us showing up strong for ourselves, our lovers and our mission? How can you adore and properly pour into a project of your very own, if a HUGE part of it is "greyed out" and you haven't given yourself full access to it?

In this episode I explore the concept of our lack of sex education being a hinderance to our lives, our growth and of course our levels of pleasure. As a collective, alot of us are experiencing an awakening or leveling up of many sorts, dont leave parts of you behind. While you are relearning parts of your life that didn't fully align, don't forget to include sex education as one of them!

Want to talk more?! Have questions, curious about my work and wanting to see if it's a good fit for you? Schedule a FREE 45 min Interest Call with me or check out my full course catalog.

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