Diary Of A Black Man

Coach Harry here just wanted to share a profound message to you that will help you in getting to where you need to be in order to establish a healthy relationship. I have had numerous failed relationships in my life, I’ve had 47 years already to master relationships and my inability to realise that I have never been ready for a loving and caring relationship has made me a failure in relationships. If I tell you that I did not have the best role models when it comes to relationships, I tell you now this is not an over emphasis on my part. My parents had a fractured relationship a difficult husband and wife relationship and they were not the best role models when it comes to relationships in fact I have never had a first hand opportunity of seeing what a healthy relationship looks like. My education in that department was very poor and now I’m on a path to learn about how to build a healthy and lasting relationship. Hope you enjoy this podcast and in listening it is my hope that you will excel and make the best choices in life.

In this day and age, where original ideas have but all gone and no longer seem to be working. We are stuck in a world where we are compounded in comparison. I find it had to come up with any idea, just because I’m in a world where every idea I see on socials seems better than my idea. There’s no originality in what I do, I’ve turned into sheep, and from what I know sheep are not very smart. That’s why I’m asking you to unplug from the matrix. The matrix wants us to fail and the matrix wants us to suffer. Look at how young people are so exposed to toxic images and information. In an era where you are bombarded to be a millionaire we are left to feel inadequate and insecure when we see that our idols are living the life we believe we should be living. It’s time for us to close the book on following nonsense and bring ourselves back to who we are meant to be

On a personal point of view I wanted to quit doing my podcasts only because I haven’t got much traction or interaction. As I turn 47 tomorrow I decided I’ll give it one more shot. What’s the worst that can happen. It’s probably likely that no one will listen or read the description. What I do know is that I’ve listened to some of my podcasts and some of them I’ve enjoyed and some I haven’t. The reality is this is something I really enjoy and I should keep enjoying it. I simply turn the mic on and get back and talk about marriage and separation to struggles in life and changing a few thing in my life. My life has changed in the last 2 years and it’s changed for the better in my opinion, off course it’s an opinion so I’m aware I could be totally wrong . We are here to be shot at if people disagree and on that we can have a debate about things.

Have you found yourself falling asleep at the wheel of your car, in the bus or on the train, are you a workaholic and you live your job more than your family friends and you are happy enough to sacrifice yourself and your sleep. Well I’m here to help you put things into perspective. It’s time to stay away from the struggles of killing your self from work commitments. I know my job almost killed me and I sacrifice ld sleep all my life only to discover that I destroyed my relationship with my kinds and my then wife. My family was in tatters and my physical health suffered.

After watching a movie last night at the cinema, I got home and thought, wow that movie was miserable and that’s when I thought about the reality most of us are living in. We are stuck in dead end jobs, relationships.

This episode I speak about the power of positive talk, the power of using good energy. It’s often been said that you can lose yourself with negative talk. You can manifest with positive things and I’ve found that this is true in my case. I have had a great life because of positive talk, the best things in my life happen when I’m positive and things lane on my lap. When I’m negative misfortune happens to be really close to me, this has in the past created anxiety and depression in all forms. I know it’s not easy to be positive, but I also know it’s easy to be positive from the moment you wake up.

In todays life we are all struggling with one thing or another, the main thing to remember is that our struggles will not always be round and most times those struggles are replaced with other struggles. I have always had struggles and I still have struggles and the only change is I now recognise my struggles. I recently realised that I am not alone in having struggles. That’s why you need to listen to this podcast and make up your own mind if you are ready to start making those changes that can help you live a sustainable life .

In this episode I discuss my thoughts on how social media and mobile devices are failing us and are preventing us from being able to communicate.

Todays episode I discuss love, what is love, who’s love and where’s love. We all need love, some more than others do, I’m sure psychopaths need love too, may be not in the same way that we experience love, but we all need love .

Body image is a sensitive subject matter. I try and explain a few ways you can look at how to tackle this issue. Without being scientific. It’s a duty of us all to be able to understand how our bodies work, so we can have an optimal life regarding body image and health status.