Difficult-ish

Difficult-ish

By Mohuya Khan and Mashnun MunirSociety & CulturePersonal Journals
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Difficult-ish episodes

  • going thru an identity crisis

    a lot of people have an identity crisis because they don't know who they are without their parents. south asian families usually teach children to be dependent on them and attach their beings to helping them. in this episode, we talk about some of the reasons on why we're feeling like this, how it's affecting our mental health, and what we're doing to try to get out of it. we hope u enjoy and don't forget to give us a rating and share with your friends!!

    keep tabs on us:

    our instagram: https://www.instagram.com/difficultish/

    mohuya's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/labyrinthave/

    mashnun's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mashnunmunir/



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    59 min
  • our rocky roads towards faith and religion

    in this episode, we talk about our journey towards becoming closer to our Islamic faith and religion. although we're fairly happy with where we are today, and where we see ourselves going, we don't hesitate to speak on the difficulties and frustrations we've had throughout the process. with faith and religion being forced upon us throughout our upbringings, we grew resentment and often rebelled against what we were told were morally correct, and we know this is something so many of you will relate to. talking points include teaching fear over love, tattoos, cultural interpretations, the hypocrisy, and many more. we've put off this topic for a little bit, since it is a pretty sensitive talking point for us, but we're happy we did it, for us, for you, enjoy<3


    keep tabs on us: our instagram:

    https://www.instagram.com/difficultish/

    mohuya's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/labyrinthave/

    mashnun's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mashnunmunir/



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    1 hr
  • advice sesh #3

    advice sesh numba 3! in our highly favorited advice sesh series, we ask our listeners through our instagram (@difficultish) about things they're seeking advice on, and we answer the best we can as the extremely non-professional experts we are! some of our topics of discussion this ep include: learning how to embrace our culture rather than just being conscious about it, finding the balance with faith, living in a toxic home and trying to make it enjoyable, and quite a few more! tap in now

    keep tabs on us: our instagram: 

    https://www.instagram.com/difficultish/ 

    mohuya's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/labyrinthave/ 

    mashnun's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mashnunmunir/



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    53 min
  • family values, unconventional careers, and the hustle w/ robin dey
    our very first guest on the pod! robin dey is a bangladeshi musician from southside jamaica, with roots in an extensive lineage full of musicians, one being the infamous manna dey. after his recent tour with anik khan performing in cities like los angeles, nyc, and london, we sat down to talk about the weight behind our family's traditions and values, the process of pursuing careers that aren't necessarily aligned with community standards, grinding and hustling, and how overpriced shisha lounges are nowadays. this is a good one! 
    keep tabs on us:
    our instagram:
    https://www.instagram.com/difficultish/
    mohuya's instagram:
    https://www.instagram.com/labyrinthave/
    mashnun's instagram:
    https://www.instagram.com/mashnunmunir/
    robin's instagram: 
    https://www.instagram.com/robindey_/


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    1 hr 22 min
  • self care as a south asian
    it has been ingrained in us that we have to continuously work and if we take a break, we're considered lazy or we don't deserve it. south asian culture makes us feel like you have to work until you can pay back your parents' sacrifices and guilty if you want to rest. in this episode, we talk about how we unlearned that self care is bad and how we implement our small acts of self care in our daily routines. we hope u enjoy!
    keep tabs on us:
    our instagram:
    https://www.instagram.com/difficultish/
    mohuya's instagram:
    https://www.instagram.com/labyrinthave/
    mashnun's instagram:
    https://www.instagram.com/mashnunmunir/


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    45 min
  • i hate living a double life around my parents
    it often feels like you are living a secret life when you are interacting with your parents, especially if they're south asian. they don't know your true identity whether it comes to your sexuality, hobbies or interests, your clothing preferences, and so many other things. in this episode, we talk about how hard it is to live a secret life with our families and our own experiences with the topic. 
    keep tabs on us: 
    our instagram:
    https://www.instagram.com/difficultish/
    mohuya's instagram: 
    https://www.instagram.com/labyrinthave/
    mashnun's instagram:
     https://www.instagram.com/mashnunmunir/


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    43 min
  • fake love and family gossip on social media
    a lot of people's goals for 2022 revolve around social media. growing this many followers on this platform, growing this many followers on that platform, and it got us thinking about how serious this social media thing will be this year. and with that, comes all of the downsides of trying to grow your social media in the brown community, and how a lot of these side effects are so ingrained without even noticing it. hitting on fake love, family gossip, people pushing their riches, and living a double life, listen to our first episode of 2022 on how annoying social media can be. 
    keep tabs on us: our instagram:
    https://www.instagram.com/difficultish/
    mohuya's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/labyrinthave/
    mashnun's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mashnunmunir/


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    45 min
  • our failures and new years goals
    in this episode, we wanted to highlight some of the failures we've had and all of the goals we couldn't reach this year. priorities changed and we had to alter our perspectives when we realized that we wouldn't be able to reach a goal. we give you our tips on making really great new years resolutions and steps on how you can make them easier to reach. this is our last episode of the year and we are so grateful for all of you. love you so much and see ya next year!
    keep tabs on us:
    our instagram:
     https://www.instagram.com/difficultish/
    mohuya's instagram:
    https://www.instagram.com/labyrinthave/
    mashnun's instagram:
    https://www.instagram.com/mashnunmunir/


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    44 min
  • mashnun's poetry book is out now!

    mashnun's first self-published poetry book titled 'headspun' is out on amazon! on today's episode, we learn more about one of our co-hosts and his writing journey, and how he's come to accept his vulnerability through poetry, a space that we don't see many south asian men entering. touching on topics such as low income community politics, faith, and family ties, we dive deeper into his upbringing and the message he's here to voice for how to have our south asian men rise, and become something grander than what they're societally meant to be. 

    find his published book here:

     https://www.amazon.com/headspun-Mashnun-Munir/dp/B09NRBY5VN/ref=zg_bs_13788371_3?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=ACCK4KHC18GE8VV904EM 

    keep tabs on us: 

    our instagram: 

    https://www.instagram.com/difficultish/

     mohuya's instagram: 

    https://www.instagram.com/labyrinthave/ 

    mashnun's instagram:

     https://www.instagram.com/mashnunmunir/



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    53 min
  • moving out, but the downsides

    we moved out a couple of months ago, but now we're understanding how hard it is to actually do it as two south asian young adults. we feel guilty or we never learned how to be financially independent or how to set boundaries with our parents and this is what makes it so hard. in this episode, we want to highlight some of the downsides to make you aware of some of the cons while also giving you some advice to prevent it. we hope u enjoy!

    keep tabs on us:

    our instagram:

    https://www.instagram.com/difficultish/

    mohuya's instagram:

    https://www.instagram.com/labyrinthave/

    mashnun's instagram:

    https://www.instagram.com/mashnunmunir/



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    42 min

About Difficult-ish

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difficult-ish is a project hosted by mohuya and mashnun, two bangladeshi-american artists, about deconstructing the narrative of what it means to grow up in a south asian/desi home, and building the…

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