In this episode, we go deep into how sex and disability, and all the issues that surround that, can lead to a type of sexual depression and anger connected to disability. I explain what that felt like for me as a Queer Cripple, and advocate for space to be made where the sexually active disabled person, can share their experiences.

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In this episode, I talk about another myth around sex and disability. The "oooooh, we can't have sex because I'll hurt you" myth. We go deep into why people are so afraid to 'hurt' disabled people, and how this affects their views on sex and disability. I also share that some of us might like pain, and discuss why this is the case.

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In this episode, I discuss how ableism has affected me as a Queer man doing the work of disability and looking for lust, love and all that jazz. I talk about recently when I admitted that one of my preferences was able-bodiedness, and how I had never really considered a disabled partner or lover as a desired option.

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In this episode, I talk about my experience as a disabled man in the digital dating realm. I share things guys have said to me online on apps like Grindr, and underscore how that made me feel. I also discuss why having disability in my online profiles is important, and how it has helped my own my Queer Cripple identity.

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In this episode, we explore what it feels like to talk about sex/sexuality with your Personal Care Attendant, and what that means for a disabled person.

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In this VERY FIRST EPISODE of Disability After Dark, I introduce you to myself, Andrew Gurza and share with you who I am, and why I think sexuality and disability is so important.

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