Discovering Your Calling — Strengths-Based Career Clarity for Mid-Career Women

Have you ever felt like your relationship is competing with your business ambition? Or the other way around? 

 In this episode, I sit down with Angela and James Mitchell, the founders of Love Intentionally. As a couple, they blend Angela’s background in counseling with James’ experience in entrepreneurship and coaching, bringing both heart and strategy to building marriages that thrive.

"Without me, his dreams may never come to reality. And without him, I feel like I could stay small." — Angela Mitchell 

Key Takeaways

• The "Anchorpreneur" Dynamic: Learn what an  "Anchorpreneur" is—and how it takes the risk pressure off of the entrepreneurial spouse. 
• Navigating Personality Differences: We look at their CliftonStrengths results. Angela (Woo, Communication, Achiever) and James (Strategic, Ideation, Woo) share how they navigate the friction between the "Visionary" and the "Realist" without driving each other crazy.
• The Weekly Marriage Meeting: James breaks down their Sunday ritual to handle logistics, finances, meal planning, and intimacy for more peace. 
• The 6-Year Gap: Angela shares this startling statistic from the Gottman Institute.  Learn why early intervention is key to avoiding deep ruts in your relationship.

Resources & Links

• Community & Free Resources: skool.com/loveintentionally (Includes the Weekly Marriage Meeting Template) 
• Book: Married and Magnetic by Angela & James Mitchell 
• Podcast: The Married and Magnetic Podcast 

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If you feel God nudging you toward a new path but fear is louder than your faith, or if you are waiting for a guarantee before you take the first step, this episode is for you.

Today, I am sharing a special message from my recent visioneering workshop for the Discovering Your Calling alumni. We explore three specific Bible stories that reveal a hard truth: often, the miracle only happens after you take the risky step.

I discuss why we often hesitate to act because we do not want to look foolish or fail. We look at the stories of Joshua and the widow to see why obedience often defies logic, and why your "jar of oil" is already enough to start.

You’ll learn:

✓ The "Flood Stage" Faith: Why you must step into the water before the river stops flowing (Joshua 3). 

✓ The "Jericho Strategy": How to move forward even when the plan seems illogical or embarrassing to others. 

✓ The "Empty Jar" Lesson: Why you need to ask for help and use the resources you already have right now. 

✓ The Art of "Shutting the Door": How to block out distractions to focus entirely on your assignment. 

✓ Reframing Success: Why God meets obedient action rather than waiting for perfect faith.

Mentioned in this episode:

2026 Career Change Quiz Feeling successful but quietly restless? Take this short quiz (carefully curated by a career coach) to evaluate what kind of career change (if any) actually makes sense for you right now. TAKE THE QUIZ

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Have you ever wondered if vision boards are just a fun craft project, or if they actually help you achieve your dreams?

In this episode, we move beyond the "woo-woo" and get into the practical reasons why a vision board is one of the most powerful tools for your career and life. If you have ever bought a specific car and suddenly started seeing it everywhere on the road, you already know how this works. It is about training your brain to notice the opportunities that matter.

I break down the critical difference between a "Goal Poster" (your checklist) and a "Vision Board" (your emotional anchor) and walk you through the exact steps to create one that pulls you toward your future.

In this episode, you will learn:

• The Science of Focus: How the Reticular Activating System works (and the "Red Mustang" example) to filter reality in your favor.
• Vision Board vs. Goal Poster: Why you need both in your office but why they serve two very different purposes.
• The 5 Essentials: The specific items to include on your board, from emotional images to symbols and affirmations.
• The Guardrails: 5 rules to follow to ensure your board is for you, not for Instagram.
• The Vision Statement: How to write a present-tense story for your life that helps you internalize your success before it happens.

Mentioned in this episode:

• Discovering Your Calling (Book)
• The concept of "Fearful Fred" vs. "Ready to Go Ruth"

Action Step: Once you listen, gather your supplies (magazines, stickers, photos) and block out time this week to build your board. If you feel brave, snap a photo and DM it to me. I would love to cheer you on as you set the direction for 2026.

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Additional Resources:

📘 Get your copy of the Discovering Your Calling Book

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Matthew 5:14-16 is the inspiration for this podcast.
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If you’ve set big goals for the year but they already feel like a heavy obligation... or if you’re a leader trying to fix team problems but only finding more frustration... this episode is for you.

Today, I sat down with organizational change strategist John Hildebrand to explore why traditional goal setting often fails without a "magnetic vision." We discuss the science behind why goals can become "negative emotional attractors" when they aren't connected to a larger purpose, and how to shift your brain into a state that sustains long-term growth.

John shares his personal journey from a status-driven definition of success to one of deep self-discovery. We unpack the difference between "fixing" and "visioneering," the hidden power of Empathy in leadership, and the specific questions you need to ask to bypass your inner critic.

You’ll learn:

✓ The "Magnetic Vision" Secret: Why setting goals without an inspiring 10-year vision is a recipe for burnout and failure. 

✓ Vision Crafting vs. Problem Solving: How to use the "Positive Opposite" approach to focus on what you want to see, rather than obsessing over what’s wrong. 

✓ The "Lottery Question": A powerful exercise to silence your practical brain ($500 million tax-free!) and discover what truly lights you up. 

✓ Empathy as a Hard Skill: Why this talent is often misunderstood and how it serves as a direct line to building trust in teams. 

✓ Living the Questions: Wisdom from poet Rainer Maria Rilke on how to be patient with uncertainty and "live your way" into the answers.

Mentioned in this episode:

• The Science of Change Book by Richard Boyatzis:
   https://www.amazon.com/s?k=science+of+change+boyatzis&adgrpid=185684972785&hvadid=779615795428
  
  
  
• Connect with John Hildebrand:
   https://www.linkedin.com/in/john-hildebrand/
• John’s Website:
   https://johnhildebrand.com

If you’re ready to stop striving and start aligning with your God-given talents, let’s connect. I invite you to dive into your CliftonStrengths report, just as John and I discussed, so you can find the peace and clarity you deserve.

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Additional Resources:

📘 Get your copy of the Discovering Your Calling Book

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Matthew 5:14-16 is the inspiration for this podcast.
Gallup®, Clifton StrengthsFinder®, StrengthsFinder®, the 34 Clifton StrengthsFinder® theme names are trademarks of Gallup, Inc.

If you looked back at 2025 and realized you drifted, got distracted, or missed the mark on your biggest dreams, you are not alone. Even after years of personal development, it is possible to slide into a spiral of doubt when the results don't match the effort.

In this episode, we strip away the complex workshops and "louder" goal-setting tactics that often overwhelm ambitious women. Instead, we focus on a simple, proven 3-step framework to move from confusion to clear, directed action.

We explore why "insight" alone isn't enough to change your life and how to create a strategy that actually fits your season of life.

In this episode, you will learn:

• The Trap of "More": Why we often fail not because we lack goals, but because we lack anchors and say "yes" to too many good things.
• The 3-Step Framework: A breakdown of Clarity, Strategy, and Sustainable Focus.
• Strengths Alignment: Why your strategy must use your natural talents if you want the results to stick past February.
• Overcoming the Spiral: How to kick off the covers, stop wallowing, and create a plan even when you feel heavy emotions.

Next Step: If you are standing at a career crossroads and want to ensure 2026 is your year of clarity, don't wait. Take the 2026 Career Change Quiz or book a clarity call today to start the conversation.

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Additional Resources:

📘 Get your copy of the Discovering Your Calling Book

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Matthew 5:14-16 is the inspiration for this podcast.
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If you feel exhausted by your business even though you’re doing everything "right"… this episode is for you.

Today, I share a powerful case study from a recent client session that reveals why following "expert" advice might be exactly what’s draining you. It’s not about working harder. It’s not about time management. It’s about the subtle but dangerous misalignment between your natural strengths and your daily tasks.

I unpack the "24 Hours" myth, the difference between pruning and harvesting seasons, and why clarity often comes from quiet confirmation rather than fireworks.

You’ll learn:

✓ Why doing "everything right" on paper can still leave you feeling wrong inside 

✓ The "24 Hours" Myth: Why you need to stop comparing your day to someone else’s

 ✓ How to identify if you are relying on your "lower talent themes" and why it causes burnout 

✓ The critical difference between a "Pruning Season" and a "Harvesting Season" — and how to accept where you are 

✓ Why your strengths don't replace discernment, but support it

 ✓ 4 specific questions to ask yourself to move from hustle to alignment



Mentioned in this episode:
The Only 2 Tips You Need for Success and Balance in 2025:
https://www.buzzsprout.com/2081544/episodes/16360443

If you’re ready to stop striving and start aligning with your God-given talents, let’s connect. I invite you to dive into your CliftonStrengths report, as I did for my friend, so you can find the peace and clarity you deserve.

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Additional Resources:

📘 Get your copy of the Discovering Your Calling Book

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Matthew 5:14-16 is the inspiration for this podcast.
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If you feel stuck, scared to make a change, or frustrated that you’re not following through on the ideas and dreams in your heart… this episode is for you.

Today, Sheri unpacks the real reason ambitious, successful mid-career women freeze when they feel called to something more. It’s not lack of clarity. It’s not motivation. And it’s definitely not time management.

Using research from Harvard Business Review, Duke University, McLean Hospital, and the KPMG Women’s Leadership Study, Sheri reveals what’s actually holding you back — fear, doubt, emotional avoidance, and the confidence gap.

You’ll learn:

✓ Why 95% of ideas never make it past the starting line
✓ The Attitude Wheel: the cycle every woman hits when starting something new
✓ What really happens at 6:00 — fear, freeze, distraction, and self-doubt
✓ The difference between clarity and confidence (and why clarity alone isn’t enough)
✓ Why successful women avoid career-changing risks (KPMG study)
✓ How to move from 6:00 to 9:00 faster, with less spiraling
✓ What Sheri sees in her clients at the end of her 10-week program — and why most stall
✓ The new Calling Creator Collective™ and how it supports you through fear and follow-through

If you’ve been feeling called to a new direction but can’t seem to take the next step, this episode will help you understand why — and give you the pathway to move forward with confidence.

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Additional Resources:

📘 Get your copy of the Discovering Your Calling Book

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You’ve worked hard. You’ve built a successful career. On paper, everything looks great — yet deep down, you feel that quiet restlessness…
 That tug for something of your own.
Something more fulfilling, more purpose-driven, and more aligned with who you’re becoming.

If you’ve been craving a new direction — but you’re not ready to walk away from the stability of your current job — this episode is your roadmap.

In today’s conversation, I’m sharing 5 simple steps you can take this week to start creating work you love… work that lights you up… work that could eventually give you the freedom and fulfillment you’ve been longing for.

And the best part?
 You don’t need to quit your job, take a big risk, or have it all figured out.
 You just need a clear starting point — and a strategy.

 Inside this episode, as your CliftonStrengths® Coach and Visionary Strategist, I’ll help you: 

✨ Take inventory of the skills that energize you
 ✨ Turn past work experience and hobbies into new opportunities
 ✨ Identify causes and problems that light you up
 ✨ Leverage your God-given talents (your CliftonStrengths®!) to create impact and income
 ✨ And inspire you with one woman's story  — Ms. Rachel of Songs for Littles — turned her passion project into a $50-million purpose-driven business

Whether you’re craving a creative outlet, dreaming of a future career pivot, or simply ready to explore what’s next, this episode will help you take your first confident step toward building a career — and a life — where you can live your calling, lead with your strengths, and create meaningful, sustainable success.

🔹 Take the free Portfolio Career Quiz → DiscoveringYourCalling.com/quiz
🔹 Book your Start with Strengths session → SheriMiterCo.com/services

Mentioned in today's episode: 

 Get Your Rack Back 

Ms Rachel & Team

Take the CliftonStrengths Assessment

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Is the traditional "career for life" concept outdated? In this episode, we are exploring the rise of Portfolio Careers.

Listen in to discover what a portfolio career is (it's more than just a "side hustle"!), why it's becoming so popular for both companies and individuals, and how it can offer a "risk-free" path to finding your calling. We'll break down all the pros and cons to help you decide if this flexible, multi-stream approach to work is the right move for you.

🧭 Is a Portfolio Career Right for You?

Take our free, 12-question quiz to get a snapshot of whether this path is a viable option based on your personality, dreams, and current situation. You'll get an honest answer and a simple action step to move forward!

https://discoveringyourcalling.com/quiz

💡 What You'll Learn in This Episode

• What is a portfolio career? (We break down Anna Mackenzie’s definition).
• Why is this trend so popular? (Hint: It’s a win-win for companies and employees).
• The 3 main advantages for your wellbeing: (More creativity, no boredom, and using your natural talents).
• The key financial advantages: (Building a safety net, diversifying income, and creating a "risk-free exit strategy").
• The 5 main disadvantages to consider: (No traditional benefits, juggling multiple things, and company policies).

📚 Resources & References

• Anna Mackenzie's Substack: Anna Mack’s Stack
• The Portfolio Collective: What Is a Portfolio Career?
• Upwork Study: Portfolio Careers Offer Flexibility & Income for Gen Z
• Snaphunt Trends: Future of Work 2026—Key Trends

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Matthew 5:14-16 is the inspiration for this podcast.
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Find Your Calling: What Your 3 a.m. Wake-Up Call Is Trying to Tell You

Have you ever woken up at 3 a.m. with your mind spinning — questioning your career, your purpose, or whether you’re meant for something more?
 Those quiet middle-of-the-night moments aren’t random.
 They’re often the truest whispers of your calling… showing up before the world gets loud again.

In this episode, Sheri explores why these 3 a.m. wake-up calls happen, what they’re trying to reveal, and why so many successful, high-achieving women end up hitting the “snooze button” on the very thing they’re being called to do.

You’ll learn how to separate fear from truth, calm from chaos, and calling from noise — and how to begin answering that nudge without burning your life or career to the ground.

✨ In This Episode, You Will Learn:

🌙 The Power of 3 a.m. Thoughts
Why those early-morning ideas often hold deeper wisdom — showing you who you’re becoming before you fully see it in the daytime.

⚔ Fear vs. Faith
How to tell the difference between the quiet, sacred whisper (“I’m meant for more”) and the loud, fearful voice (“What will people think?”).

🦈 The 3 Saboteurs
Meet the “sharks,” “danger buoys,” and “anchors” that keep you stuck, uncertain, or second-guessing your next step.

🎨 An Introduction to the Portfolio Career
Why building multiple streams of work aligned with your strengths can give you the freedom and security to answer your calling with peace instead of panic.

🪜 A Simple 3-Step Action Plan
A practical, strengths-aligned way to capture your next 3 a.m. idea and turn it into confident forward momentum — without quitting your job or blowing up your life.

If you’ve been feeling restless, craving more purpose, or sensing a shift you can’t quite name… this episode will help you understand why — and what your next right step might be.

📝 Resources Mentioned

• Feeling called to something more?
  Take this quick quiz to discover whether you’re ready to create work that gives you more freedom, fulfillment, and purpose — and whether a portfolio-style career might be the right next step for you. 

Free Quiz:  "Is It Time to Build Your Portfolio Career?" 

• Subscribe for Part 2: Don't miss the next episode, where we will go into much more detail about what a portfolio career is and how to build one. 

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Additional Resources:

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Matthew 5:14-16 is the inspiration for this podcast.
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