Divorce for Wealthy Women

Dating after divorce can feel like entering an entirely new world, especially after a long marriage! How do you open yourself to connection while honoring your values, protecting your independence, and enjoying the life you’re building?

In this episode of Divorce for Wealthy Women, Brooke Summerhill welcomes Heather Greenwood, a matchmaker with 30 years of experience at It’s Just Lunch, for a thoughtful conversation about beginning again without rushing to find your next partner.

Together, they explore how changes in your financial and social life can affect dating, how wealth and lifestyle expectations can complicate the search for compatibility, and how to talk about money without turning a date into an interview. They also consider why seeking someone like your ex, or the complete opposite, can keep you focused on the past instead of what matters now.

Heather encourages women to take things slowly, date with intention, and let their values guide them. Her message is reassuring: you can be thoughtful about what you want while keeping dating fun and allowing connections to develop without pressure.

Whether you’re preparing for your first date after divorce or already meeting new people, this conversation reminds you that you get to choose your own pace. There’s room to enjoy the experience while honoring the independence and security you’ve worked hard to build.

Connect with Heather through It’s Just Lunch.

To connect with Brooke Summerhill and learn more about working together, visit The Summerhill Firm. Brooke helps women understand and navigate the financial side of divorce so they can move forward with clarity and confidence.

After divorce, a woman may find herself making financial decisions alone while also wondering how to help her children without making them dependent on family wealth. Those questions can bring up fear, guilt, and uncertainty for everyone involved!

In this episode of Divorce for Wealthy Women, Brooke welcomes Susan Weingartner, founder of Weingartner Legacy Co. Susan is a leading voice on the human side of generational wealth, bringing more than 25 years of experience across capital markets, philanthropy, impact investing, and family enterprise. She has spoken to audiences across the United States and internationally about preparing people for the responsibility that comes with wealth. Through Weingartner Legacy Co., Susan works privately with individuals, family leaders, and multigenerational families, helping them clarify what their wealth is for, prepare the next generation for responsibility, and navigate the conversations and decisions that shape a living legacy.

Susan also brings a deeply personal perspective. She shares how her own divorce and family losses led her to reconsider who she was and what she wanted to carry forward.

Brooke and Susan discuss why parents and children can have very different worries about inheritance, how silence and assumptions shape family conversations, and why it helps to talk about values and purpose before deciding how much wealth to transfer or when.

Learn more about Susan at Weingartner Legacy Co..

Brooke Summerhill is a Certified Financial Planner® and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® who helps women understand and navigate the financial side of divorce. She founded The Summerhill Firm, hosts Divorce for Wealthy Women, and wrote Divorce for Wealthy Women. Learn more about Brooke and her work at summerhillfirm.com.

What happens when you suspect your spouse is concealing assets, transferring money, understating income, or quietly preparing for divorce?!

In this episode, Brooke Summerhill speaks with Anthony DeLorenzo Jr., a third-generation private investigator and partner at All State Investigations, Inc., a nationally recognized leader in matrimonial and high-asset private investigations.

Anthony explains which investigative searches may provide the most valuable information when a financially dependent or less financially informed spouse fears that assets are being hidden. They discuss the financial behaviors and warning signs that may suggest concealed accounts, undisclosed transfers, understated income, support of another household, or financial preparation for divorce.

The conversation also explores how bank, brokerage, credit, cryptocurrency, business, public record, and social media investigations can work together to reveal a more complete picture of the marital estate.

Anthony shares what a private investigator can legally uncover, how evidence is documented and authenticated, and how investigative findings may assist attorneys, forensic accountants, financial professionals, mediators, and the court.

Most importantly, Brooke and Anthony discuss how someone who feels frightened, financially overwhelmed, or uncertain about their suspicions can thoughtfully decide which investigative services may be worth the cost and which searches may add expense without producing meaningful evidence.

Learn more about Anthony DeLorenzo Jr. and All State Investigations at https://allstateinvestigation.com/about-us/ or email [email protected] or call 1‑800‑948‑7884. To learn more about divorce financial planning or mediation, contact Brooke Summerhill at The Summerhill Firm.

This episode is intended for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal, financial, or investigative advice.

What happens when millions of dollars, family businesses, executive compensation, and deeply personal relationships collide in divorce?

In this episode of Divorce for Wealthy Women, Brooke Summerhill sits down with nationally recognized New York divorce trial attorney Dror Bikel, author of The 1% Divorce: When Titans Clash. With more than three decades of experience representing executives, entrepreneurs, business owners, and high-net-worth individuals, Dror shares what really happens behind the scenes in some of the country's most complex divorce cases.

Together, they discuss the most expensive mistakes affluent women make during divorce, why litigation strategy matters, how emotions can quietly derail financial outcomes, and what every woman should know before making decisions that could affect her wealth for decades.

Whether you own a business, have significant investments, or simply want to protect everything you've worked so hard to build, this conversation offers valuable insight into navigating divorce with confidence and clarity.

In this episode, you'll learn:

Why wealthy divorces require a different strategy than typical divorces

The financial mistakes that can cost millions during litigation

How business ownership, executive compensation, and complex assets change negotiations

When settlement makes sense and when litigation is unavoidable

How emotions influence financial decision-making in high-net-worth divorces

The importance of assembling the right professional team early

About Dror Bikel

Dror Bikel is one of New York's leading divorce trial attorneys and the bestselling author of The 1% Divorce: When Titans Clash. For more than thirty years, he has represented executives, entrepreneurs, business owners, and high-net-worth individuals in sophisticated divorce and custody matters. His work has been featured by CNN, Newsweek, People, Business Insider, and The Hollywood Reporter.

Learn more at:
https://brsmatlaw.com

Connect with Brooke Summerhill

The Summerhill Firm

Certified Financial Planner™
Certified Divorce Financial Analyst®

Helping affluent women make confident financial decisions before, during, and after divorce.

In this episode of the Divorce for Wealthy Women Podcast, Brooke Summerhill welcomes Natalie McVeigh, a globally recognized consultant, mediator, executive coach, Certified Happiness Trainer, and expert in family dynamics, conflict resolution, and transformational change.

Natalie brings more than 20 years of experience working with ultra-high-net-worth families, family offices, family-owned businesses, executives, and entrepreneurs. As the Founder of Oikonomia Advisory, she helps families and leaders navigate complex transitions, strengthen relationships, resolve conflict, and create meaningful change grounded in both science and human connection.

Drawing from her extensive background in organizational development, neurocardiology, applied psychophysiology, mediation, and coaching, Natalie shares powerful insights into what truly drives successful transitions during divorce and other major life changes. Together, Brooke and Natalie explore the intersection of wealth, family systems, communication, happiness, and emotional resilience.

In This Episode:

Why divorce is often more about family dynamics than finances

How high-net-worth families experience conflict differently

The role of emotional intelligence in difficult negotiations

What neuroscience teaches us about stress, communication, and decision-making

How Conversational Intelligence can transform relationships during conflict

The connection between happiness, resilience, and personal growth

Navigating family transitions with greater clarity and purpose

Why understanding family systems is critical during divorce

How mediation and interest-based negotiation can create better outcomes

Creating lasting transformation rather than temporary solutions

About Natalie McVeigh

Natalie McVeigh is the Founder of Oikonomia Advisory and an executive coach, consultant, mediator, and Certified Happiness Trainer. She specializes in helping ultra-high-net-worth families, family offices, entrepreneurs, and executives navigate complex transitions and achieve meaningful personal and professional growth.

Natalie is a Fellow and Faculty Member of the Family Firm Institute, serves on the Education Development Committee of the Purposeful Planning Institute, and is Director of Research and Development at Aspen Family Business Group. She is also a Trust and Estate Practitioner (TEP) and a Master Neuroplastician specializing in Conversational Intelligence.

Her expertise includes family dynamics, conflict resolution, governance, leadership development, mediation, systems theory, team effectiveness, executive coaching, and transformational change. Natalie is currently completing her Ph.D. in Applied Psychophysiology at Saybrook University.

Natalie's approach combines cutting-edge research, neuroscience, happiness studies, and practical experience to help individuals and families navigate life's most important transitions with greater confidence, connection, and purpose.

Key Takeaway

The most successful divorce outcomes are not created solely through legal agreements or financial settlements. They emerge when individuals understand the emotional, relational, and family-system dynamics influencing their decisions. By combining self-awareness, effective communication, and a long-term perspective, it is possible to navigate conflict while building a stronger foundation for the future.

Connect with Brooke Summerhill

For divorce financial planning, mediation support, and educational resources for women navigating divorce, visit The Summerhill Firm.

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Disclaimer: This podcast is intended for educational purposes only and should not be considered legal, financial, tax, or psychological advice. Please consult qualified professionals regarding your specific situation.

In this conversation, I interview Amy Hale from BMO Wealth Management about the importance of financial control and confidence for women, especially during and after divorce.

Amy shares insights on common financial mistakes women make, the significance of being involved in financial discussions, and the role of financial advisors in empowering women. The discussion emphasizes the need for women to take control of their financial journeys and the importance of building confidence through knowledge and support.

Takeaways

Women often lack a seat at the financial table during divorce.

Financial confidence can decrease significantly for uninvolved women.

Establishing a relationship with a trusted financial advisor is crucial.

Women should understand their overall financial picture, including budgeting and investments.

Isolation can lead to poor financial decisions during divorce.

Choosing the right financial advisor is essential for long-term success.

Emotional decisions can cloud financial judgment in divorce.

Women should evaluate the pros and cons of keeping the marital home versus liquid assets.

Starting to engage with finances can significantly boost confidence!

Reach out to Amy: Amy Hale - BMO Harris

About the Podcast:

Divorce for Wealthy Women features top divorce professionals who share their insights with women navigating the complexities of high-net-worth divorce. Each episode is designed to help listeners protect their lifestyle and financial future - before, during, and after divorce.

Brooke discreetly helps affluent women through divorce by providing financial clarity and support.

Website: ⁠www.summerhillfirm.com ⁠

My NEW Book "Divorce for Wealthy Women": Amazon

LinkedIn: ⁠linkedin.com/in/brookesummerhill⁠

Divorce is never easy! Especially when significant wealth, family dynamics, and your children’s future are on the line. In this insightful episode, host Brooke Summerhill welcomes Charles D. Jamieson, a Board-Certified Marital and Family Law attorney with over 40 years of experience. Charlie breaks down the most critical legal changes and strategies that affluent women must understand during divorce.

He explains how recent changes to time-sharing laws affect mothers seeking primary custody, as well as key updates to alimony statutes. He also dives into how assets can be hidden during divorce and what women can do to protect themselves. From practical tips on financial documentation to the value of a strong legal and financial team, Charles shares actionable advice to help you safeguard your future.

Listen now to gain expert legal insight and empower yourself with the tools to navigate your divorce confidently.

Key Topics Covered:

• The impact of new 50/50 time-sharing presumption

• How spouses hide assets and how to find them

• Why a forensic accountant is essential

• Legal consequences of asset concealment

• Ten things divorce attorneys wish clients knew
  

Guest: Charles D. Jamieson

Board Certified in Marital and Family Law

Website: www.cjamiesonlaw.com

Phone: 561-478-0312

Charles D. Jamieson is a highly principled attorney known for his assertive representation and deep commitment to family law. With a practice spanning over four decades and experience consulting on divorce cases across more than 20 states, he is widely respected for his expertise in complex family rights issues. Based in West Palm Beach, Florida, he remains a trusted ally to clients navigating the legal challenges of divorce.

About the Podcast:

Divorce for Wealthy Women features top divorce professionals who share their insights with women navigating the complexities of high-net-worth divorce. Each episode is designed to help listeners protect their lifestyle and financial future - before, during, and after divorce.

Brooke discreetly helps affluent women through divorce by providing financial clarity and support.

Website: www.summerhillfirm.com

LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/brookesummerhill

Divorce can be an emotional and financial rollercoaster, but the tax implications are often the process's most overlooked and complicated part!! In this episode, we dive deep into the intersection of taxes, alimony, child support, and divorce settlements to help you navigate the complexities of life after divorce. Do you know who gets to claim the child tax credits? What about how tax debts are shared post-divorce? We’ve got you covered.

Join Hubert Johnson, a seasoned tax attorney with over 15 years of experience, as he explains the critical tax rules every woman should know during and after divorce. Hubert breaks down the effect of tax reforms on alimony payments, why a solid marriage settlement agreement is crucial, and how to handle tax debts and deductions in shared custody situations. He also covers when it’s time to consult a tax attorney and how to avoid unwanted tax consequences, especially in cases involving bankruptcy.

Whether you’re just beginning the divorce process or dealing with post-divorce financial challenges, this episode offers actionable advice to help you make informed, strategic decisions.

Topics Discussed:

• The impact of recent tax reforms on alimony payments
• Tax filing status options for divorced individuals
• Managing child tax credits and deductions in split households
• Addressing tax debts and joint responsibilities after divorce
• The essential role of tax attorneys in divorce and financial planning

About Hubert Johnson
Hubert Johnson is an experienced tax attorney with a diverse background in tax law and financial planning. He began his tax law career in 2009 and has since led various tax departments, taught tax law, and helped thousands of clients navigate the complexities of the IRS and state tax agencies. Hubert is the founder and owner of Guardian Tax Law, and has saved clients millions of dollars over the years. He is also a sought-after speaker and educator on tax matters.

Hubert was admitted to the Idaho Bar in 2007 and the California Bar in 2008. He holds a law degree from the McGeorge School of Law and graduated summa cum laude from CSU Sacramento.

Connect with Hubert:

• Website | Guardian Tax Law
• LinkedIn | Hubert Johnson

About The Podcast
Divorce for Wealthy Women brings together top divorce professionals to share practical insights tailored to affluent women navigating the complexities of divorce. Hosted by Brooke Summerhill, a Certified Financial Planner, Divorce Specialist, and Money Coach, this podcast offers expert advice to help women preserve their lifestyle during and after divorce.

Connect with Brooke Summerhill:

• Website | Summerhill Firm

Have you ever experienced a life-changing revelation that shook you to your core? In this episode, Lora Cheadle, a betrayal recovery expert, opens up about her journey through discovering her husband’s 15-year infidelity, which involved multiple betrayals. What felt like a devastating blow ultimately became the foundation for Lora’s transformative work. Now, she helps others navigate the emotional and psychological aftermath of betrayal and divorce.

Lora shares her deeply personal story of confronting betrayal, grieving lost dreams, and rebuilding her life from scratch. She discusses the unique emotional and identity challenges faced by women in high-net-worth divorces and offers practical, actionable advice for reclaiming confidence and building a new identity. From her five-step "FLAUNT" process to daily strategies for self-care, Lora gives us tools to move from heartbreak to empowerment.

Tune in for inspiring insights on how to turn betrayal into an opportunity for growth and reinvention.

Books by Lora Cheadle
Flaunt! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy & Spiritual Self

• The emotional impact of betrayal and how it disrupts your sense of self.
• Why betrayal is more than just infidelity—it’s the breaking of trust and dreams.
• Rebuilding your identity after the “tornado” of divorce.
• Simple yet powerful ways to nurture yourself and regain emotional balance.

• The FLAUNT framework: Find your Fetish, Laugh Out Loud, Accept Unconditionally, Navigate the Negative, and Trust in Your Truth.
• The healing power of laughter and small moments in emotional regulation.
• How to define your own narrative and future after trauma.

Lora Cheadle is a betrayal recovery coach, legal consultant, bestselling author, international speaker, and host of the FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity or Betrayal podcast. As a mentor and guide, Lora specializes in helping women reclaim their confidence, peace, and sovereignty after experiencing betrayal. Whether they choose to stay or leave, her mission is to empower women with the tools and support they need to regain their self-worth and autonomy.

Lora understands the soul-shattering impact of infidelity and helps women transform their devastation into empowerment. Her work is about more than just recovering from betrayal—it’s about reclaiming everything you’ve lost along the way.

Connect with Lora:
Website: loracheadle.com
Facebook: @lora.cheadle
X: @LoraCheadle

Divorce for Wealthy Women connects affluent women with top divorce professionals to provide guidance, support, and tips for maintaining their lifestyle during and after divorce. Hosted by Brooke Summerhill, a Certified Financial Planner, Divorce Specialist, and Money Coach, this podcast helps women navigate the financial and emotional complexities of divorce with confidence.

Divorce doesn't have to mean a courtroom battle during the holidays. In today’s episode, family law attorney Sandra Fava explains the powerful alternatives to traditional litigation, such as mediation and collaborative law, that can make navigating a divorce more efficient, cost-effective, and less stressful—especially for high-net-worth individuals. Sandra brings over two decades of expertise and insights into why these options are often game-changers for families.

Whether you're considering divorce or just curious about the process this holiday season, this episode will provide valuable insights into how you can avoid traditional litigation and make the experience less overwhelming.

Topics Discussed:

About Sandra Fava

Sandra Fava is the founder and managing attorney at Fava Law, a family law practice that offers compassionate and effective legal counsel to individuals and families during transitions. Recently recognized as a "Woman to Watch" by Morris & Essex Magazine, Sandra has built a reputation as a skilled negotiator, litigator, and advocate for alternative dispute resolution.

With a career exclusively dedicated to family law, Sandra has represented clients in high-net-worth divorces, child custody disputes, spousal support, property division, and more. She believes in clear, practical advice tailored to her clients' unique needs while providing unwavering support during difficult times. Sandra is committed to offering her clients both strategic counsel and emotional support to navigate the complexities of family law.

Prior to founding Fava Law, Sandra was a Partner in the Family Law Department at a national Am Law 200 firm and Chair of Family Law at a respected regional firm.

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About the Podcast:
This podcast features divorce professionals offering their expert guidance to affluent women navigating divorce. Hosted by Brooke Summerhill, a Certified Financial Planner, Divorce Specialist, and Money Coach, the podcast provides tips to help high-net-worth women maintain their lifestyle during and after divorce.

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