Divorce Your Story Podcast

This year for some may not be considered "The most wonderful time of the year" especially when your relationship has ended. The detachments from someone is simply more than just you and your former partner. It's the extended families, the traditions you've shared, splitting custody between the parents, or even seeing your ex already in another relationship.

It can be a lot to take in and trust me I've been there.

This week's podcast, I decided to take an previous recording that gives 3 ways to help you get through this season during this time and look forward to embracing a new season of your life.

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Here's the bottom line: There are just certain "types" of relationships that you need to avoid entertaining.

When you're entertaining someone, it impacts the quality of your life as well as your direction. When you're giving someone access to you, you're giving them time, energy, and other resources and those are things that you should never be casual about.

The majority of the stories I hear are very similar and one of those similarities are the kind of relationships many continuously entertain believing that the outcome will be different and I'm here to tell you that it won't and it never will be.

In this week's podcast, join me as I discuss 5 kind of relationships that you need to avoid entertaining altogether!

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Seeing your ex move on quickly after your relationship can leave questions. You may wonder:

It may seem like them moving on so soon is an indicator that they didn't care when in fact that is merely the case.

On this week's podcast, join me as I discuss 3 reasons on why your ex moved on so quickly and what you need to do for yourself!

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To go back to something that you've walked away from needs to be carefully considered..

You're often told to "work things out" but why? What would that look like? And what would you really be returning to?

Deciding to return back to an old relationship cannot be for surfaced reasons, because everyone around you thinks you should or because you're lonely.

On this week's podcast, join me as I discuss 4 reasons on why you shouldn't go back!

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Being your own hero involves showing up for yourself by being committed to what you say you want for your life! It's easy to look at someone to save you and the truth is, that isn't anyone else's responsibility but your own.

This year has been a challenge for us all and feelings of defeat, feeling powerless and losing hope can arise.

I was so inspired by actor Chadwick Boseman and his ability to be his own hero despite of his battle with colon cancer before he passed. This shows the definition of a person who became the hero of their own story.

On this week's podcast, I wanted to give some inspiration on being your own hero of your story as well as 5 things that you will need to start that path!

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Simply put...there are just certain things that you must stop doing when you want to move on with your life from a relationship...

Anyone can physically exit out of a relationship but if you're still attached mentally and emotionally you remain just as stagnant.

Moving forward after a relationship does need to be intentional no matter how difficult and challenging it may seem

Join me this week as I go over four things you need to stop doing when it comes to your ex and your past relationship.

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I get asked this a lot "Tonya, why didn't they see my value?", "What's wrong with me?"

That question will keep you in an endless loop to find an answer, question yourself, and believe that they're inability to see your worth makes you unworthy....

Before you know it, you're connecting the way you view yourself based on the success of the relationship..

We can come up a million reasons as to why someone is unable to recognize the value you have however, It's important to understand what you need to know for yourself when you're asking yourself this particular question.

Join me this week as I go over 3 things you need to know when you find yourself in this mental and emotional space.

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Your ex isn't your competition.

What does this mean? It means that whatever they choose to do or don't do shouldn't determine what you need to do for yourself.

If they decided to jump into another relationship quickly does that mean you should? Because they choose to not take a designated season to work within does that mean you shouldn't?

Contrary to what many believe, your ex isn't and shouldn't be as relevant when moving forward. It's important to focus on who's relevant and that is yourself and what is required from you to live an intentional life going forward.

Join me this week as I discuss this is more detail as well as 3 things to keep in mind as you move forward.

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Not understanding why a relationship ended can bring feelings of rejection, stagnation and one’s own personal attempt to figure it out only to be mentally & emotionally flooded.

When desiring closure, you may have heard the statement “Find your own closure” OR “No one can give you closure but yourself”. Chances are this level of advice may come from a good place but this isn’t the advice that many need at that moment.

Proper guidance is necessary to help develop that closure that you may have not received from your past relationship.

This week is a past recording I did on Facebook called “Seeking The Proper Closure”, this will give you reasons why some choose to not give closure as well as 3 things that you can do to establish a level of closure from this previous relationship.

If you are in need of:

Click here to schedule a discovery call with me:  https://tonyacarter.as.me/claritycall

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Divorces and breakups can leave residue of inadequacy, lack and confidence and even the mindset of believing that your worth as a woman has diminished.

Tying your worth to a relationship will always leave you in limbo on your worth as an individual.

Your "Queen" isn't based upon past or current circumstances, it's based on the fact that as a woman, you were already given the gift of being a Queen. However, there are many women who has either forgotten this or never realized it.

This week, my guest Bishop RC Blakes of Blakes Ministries will be discussing his movement "Queenology"  and why this is the prescription that is needed for a women to tap into her own inner queen despite of her history as well as principles that you can apply to start owning your crown.

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Song "SHE" performed by David Hollister: 

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If you are in need of:

Click here to schedule a discovery call with me:  https://tonyacarter.as.me/claritycall

Order my book: "Divorce Your Story: A Woman's Guide to Heal & Thrive After Divorce" - http://www.divorceyourstorybook.com. Also available on Amazon: https://amzn.to/2QPWoCn

Follow me on IG/Facebook - @mstonyaspeaks

For more information about me, visit my website at https://www.tonyacarter.com