Divorce Your Story Podcast

There's a lot of talk in these streets about forgiving other people which is true but I don't think we emphasize enough the importance of genuine self forgiveness. Those emotions of embarrassment, guilt, shame, failure, fear and anger can only be release when you decided to practice forgiving yourself.

Are you still in bondage because you haven't given yourself a "get out of jail" card? Have you ever thought about canceling your debt and giving yourself a do over? Nothing comes from being hard on yourself when you treat your relationship that didn't work like an everlasting punishment. Join me this week about what happens when you don't forgive yourself and two things you can do today to start making self forgiveness a practice.

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When relationships end, finances shift. One of the biggest challenges I hear from women is the fear of not being able to manage and/or pay off current debt. Here's the truth, you don't have to struggle after your relationship is over. There are plenty of ways to bring in income especially off doing side hustles!

My guest, Valencia Morton aka "Side Hustle Queen", who is also a wealth strategist, blogger, author and speaker, will be on to discuss on how paid off 43K in three years post divorce. She will also discuss simple things you can do now to start your financial free journey.

Follow Valencia Morton on Facebook: Millionairess Mama & Instagram: @millionairessmama. Also check out her website @  https://millionairessmama.com/ as well as her podcast "

Enrollment is now open for my 12 week masterclass! Click here to schedule a discovery call with me:  https://tonyacarter.as.me/claritycall

Order my book: "Divorce Your Story: A Woman's Guide to Heal & Thrive After Divorce" - http://www.divorceyourstorybook.com. Also available on Amazon: https://amzn.to/2QPWoCn

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Running from your problems is a race that you will never win.

In this season of the coronavirus pandemic, it's causing everyone to pause and slow down. From events being cancelled, schools closing, people telecommuting, to even bars and restaurants being closed, being able to "occupy" your time has become limited.

Even though this current situation has adjusted the way we're handling our day to day, it's also an adjustment for those who constantly stay "busy" to avoid their realities. When you keep going around the problems that keep appearing in your life, you will never give yourself a change to find a solution. It's during this time, where it's important to take advantage of this moment and face what you've never confronted. Join me this week as I have a conversation on the importance of facing problems.

If you are in need of:

Click here to schedule a discovery call with me:  https://tonyacarter.as.me/claritycall

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Divorce can bring a lot of stress and trigger a lot of emotions which causes you to frantic and lose control. The reality is, divorce is a process that takes time to get through. There's the emotional, financial, as well as mental side of things that must be processed at different times. Fear of the unknown scares you and you don't feel like you have the information to move forward. The truth is, nothing changes overnight. Even though you may cannot change what is currently happening as soon as you would like to, being prepared and proactive will put you further ahead than reacting and panicking. Join Tonya Carter this week as she discusses five different ways on how to reduce stress during your divorce process.

Enrollment is now open for my 12 week masterclass! Click here to schedule a discovery call with me:  https://tonyacarter.as.me/claritycall

Order my book: "Divorce Your Story: A Woman's Guide to Heal & Thrive After Divorce" - http://www.divorceyourstorybook.com. Also available on Amazon: https://amzn.to/2QPWoCn

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Can you believe that the fear of having something better scares people? Yes, getting and having something better is a fear for many.  It's almost as if living in misery has become so normalized that anything else seems abnormal. Divorce or even a relationship that has ended can create thoughts of fear, rejection, uncertainty and failure. These kind of thoughts can keep you in a season of your life that could last for months, years, decades or even a lifetime.  Operating from a place of fear puts limits on so many possibilities for you! It creates a mediocre life that you never wanted only to wish you would’ve lived a more fearless life later. Tune in on this week's topic "Why many fear what they want?"

Enrollment is now open for my 12 week masterclass! Click here to schedule a discovery call with me:  https://tonyacarter.as.me/claritycall

Order my book: "Divorce Your Story: A Woman's Guide to Heal & Thrive After Divorce" - http://www.divorceyourstorybook.com. Also available on Amazon: https://amzn.to/2QPWoCn

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March is Women’s History Month and as I think about all the women who’ve made an impact in the world and even in our homes and families, it only indicates the tenacity and boldness that we have always had.⁣  The reason why we love the women who have been an influence in our lives was not because they had a “problem free” life but the ability to become resilient by not running from life challenges.⁣ Have you even thought about how phenomenal you are? Or have you been so concerned about what you don't have, what has happened or what you've done? Join Tonya Carter this week as she discusses what could be stopping you from celebrating yourself.

Enrollment is NOW open for my 12 week T.H.R.I.V.E masterclass! Click here to schedule a discovery call with me:  https://tonyacarter.as.me/claritycall

Order my book: "Divorce Your Story: A Woman's Guide to Heal & Thrive After Divorce" - http://www.divorceyourstorybook.com. Also available on Amazon: https://amzn.to/2QPWoCn

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Any change is challenging, especially the change that you haven't quite prepared for.  Rebuilding your life after a departure from a divorce or relationship can almost seems too much to bear. This brings anxiety, frustration, anger and even avoiding the necessary daily duties that is required to rebuild a new life. How does a person handle this while keeping themselves sane? How can a person continue to move forward despite of all the things that need to be done?  Join Tonya Carter as she discusses 3 tips that will help you when starting over seems to be too much!

Enrollment is NOW open for my 12 week masterclass! Click here to schedule a discovery call with me:  https://tonyacarter.as.me/claritycall

Order my book: "Divorce Your Story: A Woman's Guide to Heal & Thrive After Divorce" - http://www.divorceyourstorybook.com. Also available on Amazon: https://amzn.to/2QPWoCn

Download your Free 7 Core Affirmation Guide here: http://bit.ly/affirmationguide

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Here's the reality: Many will judge you.....When you're doing well and even if you're at your bottom! Knowing that you are enough no matter what season you're in is essential if moving forward is your goal! Every voice will not speak of wisdom, love and necessary correction to move forward. Some voices will be of judgement and criticism. Those voices can overpower the necessary steps you need to take to move forward.Join Tonya Carter as she discusses what you need to know and understand about yourself in order to make this a season of your life and not a lifetime punishment.

Enrollment is NOW open for my 12 week masterclass! Click here to schedule a discovery call with me:  https://tonyacarter.as.me/claritycall

Order my book: "Divorce Your Story: A Woman's Guide to Heal & Thrive After Divorce" - http://www.divorceyourstorybook.com. Also available on Amazon: https://amzn.to/2QPWoCn

Download your Free 7 Core Affirmation Guide here: http://bit.ly/affirmationguide

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For more information about me, visit my website at https://www.tonyacarter.com

Valentine's Day can be one of many reminders of what you're currently going through. From the endless marketing, the constant Valentine's Day posts on social media to even seeing other couples enjoying themselves out, a weekend getaway and/or getting engaged. Looking at this day in a certain lens creates depression and feelings of failure. Should someone really feel this way because of one day? Have we forgotten the meaning of love? Is love only determined by your relationship status? Join Tonya Carter as she discusses five ways to handle Valentine's Day and the days ahead!

Order my book: "Divorce Your Story: A Woman's Guide to Heal & Thrive After Divorce" - http://www.divorceyourstorybook.com. Also available on Amazon: https://amzn.to/2QPWoCn

Download your Free 7 Core Affirmation Guide here: http://bit.ly/affirmationguide

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Do you ever wonder will this pain from the relationship ending be over? Will the crying, hurt, anger and frustration ever end? Recovering from a relationship is very similar to recovery from a physical injury but what must be done to recover from this hurt?  Join Divorce Coach Tonya Carter as she discusses the ONE major factor to start your relationship recovery journey.

Order my book: "Divorce Your Story: A Woman's Guide to Heal & Thrive After Divorce" - http://www.divorceyourstorybook.com. Also available on Amazon: https://amzn.to/2QPWoCn

Download your Free 7 Core Affirmation Guide here: http://bit.ly/affirmationguide

Follow me on IG/Facebook - @mstonyaspeaks

For more information about me, visit my website at https://www.tonyacarter.com