Do You F*cking Mind?

Do You F*cking Mind?

By Alexis Fernandez-Preiksa - Neuroscientist and Mindset CoachHealth & FitnessMental HealthEducationSelf-Improvement
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  • 438.

    In this Head Noise episode of Do You F**ing Mind?*, I answer your biggest questions on love, life, and everything in between. From navigating the ups and downs of modern relationships, to making life-changing decisions about whether or not to have children, to dealing with the messy reality of complicated friendships.

    In this ep:

    • How to recognise red flags and build healthier relationships

    • Things to consider when making major life decisions, (like having kids)

    • Psychology-backed strategies for handling toxic or complicated friendships

    • Tools to trust yourself when faced with uncertainty

    This episode will give you clarity, confidence, and the mindset shift you need to move forward.

    • navigating complicated friendships

    • deciding whether to have children

    • psychology of relationships

    • life decisions and clarity

    • toxic friendship advice

    • personal growth and relationship

    • confidence in decision making

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    37 min
  • 437. The neuroscience of loneliness…the silent stress you can fix

    In today's episode, we dive deep into the topic of loneliness. I discuss the difference between loneliness and solitude, the health implications of feeling isolated, and what happens in the brain when you experience loneliness. I give you actionable steps to help you overcome loneliness and build meaningful connections.

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    43 min
  • 436. Codependency in New Relationships, Future Plans & Life Decisions (Headnoise)

    In today's Headnoise episode I answer your questions on distinguishing between strong communication and codependency in a new relationship, to handling future plans with a partner who wants to move to the country & deciding when to return home after traveling long-term.

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    34 min
  • 435. How to get past the fear of disappointing others

    In today's episode, I talk about the common fear of disappointing others and how it affects our decision-making and overall happiness. I discuss the psychology behind this fear, including factors like high achievement, low self-esteem and sheltered upbringing. Learning how to differentiate between fear and weaponised disappointment and gain tools to take control of your life without being paralysed by the fear of letting others down.

    Brain Fact: Death Cap Mushrooms 

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    42 min
  • 434. Breaking Free from Old Patterns & more (Headnoise)

    Welcome back, beautiful beans! I answer your questions you sent in, I go over the the concept of 'core coding' and how to overcome ingrained beliefs from childhood, particularly those rooted in religious guilt. I also talk through the challenge of making life altering decisions without disrupting the good things already present in our lives. Then I discuss balancing multiple passion projects and identifying when we might be overcommitting ourselves to avoid burnout & lastly how to manage overwhelming stress.

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    40 min
  • 433. Why Impermanence is the most grounding thing you will learn

    In today's episode I talk all about impermanence & how embracing change can lead to a freer, more confident and fulfilling life. 

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    38 min
  • 432. How to Stop Being the 'Righteous Friend' (Headnoise)

    It's Headnoise Day! I answer some email questions you sent in from how to stop being the 'righteous friend' who constantly calls out friends to overcoming burnout!  

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    28 min
  • 431. 6 questions to ask yourself to know if you are on the right path.

    Beans! In this episode I give you 6 questions to ask yourself to know if you are on the right path. These questions are designed to help you gain clarity and realign your life path. 

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    30 min
  • 430. Setting Boundaries & Reclaiming Peace with Narcissistic Relationships (Headnoise)

    Welcome back, beautiful beans! In today's head noise episode, we hear an amazing story from a listener, a leap-of-faith move (even after rekindling an old flame), navigating a narcissistic parent and handling unsolicited comments.

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    34 min
  • 429. Signs you are in a Functional Freeze & how to break out of it

    I discuss the concept of 'functional freeze.'  What it is, why it happens & how you can break out of it &  lead a more fulfilling life.

    Brain Fact Munchies effect of THC and how it interacts with the brain's cannabinoid receptors.

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    40 min

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Mindset hacks for a badass life, hosted by cognitive neuroscientist Alexis Fernandez.