Years ago, I ended a monogamous relationship with a person I loved more than anything so that I could live more happily and honestly. Because of that, I have a hard time understanding people who claim to be "ambiamorous" or "polyflexible". People use these terms to express that they are open to monogamy AND polyamory, but for me it's very hard for me to not see that as an attitude that is inherently toxic to my own as I can't help but notice that monogamy seems to be what they give to the people they value the most and as a black trans woman, that isn't often me. 

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