Don’t Ask Me To Talk

In another classically tangential episode of Don’t Ask Me to Talk, Stacy sips from her trusty Owala bottle while sparking a debate on banning plastic water bottles and recycling schemes that may or may not involve mailing empty bottles to Pollywood. Meanwhile, Eric recounts his misadventures at a Nicky Glazer show—complete with a surprise Amanda Knox comedy set and losing his car in a mystery garage while “The Girlfriend” battles a bug. Stacy continues to battle her ankle injury and referees a feline feud that ends with her “grandcat” Wilson scaling her leg like a tree. The duo swaps wild bumper sticker sightings, Dear Abby zingers, and Reddit threads, then dive into their “Cultural Blindspots” segment with reviews of classic British films. Plus, Stacy’s bottled water family history and a quick stop in Flint, Michigan keep the laughs, if not the water, flowing. Tune in for witty banter, awkward encounters, and a clever take on everyday quirks! DAMTT is on Facebook and Instagram as @dontaskme to talk or email [email protected]

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Stacy and Eric Tackle Luck vs. Intelligence, Neighborhood Oddities, and Cultural Blindspots

This week on the podcast, Stacy tries her hand at the show intro (with questionable results—Eric’s still the pro!). She shares her idea for an “empty nest” social channel: just her and her husband deciding what stays and what goes as they clear out their home. Stacy also recounts a recent visit to a Silent Book Club with her daughter Annie, describing the unique blend of quiet reading and casual socializing. The experience reminds her of the TV show “Silent Library” a reference unfamiliar to Eric!

Meanwhile, Eric finds himself in a late-summer mood, reflecting on missed opportunities as the season ends. He tells a story about his mysterious neighbors, whom he mostly knows through their dogs. After noticing water running at “Lucky’s” house (name changed to protect the innocent), Eric tries to alert his neighbors and is met with confusion—only to discover later that the culprit was a house sitter and the water feature was intentional. Eric is gifted a thank-you gift card. This story sparks a conversation about the proliferation of doorbell cameras and their surprising role on social media.

For this week’s Cultural Blindspot, Eric watches “Who Framed Roger Rabbit?” and enjoys the film’s edgy humor and rare collaboration between Warner Bros. and Disney characters. He learns it’s based on the novel “Who Censored Roger Rabbit?” and notes how well the film holds up.

On the other side of the pop culture spectrum, Stacy dips her toe into horror with “Scary Movie,” appreciating the parody despite her lack of horror film experience. Eric recommends “Shaun of the Dead” as a follow-up. Their discussion leads to classic comedy: Stacy references Carol Burnett’s famous “Gone with the Wind” parody, a nod that surprises Eric.

The main topic: Is it better to be lucky or smart? Stacy argues that luck sometimes plays a crucial role—she credits luck for scoring her house. Eric reflects on career-related luck during the pandemic. Ultimately, they agree: It’s best to be smart enough to recognize opportunity and humble enough to be grateful when luck strikes. Pressed to choose, though, both lean toward luck.

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Stacy is back in the studio and at home and facing unique challenges like the lingering scent of moldy bagels, feline antics (maybe it’s time for a pet psychic?), and plenty of cleaning projects. Meanwhile, Eric finds himself dealing with unexpected crawl space surprises and learns about the science behind corpse-odor removal (note: maybe mint isn’t ideal after all). The pair chat about pop culture, including Hugh Jackman's upcoming Neil Diamond-inspired movie with Kate Hudson, Neil Diamond tribute bands. Stacy’s Cultural Blind spots are a follow up to past references for instance, Spinal Tap's appearance on Jimmy Kimmel and Netflix’s "The Thursday Murder Club" while Eric reviews "Interstellar" and its ensemble cast, leading to musings on quotable classics like "Dazed and Confused" and their connections to other iconic films. Travel plans, late-night schedules, rodent-proofing a new deck, and household supply debates all get airtime—plus, quirky observations about irony and Alanis Morissette. Tune in for this blend of humor, home adventures, film nostalgia, and practical advice! DAMTT is on Facebook and Instagram as @dontaskme to talk or email [email protected] to connect.

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Join Stacy and Eric as they discuss Stacy’s lakeside adventures and Eric’s deck renovation woes. This episode dives into the quirks of Spotify daylists, the pitfalls of AI-generated work, and the age-old debate over peanut butter pretzels versus Cheezits. Eric shares his kayaking tales and a memorable Wet Leg show, while Stacy reflects on her favorite road trip snacks and her evolving stance on snacks.

The conversation meanders through pop culture highlights - from Moonlighting’s iconic lighting and Bruce Willis’s retro wine cooler ads to Eric’s rediscovery of “12 Angry Men” and Stacy’s thoughts on “Small Great Things” by Jodi Picoult. The duo also revisits comedy classics like “The Naked Gun” and “O Brother, Where Art Thou?”, pondering their place in movie history.

To round things off, Stacy and Eric tackle the ultimate question: What’s the best way to eat beef? Tune in for laughs, tangents, and plenty of heart as your podcast pals prove, once again, how entertaining the right kind of talk can be! Next up: Heir and a spare? DAMTT is on Facebook and Instagram as @dontaskme to talk or email [email protected] to connect.

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Get ready for another whirlwind episode with Eric and Stacy, your podcast pals who prove it’s not what you do, but how you retell it! Stacy’s still dealing with a persistent ankle injury and some questionable eyesight (highlighted by her paint-by-numbers struggle), but she’s also discovering new territory at the lake house, including Roosters in Tonasket, where the ice cream is delicious and cheap. Meanwhile, Coal’s late-night antics keep Stacy on her toes, and Eric’s dog Gertie is up to her usual mischief, making a brief getaway before returning home in record time. Eric and “the girlfriend” take to Commencement Bay for a kayaking adventure, though not without a minor mechanical malfunction where he almost blew his gasket or was it his valve?! Listener Sudsy in the Suburbs writes in to Dear Crabby about showering habits, prompting a refreshing conversation (pun intended) on the topic. In Cultural Blindspot updates, Stacy surprises Eric by finally watching RoboCop and loving the satirical newsbreaks and the unforgettable ED-209 stair mishap. Eric revisits Tron, only to find it hasn’t improved since childhood. The Wheel O’ Topics lands on Hobbies, leading to a thoughtful discussion about creative outlets, world-building, and why hobbies—like older men building trains—deserve respect and community, not shame. Tune in for all the tangents, laughs, and heartwarming moments that make Don’t Ask Me to Talk the right kinda talk! DAMTT is on Facebook and Instagram as @dontaskme to talk or email [email protected]

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DAMTT: Baddies, Bats and Blindspots, oui?

Ready for another dose of conversational chaos? After a brief break, Eric and Stacy return refreshed and ready to tackle the tangents. Eric recounts his adventures, from playing a gig at The Valley with Battersea (and selling another coveted T-shirt!), to kayaking with “the girlfriend” and spotting sea lions and celebrating his dad’s birthday over a fish-leaping lunch. Stacy, meanwhile, faces down two surprise bats hiding in her patio umbrella—no bueno, but plenty of guano.

The duo swaps stories about gluttonous grocery trips and cross-border sweet treats, including Stacy’s Canadian wine gums (not “gummies”—don’t worry, border guards, they’re THC-free!). That leads to a detour into UK canned cocktails, notably Eric’s preferred Harvey Wallbanger.

This week, Stacy brings a burning question to Dear Crabby about kids and cursing, while Eric’s “effing and Jeffing” in ALL CAPS with online customer service cements his “bad boy” reputation. For once, Stacy checks off a Cultural Blindspot by finally watching This is Spinal Tap—turns out it really does go to 11. Eric revisits RoboCop (which he touts as “lightning in a bottle”) and champions The Hudsucker Proxy as a criminally underrated classic.

To wrap up, Stacy and Eric ponder which third language they’d learn, after English and high school choices. Eric abandoned Japanese when his linguistic partner abandoned him, while Stacy dreams of French—just to deliver a little rudeness back. DAMTT is on Facebook and Instagram as @dontaskmetotalk. Email [email protected] Next time: Hobbies

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We're off this week but plan to be back with a new episode next week, in the meantime here's one of our fave episodes brought back for you to enjoy again.

We ran away and joined the circus! Not really but we find out on this episode what jobs we’d apply for if we did.

Have an opinion or idea you want to share? Email us at ⁠[email protected]⁠. You can also follow DAMTT on Facebook and Instagram @dontaskmetotalk Next time: third language

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DAMTT: Burgers, Bunnyman, and Broken Hearts

In this episode, Eric talks about his Oregon coast adventures, including sunburns, post-punk music, Astoria’s pop culture fame, and local eats. Stacy deals with "roid rage" after free samples from three girls. For their segment "Cultural Blindspots," they wrap up The Godfather series, and before sharing memories of their first heartbreaks. DAMTT is on Facebook and Instagram as dontaskmetotalk. Email: [email protected]

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DAMTT: Do Majors Matter?

Ready for another wild spin on the Wheel O’ Tangents? This episode finds Stacy embracing “roid rage” (thanks, prescription steroids) and losing sleep—while Eric fondly remembers his polio vaccine as oddly tasty. We’ve got first crushes, canine and musical (Devo), plus a sweaty, shirtless Iggy Pop sighting at the park. The duo finally wraps up The Godfather II, checks off more cultural blindspots, and debates the cinematic merits of both The Fantastic Four and Superman (spoiler: Eric’s reviews are glowing). Stacy attempts to “get” Happy Gilmore 2—and mostly doesn’t. And when it comes to the big question, “Do majors matter?” Eric’s got an answer that depends on the branch of the military. For all the delightful chaos and sideways opinions, tune in and let the tangents take over! Don’t Ask Me to Talk delivers! DAMTT is on Facebook and Instagram as dontaskmetotalk. Email us at [email protected] Next time: First Broken Heart

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Coal the cat drops in as Stacy and Eric debate RICE vs MEAT (hint: both come with side effects), relive Field Day fails, and celebrate Eric’s quest for a car—big cupholders, vibrating seats, and all. Dear Crabby dishes on weed, and the hosts dissect the first half of The Godfather Part II (verdict: Al Pacino is cute, Eric’s been to Tahoe). This week’s topic? Prized possessions. Turns out, they’ve got plenty but narrow down surprisingly easily. Plus, a Cheezit hack you’ll want to know. Tune in for tangents, laughs, and the kind of chaos only Don’t Ask Me to Talk delivers! DAMTT is on Facebook and Instagram as dontaskmetotalk. Email us at [email protected] Next time: Do majors matter?

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