Episode Description: In this episode Neil, along with his co-host Robin, respond to a mother who is confused about whether or not to require her 13 year old daughter and 9 year old son to visit or stay with their father. While it's clear from Mom that neither child feels emotionally safe, supported or even wanted by their father, she has felt compelled to go by the legal order or agreement. The discussion covers when and when not to require kids to go by a schedule and why, too often, women in particular don't trust their own judgment.

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