Don’t Tell Me About Yourself

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  • What is Breaking Candidate Experience?

    In this episode, we break down why candidates today apply to dozens of jobs at once and why their behavior often looks chaotic to employers. We examine the reality of modern job searching, including long interview timelines, ghosting, unpredictable hiring processes, and the massive amount of unpaid work candidates do just to apply. When you look at the environment candidates are operating in, their behavior starts to make sense. Applying broadly is often risk management, not lack of commitment. We also explore how hiring teams unintentionally create defensive candidate behavior and what simple changes companies can make to rebuild trust in the hiring process.

    Key Takeaways

    1. Candidates apply to many jobs because hiring processes are unpredictable.

    2. Lack of communication from companies trains candidates to hedge their bets.

    3. Job searching requires significant unpaid work including resumes, research, and interviews.

    4. Ghosting is one of the fastest ways to break candidate trust.

    5. When companies stay silent, candidates fill the gap with negative assumptions.

    6. Defensive candidate behavior often mirrors poor hiring practices.

    7. Transparency about timelines and process builds candidate trust.

    8. Clear communication reduces ghosting, over-applying, and offer hedging.

    9. Recruiters are often blamed for delays caused by internal hiring teams.

    10. Trust in hiring improves candidate engagement and acceptance rates.

      Timestamps

      00:00 Why candidates apply to dozens of jobs

      01:08 Data on candidate communication gaps
      02:08 Why application volume keeps increasing
      03:22 The hidden work behind job applications
      05:34 Emotional and psychological toll of job searching
      07:22 How ghosting damages candidate trust
      09:06 How negative hiring experiences spread publicly
      10:07 Why candidates sometimes ghost employers
      11:38 Why candidates are being told to lie
      15:58 Simple ways companies can rebuild candidate trust

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      Keywords

      candidate experience, hiring process problems, why candidates apply to many jobs, candidate ghosting, hiring communication, job search frustration, hiring transparency, interview process delays, candidate trust, recruitment best practices

      26 min
    11. Digital Behavior Is Workplace Behavior with Ben Mones

      In this episode, we dig into one of the most debated questions in hiring right now: should employers consider a candidate’s public online behavior when making hiring decisions? We sit down with Ben Mones, founder and CEO of Fama, to talk about what digital behavior screening actually looks like, where the legal and ethical boundaries are, and why transparency matters for both employers and candidates. We explore how social media has changed workplace risk, what employers are often misunderstanding about online behavior, and how companies can evaluate behavior responsibly without turning hiring into surveillance.

      Learn more about Fama: https://hubs.ly/Q046ph7k0

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      Follow Fama on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/fama-tech/

      Follow Fama on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/famascreening

      Follow Fama on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@famascreening

      Key takeaways:

      1. Employers must link online behavior to real workplace impact.

      2. Screening should focus on conduct like harassment, threats, or intolerance.

      3. Protected traits such as politics or religion cannot be part of hiring decisions.

      4. Transparency with candidates is essential when using screening tools.

      5. Candidates should be able to see and dispute screening results.

      6. Social media now plays a major role in workplace interactions and reputation.

      7. Employee-generated content can create legal and compliance risks.

      8. Digital behavior signals can help prevent misconduct before it happens.

      9. Screening tools should support judgment, not replace it.

      10. Safer hiring practices benefit both employers and employees.


        Timestamps:

        00:00 Why online behavior can matter in hiring
        01:21 Introducing digital behavior screening
        05:45 What digital screening actually analyzes
        06:58 Common misconceptions about social media screening
        09:06 Legal guardrails and discrimination limits
        11:00 Why privacy by design matters in hiring tech
        14:21 Candidate transparency and consent
        16:32 What companies underestimate about digital behavior risk
        18:55 How social media changed workplace interaction
        20:47 Risks tied to employee-generated content
        24:18 How digital screening can benefit candidates
        26:39 Fair criticism of digital behavior screening
        30:57 Rapid-fire insights on hiring risk

        Keywords:

        digital behavior screening, social media hiring, online behavior in hiring, workplace misconduct risk, candidate transparency, hiring compliance, privacy by design, employment discrimination, employee generated content, workplace safety


        37 min
      11. Do Personality Tests Predict Job Performance?

        Personality assessments are used by nearly 80 percent of Fortune 500 companies and taken by over 100 million people each year. They are marketed as predictive, objective, and data driven. But do they actually predict job performance, or are they replacing interviewer judgment? In this episode, we break down what personality tests measure, what research says about their accuracy, and how hiring teams misuse them. You will learn when assessments help, when they harm, and what to use instead if you want to make better hiring decisions.

        Key Takeaways:

        • Personality assessments are a multi billion dollar industry used widely in corporate hiring.

        • Most hiring assessments measure traits like emotional stability, dominance, openness, and agreeableness.

        • Many tests rely on self reported answers that candidates can easily game.

        • When used as the deciding factor, personality tests fail to predict job performance up to 95 percent of the time.

        • Hiring managers often use assessments as a security blanket to reduce decision risk.

        • Over reliance on testing can weaken interviewer skill and accountability.

        • Predicting performance requires evidence of past behavior, not personality labels.

        • Structured behavioral interviews are more reliable than trait based screening.

        • Assessments can damage candidate trust when results are not shared transparently.

        • Personality tools work best for employee development, not hiring gatekeeping.

          Timestamps:

          00:48 What personality tests claim to predict
          01:27 What hiring assessments actually measure
          04:21 How big the assessment industry is
          06:40 Why companies rely on personality tests
          09:19 How testing can break candidate trust
          12:05 Are hiring assessments accurate
          16:00 Why past behavior predicts performance
          17:27 Better alternatives to personality screening
          22:17 When assessments are useful
          23:36 Final verdict on hiring tests

          Keywords:

          personality assessments in hiring
          do personality tests predict job performance
          predictive hiring tools
          are hiring assessments accurate
          structured behavioral interviews
          candidate experience and hiring tests
          how to predict job performance
          personality tests vs job performance
          hiring manager decision making
          employee development assessments

          26 min
        • The Two Brands Every Company Has...

          Most companies believe their employer brand is what they publish on their website, careers page, or mission statement. Candidates believe it is what they see, hear, and experience. In this episode, we break down the difference between the brand you think you are communicating and the brand candidates are actually experiencing. You will learn how job seekers research companies today, why interviews expose brand gaps instantly, and what leaders can do to align reputation with reality before it damages hiring outcomes.

          Key Takeaways:

          • Over 86 percent of job seekers research company reviews before applying.

          • Younger candidates increasingly use TikTok and AI tools as search engines.

          • Every company has two brands: the intended brand and the experienced brand.

          • Mission statements and employee value propositions rarely influence candidates.

          • Negative interview experiences are the loudest form of employer branding.

          • Interviews are where brand promises get tested in real time.

          • Employees and former employees are more trusted than CEOs.

          • Silence on social media still communicates something about your culture.

          • Forcing employees to post scripted content reduces trust.

          • Fixing reputation starts with auditing public feedback and improving candidate experience.

            Timestamps:

            01:02 Why candidates research companies first
            03:13 Intended brand vs experienced brand explained
            04:30 Why mission statements do not influence applicants
            06:43 The power of negative reviews and Glassdoor
            09:43 How interviews expose brand gaps
            11:48 Why bad interviews go viral
            13:04 Why executives must care about employer brand
            17:25 Why employees are more trusted than CEOs
            20:35 How to audit and fix reputation issues
            25:13 Why interviewing is a public conversation

            Keywords:

            employer branding strategy
            candidate experience
            Glassdoor reviews
            job seeker research behavior
            intended vs experienced brand
            employee generated content
            interview process mistakes
            company reputation management
            social media employer brand
            how candidates research companies

            28 min
          • “You Need to Find a Human” in an AI Job Market with Megan Dias

            How do you compete in today’s job market, especially after a tech layoff? In this episode live from TalentSphere, Megan Dias a career coach shares practical strategies for navigating a competitive hiring landscape shaped by AI, resume overload, and changing recruiter behavior. You’ll learn how to customize your resume effectively, why networking is more important than ever, how to find the “human” in the hiring process, and what job seekers are getting wrong right now.

            Connect with Megan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/megandias/

            Key Takeaways:

            1. AI is reshaping both recruiting and job searching.

            2. Job seekers must customize resumes for each role.

            3. A generic resume is far less effective in a competitive market.

            4. Finding a real human connection in the hiring process increases your odds.

            5. Networking on LinkedIn and in professional communities is critical.

            6. Many laid-off tech professionals need strategy, not just applications.

            7. Career coaching should be individualized, not one-size-fits-all.

            8. Understanding industry trends helps job seekers stay competitive.

            9. Leveraging existing connections can unlock hidden opportunities.

            10. Job searching today requires clarity, positioning, and persistence.

              Timestamps:
              00:00 Why Talent Sphere matters in 2026
              01:52 Supporting laid-off tech professionals
              03:46 Practical strategies for job seekers
              04:30 Why resume customization matters
              05:15 Finding the human in hiring
              06:00 Networking in a digital-first world

              Keywords:
              Talent Sphere, career coaching, job market 2026, AI in recruiting, resume tips, networking strategies, job search strategies, candidate fraud concerns, talent acquisition trends, job seekers

              6 min
            11. "Humanizing AI” in Recruiting with Mabel Liang

              How do recruiters keep up with 400+ AI tools without feeling overwhelmed or replaced? In this episode live at TalentSphere, Mabel Liang, a recruiting community founder shares how HR and talent acquisition professionals can learn AI together, compare ATS platforms effectively, and navigate the growing issue of identity fraud in hiring. You’ll learn how to create a safe space for experimentation, choose the right technology for your team size, and humanize AI instead of fearing it.

              Keep up with Mabel on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mabelliang/

              Key Takeaways:

              1. There are hundreds of AI tools in recruiting, which creates overwhelm.

              2. Recruiters need community to evaluate and learn new technology safely.

              3. AI should support and humanize work, not replace recruiters.

              4. Teams must compare ATS platforms based on size and global needs.

              5. Overbuilt AI workflows can create unintended consequences.

              6. Identity fraud is becoming a major concern in talent acquisition.

              7. AI is now being used both by recruiters and by candidates.

              8. Safe learning spaces reduce fear around technology adoption.

              9. Wellness and professional growth can coexist at conferences.

              10. Forward-thinking TA leaders focus on leveraging AI responsibly.

                Timestamps:
                00:00 Why attend Talent Sphere 2026
                00:47 Creating Talent AI Lounge
                01:52 Comparing ATS platforms and HR tech tools
                02:30 AI overwhelm in recruiting
                02:45 Identity fraud and AI misuse
                03:51 Blending wellness and learning at conferences
                04:25 Encouraging recruiters to embrace AI

                Keywords:
                Talent Sphere, AI in recruiting, humanizing AI, ATS comparison, Greenhouse vs Ashby, recruiting technology tools, identity fraud in hiring, HR tech community, talent acquisition trends, AI overwhelm


                6 min
              11. Stop Saying “Be Strategic” - Start Teaching It with Preston Sharpston

                How do recruiters actually become strategic instead of just being told to “be more strategic”? In this episode live from TalentSphere, we talk with Preston Sharpston to break down what recruiter enablement really looks like, how talent acquisition leaders can level up their teams in 60 to 90 days, and how to use data before recruiting even starts. You’ll learn practical ways to run better intake meetings, prioritize roles using data, identify bottlenecks, and push back on unrealistic hiring expectations with confidence.

                Follow Preston on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/prestonsharpston/

                Key Takeaways:

                1. Recruiters are often told to be strategic but rarely trained how to do it.

                2. Strategic recruiting starts with better intake meetings, reframed as strategy sessions.

                3. Data should guide prioritization, not hiring manager opinions.

                4. Time-to-submit can reveal more than time-to-fill.

                5. Move beyond surface metrics to identify real bottlenecks.

                6. Use total addressable market data before opening a search.

                7. Compensation conversations should be backed by market data upfront.

                8. TA leaders must level-set recruiters at different skill levels.

                9. Structured coaching can elevate recruiter performance in 60–90 days.

                10. Recruiter enablement is about practical, step-by-step execution.

                  Timestamps:
                  00:00 Speaking at Talent Sphere 2026
                  01:16 Recruiter enablement and practical strategy
                  01:47 Leading recruiting for a growing franchise
                  02:16 Coaching recruiters and TA managers
                  02:41 Why recruiters struggle with “being strategic”
                  03:11 Scaling recruiter capability in 60–90 days
                  03:58 Using data to prioritize roles
                  05:00 Rethinking recruiting metrics
                  05:31 Finding bottlenecks with better data
                  06:24 Using market data before recruiting starts

                  Keywords:
                  recruiter enablement, strategic recruiting, talent acquisition leadership, recruiting metrics, time to submit metric, data-driven hiring, intake meeting strategy, hiring manager alignment, TA team development, recruiter coaching

                  10 min
                11. Fractional Recruiting: We Need Help, Not Forever with Brooke Wheeler

                  Live from TalentSphere were talking about what fractional recruiting is, and when should a company use it? In this episode we talk with Brooke Wheeler, Founder of Restoration Talent Solutions and explore how fractional hiring gives companies executive-level recruiting expertise without the long-term commitment. You’ll learn how fractional talent acquisition leaders step into growing companies, build recruiting structure and process, and transition teams for long-term success. We also discuss how recruiters can build community, avoid AI overwhelm, and stay strategic in a fast-changing hiring landscape.

                  Follow Brooke on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/brookewheeler/

                  Timestamps:
                  00:00 Why community matters in recruiting
                  01:20 Building recruiting structure and process
                  02:15 AI overwhelm in talent acquisition
                  03:05 What fractional recruiting means
                  03:40 From corporate VP to fractional founder
                  04:10 How fractional hiring benefits companies
                  04:48 Building the playbook and hiring full-time successors
                  05:10 The future of fractional talent

                  Keywords:
                  fractional recruiting, fractional hiring, part-time executive recruiter, talent acquisition strategy, recruiting process improvement, interim head of talent, startup hiring support, recruiting consultant, AI in recruiting, talent acquisition leadership



                  7 min
                12. It’s Not a Gotcha, It’s an I-Gotcha with Amanda Perry

                  What does technical hiring look like in the age of AI? In this episode, we talk with Amanda Perry VP of Customer Success at CoderPad and break down how AI is reshaping engineering interviews, why banning AI is a losing strategy, how to prevent candidate fraud (including deepfakes), and how transparency builds trust in the hiring process. You’ll learn practical ways to design interviews that reflect real-world work, reduce confusion between recruiters and hiring managers, and improve candidate experience without sacrificing rigor. We're live from TalentSphere!

                  Follow Amanda on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/amanda-perry-96349ab1/

                  Check out CoderPad: https://coderpad.io/

                  Key Takeaways:

                  1. AI is not making technical hiring harder, but it is making it different.

                  2. Modern engineering interviews should assess how candidates use AI, not whether they use it.

                  3. The focus is shifting from output to critical thinking and debugging skills.

                  4. Clear AI guidelines prevent confusion and candidate drop-off.

                  5. Misalignment between recruiters and hiring managers damages trust.

                  6. Junior engineers with strong AI skills are increasingly competitive.

                  7. Candidate fraud, including deepfakes, is a real concern in technical hiring.

                  8. Short introductory video submissions can reduce fraud and save recruiter time.

                  9. Transparency in the hiring process improves candidate experience.

                  10. Bias exists in every stage of hiring, so systems must be intentional and repeatable.

                    Timestamps:
                    00:00 Why attend Talent Sphere Summit
                    01:10 What a technical hiring platform does
                    02:02 Is hiring engineers getting harder?
                    03:28 Stop treating AI like a gotcha
                    04:52 Align recruiters and hiring managers on AI rules
                    06:14 Are junior engineers being replaced?
                    07:12 Why transparency builds trust
                    09:05 Deepfakes and candidate fraud in hiring
                    10:15 Using video to verify real candidates
                    12:17 Balancing fraud prevention and bias

                    Keywords:
                    AI in hiring, technical hiring process, engineering interviews, AI interview guidelines, candidate fraud, deepfake job applicants, junior engineer hiring trends, transparent hiring practices, AI skills assessment, candidate experience


                    15 min
                  11. Stop Shrinking Yourself at Work with Bridgette Corridan

                    We're live from TalenSphere! How do you show up authentically at work without hurting your credibility? In this episode, Bridgette Corridan, a talent leader AND sound healer shares how vulnerability and authenticity can become superpowers in recruiting and leadership. You will learn how to stop shrinking yourself to fit professional expectations, how to integrate personal purpose with business strategy, and how mindfulness practices like breathwork and sound healing can help leaders navigate a noisy, high-pressure world. This conversation explores identity, leadership, community, and how to create workplaces that support real human expansion.

                    Key Takeaways:

                    1. Vulnerability and authenticity create stronger recruiting conversations.

                    2. Professionalism does not require shrinking who you are.

                    3. Owning your full identity attracts the right opportunities and people.

                    4. Sound healing and mindfulness can support leadership clarity.

                    5. Breathwork and meditation help leaders reset in high-stress environments.

                    6. Women-led communities create safe spaces for growth and connection.

                    7. Leaders need compassion for themselves and others.

                    8. Purpose-driven business models can combine profit and social impact.

                    9. Expanding who you are professionally benefits teams and organizations.

                    10. Clear self-awareness improves decision-making and leadership presence.

                      Timestamps:
                      00:00 Why authenticity matters in recruiting
                      01:23 From talent leader to sound healer
                      03:24 Bringing your full self to LinkedIn
                      04:38 Redefining professionalism
                      06:24 Why connection matters in talent
                      07:45 The power of breath and mindfulness
                      08:43 Blending consulting and healing work
                      09:41 Building a social impact consulting company
                      11:09 Leading with compassion and curiosity

                      Keywords:
                      Talent Sphere, authenticity at work, vulnerability in leadership, women in talent acquisition, sound healing in business, mindful leadership, breathwork for stress, purpose-driven business, social enterprise consulting, recruiting community


                      Follow Bridgette on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/bridgetteloydcorridan/

                      14 min

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