Don’t Tell Me About Yourself

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  • AI Interviewers Are Here… and It’s Getting Weird with Kyle Lagunas

    In this episode live from TalentSphere, we talk with our guest Kyle Lagunas Founder of Kyle & Co about what AI interviewers are, how they are being used in real hiring processes, and what risks companies face if they deploy them without structure or governance. We break down independent research evaluating 12 AI interviewer platforms, explain why inconsistent implementation creates legal and ethical exposure, and outline how to use AI in interviews responsibly. If you are asking whether AI interviewers are worth it, compliant, or fair, or you like to listen to people who randomly break out in song this conversation is for you.

    Keep up with Kyle on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kylelagunas

    Link to Kyle & Co research report: https://resources.kyleandco.com/CategoryCompass_AIInterviewers

    Key Takeaways
    AI interviewers are rapidly emerging across screening and technical interviews.
    Video avatar AI is less common and often disliked by candidates.
    Voice-based AI is generally perceived as more natural and acceptable.
    There is no single best AI interviewer; tools vary by use case.
    Some tools are built for high volume yes or no screening, others for advanced behavioral probing.
    Inconsistent deployment across teams increases legal and compliance risk.
    Automated candidate disposition based solely on AI can create liability if not tightly governed.
    Strong client success and implementation support differentiates vendors.
    AI interviewers can improve structure by preventing off-script or biased questioning.
    The teams that succeed with AI optimize their process before automating it.

    Timestamps
    00:00 Why AI interviewers are emerging now
    01:07 Researching 12 AI interviewer platforms
    02:33 Candidate reactions to video versus voice AI
    03:00 Different types of AI interviewer use cases
    04:00 Why there is no best in class tool
    04:41 Legal and liability concerns in AI interviews
    05:09 Using AI in a highly human centric process
    06:22 Inconsistent deployment and startup risk
    07:48 Automated disposition and governance issues
    08:44 Process optimization before automation

    Keywords
    AI interviewers
    AI in hiring
    automated interviews
    candidate experience
    hiring compliance
    HR technology research
    structured interviews
    automated candidate screening
    AI governance in HR
    talent acquisition technology

    11 min
  • Building a Retreat Style Conference with Natalie Stones

    In this episode, we chat with our guest Natalie Stones Co-Founder of Talent Collective and creator of the Talent Sphere event about how to design a conference that people actually want to attend. We break down what makes a retreat-style conference different from traditional large industry events, how to build practitioner-led sessions that deliver real takeaways, and how to create an environment where talent acquisition leaders can learn, connect, and leave refreshed instead of burned out.


    Key Takeaways
    The concept was built around creating an event the founder wished already existed.
    A retreat-style conference can still deliver serious business value.
    Practitioner-led sessions create more relevant and current insights.
    Speakers are selected based on real, current experience in the role.
    First-time speakers can add fresh perspectives when given a safe space.
    Smaller, curated groups create deeper connections than large expos.
    Wellness elements can enhance learning without sacrificing business outcomes.
    Sponsors can lead solution-focused sessions without doing product demos.
    Bundling hotel and ticket pricing simplifies the business case for employers.
    Providing structured session notebooks increases practical implementation after the event.

    Follow Natalie on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nataliestones/

    Check out Talent Collective: https://www.talentcollectiveco.com/

    Timestamps
    00:00 Why create a retreat style conference
    02:11 How venue and environment shape the experience
    03:00 Why practitioner led sessions matter
    03:51 What makes a strong conference speaker
    05:31 Adding wellness without losing business value
    07:28 Why smaller conferences create stronger connections
    08:08 Key differences from the first year
    09:39 How to justify attendance to your employer
    11:19 Building real training and team learning
    12:02 Intentional swag and thoughtful attendee experience

    Keywords
    retreat style conference
    talent acquisition conference
    practitioner led sessions
    conference planning strategy
    talent collective community
    conference business case
    small curated events
    wellness at conferences
    sponsor integration strategy
    TA leader networking

    16 min
  • Is This Even a "Real" Candidate?

    Fake candidates are no longer rare headlines. They are a growing risk in remote hiring. In this episode, you will learn why hiring fraud is increasing, how AI is making it easier to fake qualifications, what whisper coaching and proxy interviews look like in real time, and how to protect your company without turning interviews into interrogations. You will walk away with practical guardrails, clear red flags to watch for, and a reminder that structured interviews and strong follow-up questions are still your best defense.


    Key Takeaways:

    Why one in three hiring managers report encountering fake candidates

    How remote hiring removes natural identity verification moments

    The difference between acceptable AI assistance and employment fraud

    What whisper coaching is and how it shows up in interviews

    How proxy interviews and identity swaps happen

    Early interview red flags such as polished but shallow answers

    Why organized hiring fraud can create serious system access risk

    How to use structured interviews to expose inconsistencies

    Why documentation and cross-interviewer visibility matter

    How to design hiring processes that make fraud harder without harming candidate experience


    Timestamps:

    00:00 Why structured interviews still matter

    01:10 Hiring fraud statistics and growth

    02:00 How remote hiring changed verification

    05:00 Who benefits from fake candidates

    09:00 Organized fraud and system risk

    12:30 What whisper coaching looks like

    14:00 Application stage red flags

    18:00 Early interview warning signs

    23:00 Inconsistencies across interview rounds

    29:00 Building guardrails that prevent fraud


    Keywords:

    Hiring fraud

    Fake candidates

    Deepfake interviews

    Whisper coaching

    Proxy interview

    AI in hiring

    Structured interviews

    Follow-up questions

    Identity verification

    Remote hiring

    34 min
  • AI Isn’t the Answer. It’s the Amplifier.

    AI is everywhere in hiring, but it’s not fixing broken processes — it’s accelerating them. In this episode, we break down how AI actually shows up in the hiring process, what it amplifies on both the candidate and company side, and why blaming the tool misses the real issue. You’ll learn where candidates unintentionally hurt themselves using AI, where companies break trust with automation, and how to use AI in ways that improve hiring without sacrificing judgment, fairness, or candidate experience.

    Key takeaways

    - AI is not good or bad; it amplifies the quality of your existing hiring process

    - Strong interview structure and trained interviewers make AI more effective

    - Candidates should use AI, but unedited, copy-paste outputs are easy to spot

    - If AI rewrites your experience so well you can’t explain it, you’re setting yourself up to fail

    - Using live AI during interviews can lead to poor hiring matches and distrust

    - Generic, AI-written job descriptions weaken employer brand and clarity

    - Automated rejections without human review damage trust and miss great talent

    - AI-generated interview questions often produce canned, low-signal answers

    - The safest, highest-value AI uses are scheduling and interview note-taking

    - Interview training and process design matter more than adding new tools

    Timestamps

    00:48 — Why AI isn’t fixing hiring
    01:26 — AI reveals strong vs broken processes
    01:43 — Candidate AI panic and misconceptions
    02:16 — Common mistakes candidates make with AI
    04:03 — When resumes don’t match real experience
    05:00 — Live AI use during interviews and risks
    07:08 — How companies break trust with AI
    08:59 — Automated rejections and candidate impact
    13:16 — Why AI interview questions fail
    18:54 — Where AI actually helps hiring teams

    Keywords

    AI in hiring
    interview process
    hiring automation
    AI interviews
    recruiting technology
    candidate experience
    interviewer training
    hiring bias
    AI recruiting tools
    structured interviews

    28 min
  • "We're Like a Family Here" and Other Interviewing Icks

    In this episode, you’ll learn how common interview “icks” subtle phrases, behaviors, and broken processes quietly push great candidates away. We break down the most frequent red flags candidates notice instantly, why they happen, and how hiring teams can fix them using one simple principle: if it would feel weird for a candidate to do it, don’t do it as an interviewer. You’ll walk away with practical ways to create interviews that feel respectful, human, and effective for both sides.


    Key takeaways:

    • Why certain interview phrases instantly signal bad culture

    • How vague corporate language creates mistrust with candidates

    • The most damaging interviewer behaviors candidates never forget

    • Why treating interviews like therapy sessions backfires

    • How body language and distractions change power dynamics

    • The hidden process flaws that create anxiety and drop-off

    • Why surprise panels and group interviews hurt performance

    • The real impact of unpaid homework assignments

    • How salary secrecy wastes time for everyone

    • Candidate behaviors that unintentionally hurt their chances

      Timestamps:

      • 00:00 What interview “icks” really mean

      • 01:17 Why candidate experience affects offer acceptance

      • 01:41 The four categories of interview icks

      • 02:34 Phrase icks and verbal red flags

      • 08:17 Behavior icks interviewers overlook

      • 13:28 Process icks hiding in plain sight

      • 15:08 Surprise interviews and group interviews

      • 16:41 Homework assignments and free labor

      • 19:31 Salary transparency and late-stage surprises

      • 22:10 Candidate behaviors that give interviewers the ick

        Keywords:

        interview icks

        bad interview experiences

        hiring mistakes

        candidate experience

        interviewer behavior

        interview process problems

        salary transparency

        job interview red flags

        hiring best practices

        recruiting mistakes

        31 min
      • Four Types of "That" Interviewer Ruining Hiring

        Many hiring teams think interviews are just conversations, but poor interviewer behavior can actively push away top candidates and damage employer brand. In this episode, you’ll learn how common interviewer mistakes hurt hiring outcomes, how candidates actually interpret interview behavior, and what separates red flag interviewers from high-quality hiring managers who create strong candidate experiences and better hiring decisions.


        Key Takeaways


        1. Negative interview experiences directly impact acceptance rates and employer reputation

        2. Most bad interviewer behavior comes from lack of training, not bad intent

        3. Talking too much prevents real candidate evaluation

        4. Power dynamics and ego damage trust and candidate perception

        5. Rapid-fire questioning creates stress but doesn’t improve hiring accuracy

        6. Non-job-related or illegal questions create legal and brand risk

        7. Candidates share negative experiences far more often than positive ones

        8. The best interviews feel like two-way conversations, not interrogations

        9. Preparation and presence signal respect and professionalism

        10. Transparency about process and role increases candidate trust and acceptance



          Timestamps

          00:00 Real example of inappropriate interview question

          01:18 Why interviewer behavior impacts hiring outcomes

          01:33 The four bad interviewer types overview

          01:54 The Rambler explained

          03:38 The Power Tripper explained

          06:00 The Interrogator explained

          08:39 The Walking Red Flag explained

          11:33 What makes a green flag hiring manager

          15:24 Why candidates remember interview experiences long term

          18:24 Real candidate stories and interview mistakes


          Top Keywords

          interview mistakes

          bad interviewers

          candidate experience

          hiring manager training

          illegal interview questions

          how to interview candidates

          interview red flags

          interview best practices

          employer brand interviews

          improving hiring decisions

          28 min
        11. Four Interviewers Ruining Your Hiring

          A bad interview doesn’t just lose candidates — it damages your employer brand, your reputation, and your future hiring pipeline. In this episode, we break down the four most common types of interviewers who unintentionally (and sometimes intentionally) sabotage the interview process: the Rambler, the Power Tripper, the Interrogator, and the Walking Red Flag.


          Through real stories, hard data, and firsthand experience, we unpack why these interviewer behaviors persist, how they show up in real interviews, and what they signal to candidates about company culture. We also flip the script and define what a green flag hiring manager actually looks like — and how small behavior changes can dramatically improve hiring outcomes, candidate experience, and long-term trust.


          If you hire people, interview candidates, or coach hiring managers, this episode is your field guide.

          Takeaways

          • Why negative interview experiences drive top candidates away
          • The four interviewer archetypes that derail hiring decisions
          • How interviewer behavior reflects company culture
          • Why “gut instinct” is not a hiring strategy
          • The real risks of illegal and non-job-related questions
          • How power dynamics quietly sabotage interviews
          • Why candidates remember interviews long after hiring managers forget them
          • What candidates interpret as red flags — even when unintentional
          • How interviewer training directly impacts hiring quality
          • The core traits of a green flag hiring manager
          • Timestamps

            • 00:00 — A real interview story that shouldn’t happen in 2019
            • 01:16 — Why interview behavior matters more than companies think
            • 01:54 — Interviewer Type #1: The Rambler
            • 03:38 — Interviewer Type #2: The Power Tripper
            • 05:16 — How negative interviews spread faster than positive ones
            • 06:00 — Interviewer Type #3: The Interrogator
            • 08:39 — Interviewer Type #4: The Walking Red Flag
            • 11:33 — What defines a green flag hiring manager
            • 15:06 — Real examples of positive interview experiences
            • 18:24 — “Dear Expert Interviewers” — listener stories and karma
            • Keywords

              • bad interview experience
              • hiring manager mistakes
              • interview red flags
              • candidate experience
              • interviewer training
              • illegal interview questions
              • hiring bias
              • employer brand damage
              • green flag hiring manager
              • interview best practices
              • 27 min

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