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How to find us:
Ravae
Sinclair: @birthconnections and @natlbirthpostpartumpros
Childbirth classes: www.birth-connections.com/services
Denise
Bolds: @BoldDoula and @blackwomendovbac
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Website: www.doulathatpodcast.com
Facebook: Doula That podcast
IG:@doulathatpodcast. YouTube: Doula That! podcast
Platforms: Apple, Spotify, Stitcher & Google
------------------------------· Katt Williams' comedy special and 2024's revealing themes. 0:00
o Ravae Sinclair and Denise Bolds discuss Katt Williams' comedy special, which they find refreshing and relevant to current events.
o They emphasize the importance of owning up to one's actions and being held accountable for hurting or stealing from others.
· Monique's career and race in the entertainment industry. 3:00
o Denise Bolds and Ravae Sinclair discuss Mo’Nique's experience as a Black woman in the entertainment industry, with Denise expressing support for her truth-telling and Ravae acknowledging the challenges of parenting and forgiveness for Black women.
o Denise and Ravae analyze Mo’Nique's situation, highlighting the double standards faced by Black women in the industry and the lack of forgiveness for their choices.
o Mo’Nique discusses the challenges of being a Black woman in the entertainment industry, including the pressure to be perfect and the lack of collaboration between Black women in the same profession.
o Mo’Nique shares her personal experience of being mistreated by Oprah Winfrey, highlighting the need for Black women to work together and not see each other as competition.
· Black maternal health disparities and corruption in the medical industry. 7:27
o Denise Bolds and Ravae Sinclair discuss how gossip and misinformation can spread quickly in their community, leading to schisms and conflicts.
o Both women prioritize truth and evidence in their interactions, seeking to collaborate and serve families in a more effective and compassionate manner.
o Ravae Sinclair and Denise Bolds discuss the financial gain from Black maternal health disparities, with Bolds noting that eradicating the issue would result in a billion-dollar loss for various industries.
o Bolds also mentions that there are towns built around prisons in upstate New York, highlighting the economic benefits of incarceration.
o Denise Bolds shares a story of a client who was induced by a doctor despite wanting a spontaneous vaginal birth, highlighting the need for doulas to advocate for their clients' choices.
o Bolds offers a certified training program for doulas to learn how to negotiate and advocate in instances of inductions, emphasizing the importance of empowering Black women to make informed decisions about their reproductive health.
· Bait and switch tactics in obstetrics. 14:52
o Ravae Sinclair and Denise Bolds discuss a doctor's unethical behavior towards a client, including bait-and-switch tactics and prioritizing financial gain over patient care.
o Denise Bolds, a doula, helps the client navigate the situation by reminding her of her birth preferences and encouraging her to trust her body, ultimately leading to a successful and empowering birth experience.
o Ravae Sinclair and Denise Bolds discuss a client's experience with a Black OB who tried to bait and switch her, highlighting the importance of awareness and precautions when choosing a provider.
o The doulas emphasize the value of having a supportive team during childbirth, particularly in navigating unexpected scenarios and ensuring a positive experience.
o Denise Bolds and Ravae Sinclair discuss how the pandemic has changed the birth arena, with some positive and negative impacts.
o They highlight the power dynamics between hospitals and birth workers, with hospitals controlling and regulating birth, while birth workers are seen as a nuisance.
· Doula work during the pandemic and its impact on the profession. 22:38
o Denise Bolds and Ravae Sinclair discuss the impact of the pandemic on the healthcare industry, including a shortage of physicians and nurses, and an increased demand for doulas and postpartum care specialists.
o The pandemic has revealed the need for more mental health support for healthcare workers, who are experiencing burnout and leaving the profession due to the intense and caustic environment in labor and delivery departments.
o Ravae Sinclair and Denise Bolds discuss the impact of the pandemic on the doula profession, with Ravae highlighting the importance of doulas in the birth space and Denise expressing her protectiveness over the title of doula.
o Both Ravae and Denise share their experiences with celebrities attempting to take on doula roles without proper training or experience, with Denise emphasizing the physical and emotional demands of the job.
· Doula work during the pandemic. 27:32
o Ravae Sinclair and Denise Bolds discuss the impact of the pandemic on the doula industry, highlighting the need for doulas to acknowledge and address the changes in the field.
o They emphasize the importance of doulas being aware of the trends and needs in the community, and providing relief and support to clients through their work.
o Ravae Sinclair and Denise Bolds discuss the importance of collaboration and having hard conversations in leadership, particularly in the context of Black History Month.
o They emphasize the need to move forward unbothered and have heart conversations to understand the differences between millennial and pandemic train doulas.
How to find us:
Ravae
Sinclair: @birthconnections and @natlbirthpostpartumpros
Childbirth classes: www.birth-connections.com/services
Denise
Bolds: @BoldDoula and @blackwomendovbac
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Website: www.doulathatpodcast.com
Facebook: Doula That podcast
IG:@doulathatpodcast. YouTube: Doula That! podcast
Platforms: Apple, Spotify, Stitcher & Google
------------------------------Balancing doula work with family life as a single mom. 0:00
Linked article: https://www.healthcare-brew.com/stories/2023/12/06/study-virtual-doula-visits-are-just-as-effective-as-in-person-appointments
Denise virtually doulaing in 2020 in New York City: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w6Dni2D8Ru0
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How to find us:
Ravae Sinclair @birthconnections and natlbirthpostpartumpros
Denise Bolds @BoldDoula and @blackwomendovbac
Website: www.doulathatpodcast.com
IG:@doulathatpodcast
Platforms: Apple, Spotify, Stitcher & Google
The New Doula Course Vetting Checklist
1) Google Them
2) Ask folks about them
3) Check their social media
4) Get the course outline and objectives
5) Call them- talk with them, get acquainted!
6) Get Contact hours- leverage!
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How to find us:
Ravae Sinclair @birthconnections and natlbirthpostpartumpros
Denise Bolds @BoldDoula and @blackwomendovbac
Website: www.doulathatpodcast.com
IG:@doulathatpodcast
Platforms: Apple, Spotify, Stitcher & Google
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How to find us:
Ravae Sinclair @birthconnections and natlbirthpostpartumpros
Denise Bolds @BoldDoula and @blackwomendovbac
Website: www.doulathatpodcast.com
IG:@doulathatpodcast
Platforms: Apple, Spotify, Stitcher & Google
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How to find us:
Ravae Sinclair @birthconnections and natlbirthpostpartumpros
Denise Bolds @BoldDoula and @blackwomendovbac
Website: www.doulathatpodcast.com
IG:@doulathatpodcast
Platforms: Apple, Spotify, Stitcher & Google
· Balancing doula work with family life as a single mom. 0:00
o Aspiring doula struggles with balancing work and family responsibilities as a single mom to young children.
· Challenges of being a single parent and doula. 2:09
o Single mom of a five-year-old faces stress as a primary caregiver and seeks support for safety net and community.
o Consider creating a childcare plan with a neighbor or co-op to support each other during late-night calls.
· Doula work, business tips, and bartering. 5:21
o Ravae Sinclair suggests creating a business that supports birthing and postpartum families, such as meal prep or childbirth education, to help balance work and family life.
o Denise Bolds adds that there is a growing market for nutrition and meal prep services, and that skills in areas like yoga or art therapy can also be applied to parenting and family development.
o Ravae Sinclair and Denise Bolds discuss the option of bartering as a way for doulas to receive payment for their services, but Denise notes that this is not a common practice in New York City due to the limited availability of doulas and the need for them to work independently.
o Both Ravae and Denise agree that paying doula services off in installments is a more common practice in their area, with families paying for services as they receive them rather than all at once.
· Contracts and exchanges in birth doula work. 10:53
o Ravae Sinclair emphasizes the importance of written contracts for exchanging goods or services.
o Ravae Sinclair discusses challenges with upfront payments for birth and postpartum work, including the risk of non-refundable contracts and PayPal refunds.
· Birth work excellence and virtual doula support. 13:49
o Start services ASAP to avoid losing potential clients.
o Denise Bolds and Ravae Sinclair discuss the importance of promptly responding to clients and providing clear instructions for the next steps in the onboarding process.
o They emphasize the need to be responsive and proactive in communicating with clients, especially when it comes to exchanging deposits and initiating the onboarding process.
o Ravae Sinclair discusses virtual doula support reducing C-sections by 60%, with a higher impact on Black women.
· Virtual doula work challenges and skills. 19:52
o Denise Bolds highlights the importance of assessment skills in virtual doula work, using her experience as a social worker to provide valuable insights.
o Virtual doula work has become more prevalent since the pandemic, with successful cases in various locations, despite initial skepticism.
o Ravae Sinclair discusses the challenges of virtual doula work, including disruptions from technology and lack of continuity in support.
o Denise Bolds emphasizes the importance of being able to see and read people's emotions and reactions in real-time, which can be difficult with virtual technology.
o Ravae Sinclair shares her experience as a virtual doula, navigating technical issues and preparing partners for birth while remote.
o Ravae emphasizes the importance of staying connected and consistent for virtual doula work, especially for inexperienced practitioners.
Virtual Doula (part 2)
Summary
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How to find us:
Ravae Sinclair @birthconnections and natlbirthpostpartumpros
Denise Bolds @BoldDoula and @blackwomendovbac
Website: www.doulathatpodcast.com
IG:@doulathatpodcast
Platforms: Apple, Spotify, Stitcher & Google
Introduction: What are you watching on TV?
Doula Skills
Doula Skill
Trending in Birth Work
· Okra Water. 29.03
Good Birth Worker News
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How to find us:
Ravae Sinclair @birthconnections and natlbirthpostpartumpros
Denise Bolds @BoldDoula and @blackwomendovbac
Website: www.doulathatpodcast.com
IG:@doulathatpodcast
Platforms: Apple, Spotify, Stitcher & Google
Introduction What are you reading?
Doula Skills
Trending Issues or Topics
Good Birth Worker News
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How to find us:
Ravae Sinclair @birthconnections and natlbirthpostpartumpros
Denise Bolds @BoldDoula and @blackwomendovbac
Website: www.doulathatpodcast.com
IG:@doulathatpodcast
Platforms: Apple, Spotify, Stitcher & Google
· Doula skills and backup support during the holiday season. 0:08
o Ravae Sinclair and Denise Both share what's in their cups during a podcast episode.
o Doulas seek backup support during holiday season and beyond.
· Doula backup and communication. 3:43
o Doula discusses importance of having a backup doula for support during birth.
o Doula shares experiences with clients and other doulas, emphasizing importance of clear communication and contracts.
· Backup doulas and their importance in childbirth. 7:19
o Backup doula should vet clients and lawyers, develop go-twos for support.
o Ravae & Denise discuss strategies for finding backup doulas and reducing anxiety for clients.
o Offer virtual doula services if there are limited in-person matches for a family's preferences.
o Establish a backup doula contract with a written agreement to avoid confusion and ensure fair compensation.
· Backup doulas for birth workers during pandemic. 13:43
o Ravae & Denise discuss importance of having a backup doula for client support and self-care.
o Ravae suggests adapting to pandemic by disclosing limited experience, undergirding with backup support.
· Ethics in doula work and backup doulas. 16:51
o Denise discovers $1,000 discrepancy in payment for supporting client through prodromal labor.
o Denise supports client through multiple prodromal births, totaling 3-4 days.
o Ravae warns against overextending oneself as a doula, risking burnout and compromising quality of care.
o Denise highlights the importance of backup support and fair compensation for doulas, citing a specific example of a Black doula taking advantage of a less experienced doula.
· Doula backup support during long labors. 22:33
o Denise discusses managing long labors without a backup doula, and the potential use of an honorarium for backup support.
o Ravae discusses her use of backup doulas for support during long labor.
· Race and representation in birth work organizations. 26:07
o Ravae highlights the trend of white-led organizations using BIPOC faces without proper representation or credit.
o Ravae notices a trend of Black faces in corporate messaging and podcasting, while Denise shares their experiences as a Black person in the US, highlighting the exhaustion of constantly advocating for equity and inclusion.
o Denise’s podcast on Lamaze and Bradley methods was popular, but they stepped back due to lack of diversity in the organization and its teaching materials.
o Denise criticizes Lamaze for not doing enough for Black birth workers, including revoking certifications of some test takers.
· Image usage and ownership in a nonprofit organization. 32:51
o Ravae Sinclair discusses her experience with DONA International, including being dismissed from the board with no explanation and her image still being used without permission.
o Ravae shares her experience of being the first Black president of the organization in its history, and the ongoing issue of image usage without permission.
· Image rights and usage for birth workers. 35:05
o Ravae & Denise discuss barriers to certification for Black birth workers, with one speaker criticizing low standards for these professionals.
o Ravae emphasizes the importance of controlling one's image and likeness, especially when collaborating with others for business purposes.
o Ravae shares a personal experience of dealing with the misuse of an image by an organization, highlighting the need for agreements to manage future usage.
· Race, leadership, and the future of black birth workers. 39:47
o Denise Bolds shares their experience of shutting down a podcast due to a falling out with a co-host, highlighting the importance of aligning with the right people.
o Denise and Ravae discuss trends in the birth world, including the challenge of controlling one's image and aligning with organizations that align with their values.
· GoFundMe campaigns and personal finances. 42:34
o Ravae expresses frustration with GoFundMe campaigns for personal expenses, such as a van or moving costs, and feels that it's inappropriate to ask for money without proper justification.
o Denise shares their own experience with GoFundMe campaigns and acknowledges that it can be a generational difference in how people approach financial support.
o Denise shares their experience as a doula and how they raised money for their business by selling personal belongings and hosting a yard sale.
o Ravae and Denise discuss the shift towards relying more on online platforms like GoFundMe for fundraising, rather than traditional methods like hosting events or selling items.
· Financial support and generational differences. 47:48
o Ravae recognizes increased demand for doula services due to financial uncertainty and seeks to address it through teaching a class.
o Ravae & Denise discuss differences in generational attitudes towards gratitude and connection in giving and receiving.
· Financial management and self-improvement for birth workers. 51:18
o Denise Bolds shares personal experiences of financial struggles as a single mom, highlighting the need for support and resources.
o Ravae observes that there is a lack of posts seeking financial knowledge or support, and suggests a paradigm shift towards equal exchange.
o Denise shares their personal experience as a black single mom and how they overcame financial struggles through sacrifice and leverage.
o Denise references Alex Hammadi, a successful YouTuber and entrepreneur, as an example of how making sacrifices can lead to financial success.
o Successful entrepreneurs share their financial management strategies and the sacrifices they made to reach their goals.
· Financial literacy and relationships with money among birth workers. 58:07
o Denise Bolds reflects on generational differences in approach to birth work, highlighting the need for managing expectations and different perspectives.
o Denise emphasizes the importance of having a positive relationship with money, cultivating it, and respecting it.
o Ravae Sinclair agrees and acknowledges that the question of one's relationship with money is important, but admits they still don't have a clear answer themselves.
· Infant loss awareness and healing for birth workers. 1:01:41
o Doula overcomes loss to welcome new baby, finding hope and healing through her experience.
o Denise Bolds shares personal experience with miscarriage and stillbirth to emphasize importance of support for families and birth workers.
o Doula work involves more than just physical support, including emotional and spiritual care for families.
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Links to Resources:
Birth Worker Contract Templates: www.natlbirthpostpartumpros.com/shop
Alex Hammadi, Diary of a CEO (YouTube): @TheDiaryOfACEO
Doula That! Podcast- [email protected] and doulathatpodcast.com
Birth Worker Business Booster course
Black Birth Worker Wellness Collective on Facebook
Sweet Sleep Junebug
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How to find us:
Ravae Sinclair @birthconnections and natlbirthpostpartumpros
Denise Bolds @BoldDoula and @blackwomendovbac
Website: www.doulathatpodcast.com
IG:@doulathatpodcast
Platforms: Apple, Spotify, Stitcher & Google
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