Just wanted to pray for you Israel this morning!!

You know those that can see the vision, nor get the vision. The constant negativity and disbelief that begin to make you doubt yourself!! I promise we are working on live and it will be coming soon because I really want to interact with y'all!! Much love in your direction family!!!!

You know those that can see the vision, nor get the vision. The constant negativity and disbelief that begin to make you doubt yourself!! I promise we are working on live and it will be coming soon because I really want to interact with y'all!! Much love in your direction family!!!!

For some months now I've witnessed this contention between black men and black women online, and because of this would like to address a few issues I've seen so far. I think the real issue here between this power struggle is a lot of toxic relationship values we've gained from our childhood experiences. These toxic family values has caused a rift between the sexes and the Beck family dynamic, so come with me as I dive into these topics and provide some solutions as to how we can reconcile these issues!

For some months now I've witnessed this contention between black men and black women online, and because of this would like to address a few issues I've seen so far. I think the real issue here between this power struggle is a lot of toxic relationship values we've gained from our childhood experiences. These toxic family values has caused a rift between the sexes and the Beck family dynamic, so come with me as I dive into these topics and provide some solutions as to how we can reconcile these issues!

For some months now I've witnessed this contention between black men and black women online, and because of this would like to address a few issues I've seen so far. I think the real issue here between this power struggle is a lot of toxic relationship values we've gained from our childhood experiences. These toxic family values has caused a rift between the sexes and the Beck family dynamic, so come with me as I dive into these topics and provide some solutions as to how we can reconcile these issues!

Engaging in relationships are not to be taken lightly and should be viewed as seriously as one plans out their career/business

And when you have a history of toxic relationships it poses a series of unfruitful or distractive behavior patterns that will interfere in sustaining a healthy relationship.

Most people enter into new relationships after being in toxic ones with the thought pattern of “waiting for things to fall apart.” Thus, causes you to be hyper-vigilant from that perspective it makes it impossible for one to recognize the benefit or possibility of a budding relationship.

Breaking the cycle!!Recognizing the qualities of the mate you want! If he/she exhibits the qualities that you want in a mate; and if he/she displays those qualities that they themselves have stated in the beginning, which shows their ability to be honest about their negative and positive qualities and behavior patterns. If that person truly cares about changes in their life for the betterment of your relationship. Knowing when to apologize for your wrong doings and being strong enough to admit when you have wronged someone! Removing high expectations which often seem to interfere with the sustainability of that relationship.

Knowing that importance of effective communication

Learn to meet your partner at their level, and compromise is the key to a successful relationship

Benefit! seeing parts of yourself that no one else can, bring things out of you that no one could

willing to look at yourself and make the necessary changes to you both better people, better mates.

Time management: in essence it is impossible to make a sound decisions when it comes to picking a good mate with out spending time with them! How can we decide whether to share our lives with someone without ever spending real time with them. Knowing the importance of making sure that the other side of things are right before you tie yourself to someone forever; and living with regrets in your relationship which will aid in further destroying your relationship because of those regrets

Engaging in relationships are not to be taken lightly and should be viewed as seriously as one plans out their career/business

And when you have a history of toxic relationships it poses a series of unfruitful or distractive behavior patterns that will interfere in sustaining a healthy relationship.

Most people enter into new relationships after being in toxic ones with the thought pattern of “waiting for things to fall apart.” Thus, causes you to be hyper-vigilant from that perspective it makes it impossible for one to recognize the benefit or possibility of a budding relationship.

Breaking the cycle!!Recognizing the qualities of the mate you want! If he/she exhibits the qualities that you want in a mate; and if he/she displays those qualities that they themselves have stated in the beginning, which shows their ability to be honest about their negative and positive qualities and behavior patterns. If that person truly cares about changes in their life for the betterment of your relationship. Knowing when to apologize for your wrong doings and being strong enough to admit when you have wronged someone! Removing high expectations which often seem to interfere with the sustainability of that relationship.

Knowing that importance of effective communication

Learn to meet your partner at their level, and compromise is the key to a successful relationship

Benefit! seeing parts of yourself that no one else can, bring things out of you that no one could

willing to look at yourself and make the necessary changes to you both better people, better mates.

Time management: in essence it is impossible to make a sound decisions when it comes to picking a good mate with out spending time with them! How can we decide whether to share our lives with someone without ever spending real time with them. Knowing the importance of making sure that the other side of things are right before you tie yourself to someone forever; and living with regrets in your relationship which will aid in further destroying your relationship because of those regrets

Are you cursed and don't know!

I've seen this to be true in many people's lives, when people are dealing with a curse they don't know what their lives would be like to be free from the curse. They can't picture it at all. For this reason, truly they don't even know that they are actually cursed. I say this because, they have been dealing with strife their whole lives. So much so that it's become normalized in their lives. There are multiple scriptures that reveal particular curses placed upon Yesra'yahu; as well the sons of Adam. But there is one that culminates the fate of the chosen breach of contract!!

The Scripture where the terms of agreement are displayed. The blessings and curses are the benefits and repercussions associated in that particular chapter is found in the Old Testament. It exclusively provides a detailed message regarding those blessings and curses in Deuteronomy chapter

28. There are 14 verses of blessings and 54 verses of curses. One can surmise the basic principle of these verses can be seen from this perspective.

Understanding how cultural norms and pack out lives is critical to a well rounded self. And within the black community we really don't pay attention to the things or the cultural norms that shape our lives and impact us from a negative perspective! join us as we dive into the mind of the many aspects of cultural norms within the black community all over the United States!