Introduction
The other day I was giving a talk to a 12 year old young man and his mother at the end of his checkup that I am sure I have delivered thousands of times before over the years. As I was speaking, the thought crossed my mind that I need to share this talk with my podcast listeners. Of course! If I have bothered to consistently deliver it in person for so many years, it must be important. In fact, I know this little conversation has saved at least a few children from devastating injuries. Why you ask, because a few children have told me so? I am particularly righteous about giving this talk to my preteen and teenage boy patients because they seem to need it the most. I want them to hear it directly from me! Girls have accidents as well and all of these tips apply to girls as well, of course, but today my focus is on accidents that I see far more frequent in boys for reasons I am about to explain. So sit back and hear how this pediatrician talks to children, especially boys, about the number one cause of morbidity and death in children, childhood accidents.
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Musical introduction
Boys will be Boys
Boys, especially pre adolescent and adolescent boys are wired to seek thrills. How do I know this? As I explain to my patients, I know this for two reasons; First, believe it or not, it wasn't all that long ago that I was a young teen and had the thrill seeking mindset. Fortunately, I survived those years without a devastating injury but let me tell you, I had some close calls. Secondly, I have spent my adult life taking care of injuries in this age group of boys and young men. If you have a few hours or maybe days, I can tell you some amazing true stories about bright, good looking, athletic, intelligent young men who had a moment when whatever crazy thing they were trying "Just seemed like a good idea". That's always what they say after the injury, "it just seemed like a good idea." What they are really saying is that the reward of having a wonderful thrill, outweighed the risks in their judgement at that moment. As I said before, boys are wired to seek thrills, whether that be jumping amazingly high, going a little faster than the last run, showing off their super agility, knocking over someone bigger, etc. Pushing the envelope is just thrilling, regardless of the consequences.
Thrill Seeking Comes with a Price
But all that thrill seeking comes at a price. Sometimes, things go very wrong and the end game can be pretty ugly, sometimes with life changing permanent injuries. Sustaining a permanent spinal cord or head injury in the pursuit of the perfect flip is a really bum deal. Imagine watching all your friends play, from the view of a wheelchair, waiting for someone to come change your diapers. I like to put that image in my male patients brains with each checkup as they get older. And that is no exaggeration. I often ask, junior's parents if they knew someone when they were growing up who became a para or quadriplegic in the pursuit of a thrill. Most parents do know someone who had such a devastating injury. It's pretty common.
Which Thrills are the Most Dangerous?
What are these thrills you might be thinking? The majority of the really serious injuries that I see in the thrill seeking boy crowd that I care for, happen when a child is "playing" with powerful motorized vehicles like dirt bikes or four ...