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It’s the end of an era… and the start of something wild.

In this season finale, Justin and Ben get extra dusty as they unpack Genesis 12 and the idea that sometimes, God's call doesn't make sense—especially when you're happy, comfortable, and surrounded by good things. Is leaving your hometown a prerequisite for God's blessing? Do hard choices automatically mean holy choices? And what even is God's will when both options seem good?

Spoiler: This one gets theological, nostalgic, and slightly chaotic.

In This Episode:

• 🚚 Justin is moving back to SoCal (tomorrow!). Ben’s already been—caught a cold, gave a bad report, came back anyway.
• 🧙‍♀️ If you like horoscopes, Ouija boards, and crystals… God might be calling you to plant a church (??)
• 🧬 Genesis 12 gets a deep dive—like actual Hebrew-grammar deep.
• 🎯 Real talk on decision-making: Is God calling you or are you just uncomfortable?
• 🙃 Why we thought the “holy path” was always the miserable one—and how we’re unlearning that.

Dusty Highlights:

• "Lot bad things. Abram good things." (Considered as the episode title, tbh.)
• Ben nerds out on Hebrew verbs and flips the script on how we’ve misunderstood “leave your family.”
• Justin confesses he's putting himself on the altar (again), and opens up about why leaving Hawaii hurts.
• How “this is a sign” culture leads us to over-spiritualize basic decisions—like oatmeal or avocado toast.

Theme Breakdown:

• Comfort isn’t always compromise.
• God’s call isn’t always to leave—it’s often to stay.
• Discerning God’s will might be less about clarity and more about contentment.
• You don't want porn. (Seriously, that metaphor went deep.)

Thanks for sticking with us through Season 3.
We’ll be back with more Dusty goodness when the Lord provides a plane ticket or a podcast miracle.

Until then…

Let’s get dusty.

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Summary:
In this delightfully unhinged episode, the Dusty Boys (Ben and Justin) are joined by the one and only Richard Young for a brutally honest and deeply reflective breakdown of David, Bathsheba, and Uriah. What starts as a sarcastic roast of legalistic outreach theology quickly turns into a raw, biblical unpacking of power, temptation, and the way cultural norms distort accountability. If you've ever been told naps are sinful or glow tracks are the cure to lust—this one’s for you.

(P.S. This summary was written by a robot. If you're reading this, Richard, you're welcome for the promo.)

Should I Listen?
Yes—especially if you're tired of shallow takes on the David and Bathsheba story. This episode deconstructs bad theology, explores cultural honor-shame dynamics, and dives deep into how leaders fall... and what repentance really looks like. Plus, it's hilarious. Let's get Dusty.

Episode Highlights:

1. Reflections:
   • [00:01:15] - Opening Roast: The Dusty Boys open with a rapid-fire of sarcasm-laced “hot takes” on sin and naps.
   • [00:04:20] - David's Nap & Neglect: David doesn’t go to war… and the boys start asking if this story is really about laziness leading to lust.
   • [00:12:55] - Is This Temptation or Power Abuse?: Richard questions if David was actually “tempted” or just entitled.
   • [00:20:10] - Cultural Justification vs. God’s Word: David uses cultural norms to justify breaking three commandments. Sound familiar?
   • [00:30:05] - The Role of Nathan: How God used a prophet (not a peer) to bring David to repentance—and what that says about true accountability.
   • [00:40:22] - David’s Redemption Arc: What real repentance looks like when David finally owns it, worships, and writes Psalm 51.
   • [00:49:10] - Honor-Shame & Modern Culture: Comparing David’s day to 2025 and how we use culture to justify sin today.
2. Conversations:
   • [00:26:00] - Justin: “How do you call out someone in power without losing your head?”
   • [00:37:45] - Ben: “Is Saul actually better than David?”
   • [00:51:20] - Richard: “How do we love people into repentance without enabling sin?”

Memorable Quotes:

• “If you’re not passing out glow tracks, you’re probably sinning.” – Ben (joking... mostly)
• “David wasn’t tempted—he took what he wanted because he could.” – Richard
• “Culture will always find a way to justify sin. That doesn’t mean God changed His mind.” – Justin
• “You can be biblically wrong and culturally applauded. Ask David.” – Ben
• “The difference between Saul and David isn’t their behavior—it’s their heart when confronted.” – Richard

Resources Mentioned:

• Free From Porn Coaching Program — DM Richard on Instagram @riyoung31
• Psalm 51 (David’s repentance)

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Summary:
The Dusty Boys are back and swinging their hammers at your Sunday School theology. In this theologically reckless (and weirdly insightful) episode, the boys explore divine councils, pagan deities, and why your favorite Marvel characters might actually be in the Bible. Spoiler alert: Psalms 82 and 1 Kings 22 go hard. Also, meet Alden—our surprise guest who got thrown into the deep end with zero Dusty context. Good luck, buddy.

(P.S. This summary was written by a robot. If you're offended, please direct all emails to [email protected].)

Should I Listen?
Yes—especially if:

• You grew up being told there's only one supernatural being in the universe.
• You want a fresh take on why Satan might be chilling in heaven’s boardroom.
• You're ready to feel just a little uncomfortable and laugh way too hard in the process.

Episode Highlights:

1. Reflections:
   • [00:32] – Opening Hot Takes: Thor and Loki are in the Bible? Satan's in God's inner circle? Mushrooms aren't in heaven? Let's get Dusty.
   • [12:45] – Psalms 82 unpacked: God sits among the “gods” and judges them—wait, what?
   • [16:10] – The Satan Problem: Why is he in the divine council, and what does that mean?
   • [21:33] – 1 Kings 22 deep dive: A divine brainstorm session on how to take out a corrupt king… and God picks the lie.
   • [33:58] – How God invites input: We wrestle with what it means that God listens, collaborates, and changes course.
   • [42:11] – The Confusing Council: How does a collaborative God affect how we view prayer, leadership, and agency?
   • [52:00] – The Elohim Explained: Not all gods are God—but they might be real. And not everything with a cape is fiction.
2. Conversations:
   • [08:50] – Alden joins the chaos: Cold intro. No prep. All vibes.
   • [46:07] – “So… should I pray more?” A real convo on the supernatural worldview and why the Western Church might be a bit too chill.
   • [55:32] – Closing thoughts: What if God wants to know what you think?

Memorable Quotes:

• “If God always gets his way, why did Jesus tell us to pray ‘Your will be done’?”
• “What if God said: ‘You pick. I just wanna go with you.’”
• “Satan’s in the Divine Council—and that’s not even the craziest part of 1 Kings 22.”
• “God likes working with you. He’s not threatened by your ideas.”
• “Thor might be real. Loki too. But Yahweh’s still King.”

Resources Mentioned:

• The Unseen Realm by Michael Heiser
• Psalms 82
• 1 Kings 22
• Job 1
• Daniel 10 (re: angelic turf wars)

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Summary:
In this episode, the Dusty Boys get raw (literally and figuratively) as they tackle one of the weirdest passages in the Bible: Exodus 4:24-26. Why did God almost kill Moses after calling him to lead Israel? What's up with Zipporah flinging foreskin? And what does circumcision have to do with salvation, the gospel, or the kingdom of God? With a mix of wild banter and deeply theological reflection, the boys dive headfirst into what might be the most NSFW covenant moment in scripture.

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Should I Listen?
If you’ve ever felt confused reading the Old Testament—or if you’ve wondered whether God’s judgment and mercy can really coexist—this episode is a must-listen. Expect irreverent humor, surprising gospel insights, and a fresh look at one of the Bible’s most bizarre stories.

Episode Highlights:

Reflections:

1. [00:01:45] - Let’s Get Dusty Intros: The boys kick off with over-the-top hot takes on circumcision to set the tone (and test the boundaries).
2. [00:07:30] - What’s Happening in Exodus 4: Moses is chosen… then nearly killed by God? The plot twist no Sabbath School flannelgraph ever covered.
3. [00:12:10] - Why Zipporah’s the Real MVP: She acts decisively while Moses wavers, mirroring how God’s people often get shown up by outsiders.
4. [00:22:45] - Echoes in Scripture: How Moses’ story parallels Israel’s—and ultimately points to Jesus.
5. [00:32:20] - Circumcision, Blood, and Covenant: Exploring the deep gospel symbolism and the meaning of judgment + mercy.
6. [00:42:55] - Modern Implications: What does it mean to walk in the Spirit and not the flesh? How does the cross change how we see commands like circumcision?

Memorable Quotes:

• "If your doctor missed a bit, you are going to die. Let’s get dusty."
• "Blood in scripture is not gross—it's protection. It’s covenant. It’s life."
• "Even Moses couldn’t lead without being covered by the blood."
• "The gospel doesn’t flatten us because we all suck—it lifts us because we’re all worth Jesus’ life."
• "Radical acceptance + hardline holiness = a shame-free, transformative church."

Resources Mentioned:

• Exodus 4:24-26
• Colossians 2:11-15
• Philippians 2:5-11
• Acts 10:34-35
• BibleProject’s take on Moses and covenant themes

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Summary:
Today, the Dusty Boys go full theology meets LAN party, starting with the bold claim that youth groups should host Diablo nights for biblical education (solid logic, right?). Things spiral quickly into a discussion about Saul, necromancy, hypocrisy, and whether or not consulting mediums is a viable last resort when God isn’t picking up your calls.

(P.S. This summary was written by a robot. Let's hope it doesn't lead to the Dusty Boys getting canceled.)

Should I Listen?
If you’ve ever wondered:

• Can video games be used for discipleship?
• Did Saul really summon Samuel or just get played by a demon?
• How do I know if God is calling me to persist or if I’m just being stubborn?
• Is my identity tied up in things God is trying to take away from me?

Then yes. You should definitely listen.

01:39 - Is Necromancy in Diablo Actually a Ministry?
We discuss how video games taught us more about raising the dead than any youth group ever did. Also, how many skeletons is too many?

03:26 - Saul: The Man, The Myth, The Disaster
A king, a mess, a cautionary tale. Why Saul was this close to getting it right but somehow managed to fumble the whole kingdom.

06:16 - When Google Won’t Answer, Find a Witch?
Saul doesn’t hear from God, so he does what any desperate man would—outlaws mediums, then immediately consults one.

19:04 - The Original “Ghost” Episode
Saul calls up the dearly departed Samuel, and things get awkward real fast.

19:34 - Is That Really Samuel?
A deep theological discussion (read: wild speculation) on whether the medium actually summoned Samuel or if Saul got catfished by a demon.

21:01 - When God Says No, But You’re Like... But What If Yes?
Saul’s whole life summed up: God has a plan, and Saul says, "Yeah, but what if I did the opposite?"

25:24 - So, What Did We Learn?
Lessons from Saul’s downfall, and a deeply existential crisis on whether we are, in fact, all just doing the same thing as him but with better PR.

Memorable Quotes:

• “If you come up from the ground upside down, you’re a demon. Let’s get dusty.”
• “Saul was basically like, ‘God’s not answering? Cool. Let me just break my own law real quick.’”
• “You can trust God, but also, you should hedge your bets—Saul’s whole mindset in one sentence.”
• “Dude, if you don’t trust God’s goodness, you’re going to end up in some wild places.”
• “God already told Saul what’s up. But instead of surrendering, he’s out here trying to change God’s mind like a kid negotiating bedtime.”
• “If I say ‘Let’s get dusty,’ it means it’s fake.”

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Summary:
Despite what your youth pastor may have told you, Genesis 38 is not a warning against self-abuse. This episode, we set the record straight about Onan, Judah, and Tamar—the pettiest, messiest, most scandalous family drama in the Bible. Along the way, we discuss AI-generated theology, the surprising connection between Corn Flakes and morality, and why righteousness isn’t about moral perfection.

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Should I Listen?

If you grew up hearing that certain sins would get you smitten by God, if you enjoy biblical deep dives with a side of absurdity, or if you’ve ever wondered why Jesus’ family tree looks like a soap opera—this one’s for you.

00:00 The Youth Group Lesson That Got It Wrong

01:51 AI Theology & The Transcendent Bunny

07:43 Biblical Interpretations and Misconceptions

15:01 Judah's Lineage and Cultural Norms

16:17 A Personal Anecdote on Family Expectations

19:47 Biblical Interpretations of Righteousness

31:43 Modern Reflections and Concluding Thoughts

Memorable Quotes:

• “If you Google ‘What does the Bible say about masturbation?’ this passage comes up… and it shouldn’t.”
• “God really looked at this absolute mess of a situation and said, ‘Yeah, I can work with that.’”
• “Tamar tricks her father-in-law, has his kids, and gets called righteous—let’s unpack that.”
• “Righteousness isn’t about following all the rules; it’s about being in the family of God.”
• “Corn Flakes were literally invented to kill the mood.”

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Summary:
What’s the proper number of cows to pay for a wife? No, seriously. Today, we’re diving into some of the most uncomfortable and misunderstood Old Testament laws about marriage, women’s rights, and the social customs of ancient Israel. If you’ve ever read Deuteronomy and thought, Wait, what?!, then buckle up. We’re getting dusty with biblical law, cultural context, and the tension between ancient norms and modern values.

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Should I Listen?
If you’ve ever struggled to make sense of those Old Testament passages—the ones that sound insane by today’s standards—this episode is for you. We unpack why God’s laws were actually shockingly progressive for their time and how they point to a deeper, redemptive story.

Episode Highlights:

00:00 Introduction and Nervous Anticipation
00:19 Controversial Topics and Awkward Moments
02:53 Dating and Marriage: Cultural Shifts
09:45 Biblical Laws and Cultural Context
27:36 Understanding God's Intentions
29:51 Parental Rules and Divine Guidance
31:58 Deuteronomy's Progressive Laws
35:52 Applying Biblical Principles Today

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Summary:
In this episode, the Dusty Boys dive headfirst into one of the most misunderstood books of the Bible—Job. Why do bad things happen to good people? Does suffering mean God is punishing you? And why does God have a divine council where Satan gets a seat? This one’s got all the theological wrestling you could hope for. Plus, we learn that God’s chosen people are literally called "the wrestlers." You might just be on the team. Let’s get dusty.

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Should I Listen?

If you’ve ever wondered:

• Why the book of Job exists and what it actually teaches (spoiler: not what most people think).
• Whether suffering means you’ve sinned.
• If theology actually matters… or if we should all just stop reading our Bibles (kidding, but also, listen in).
• How God's wrestling team is the one team you actually want to be on.

Then yes, you should listen.

00:00 Dusty Takes
01:38 Exploring the Story of Job
03:29 Debating Job's Friends and Theological Insights
19:44 Understanding Paganism and Modern Beliefs
20:50 The Story of Job: Suffering and Divine Justice
22:58 Wrestling with God: The True Message of Job
27:21 Practical Takeaways and Reflections

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Welcome to Season 3 of the Dusty Boys Podcast! Kicking off the new year with a deep dive into one of the Bible's wildest Old Testament stories—Abraham and the near-sacrifice of Isaac. We reflect on cultural contrasts, the purpose of divine testing, and even clandestine Jesuit activity accusations (yes, really). It's a chaotic blend of humor, deep theology, and raw honesty as we unpack what it means to trust God in the messiest of moments.

(P.S. We didn't sacrifice our kids to make this episode, but it got close.)

Should I Listen?

If you're curious about:

• Why God asked Abraham to sacrifice Isaac (and what it really meant).
• How cultural norms of child sacrifice contrast with God’s goodness.
• The true meaning of "divine testing" (hint: it’s not what you think).
• Plus: Jesuit conspiracy theories and family life updates.

Then yes, this episode is for you.

Episode Highlights:

Reflections:

• [0:03] - Opening chaos: Sarcasm and bizarre hypothetical podcast topics—including "childhood trauma as a gift" and "clandestine Jesuit activities."
• [9:42] - The big question: Why did God test Abraham? Exploring the cultural and theological context of Genesis 22.
• [23:10] - Jehovah Jireh revealed: God as the ultimate provider, showing Abraham’s faith and trust in divine goodness.
• [34:00] - The contrast lesson: How Abraham’s story reveals God’s character through contrast with ancient cultural norms of sacrifice.
• [45:50] - Life application: Tests in scripture are not about "pass or fail" but about deepening trust in who God is.
  
  Memorable Quotes:
  • "On today's episode of the Dusty Boys podcast, we're talking about how schizophrenia is a fruit of the Spirit. Let's get dusty."
  • "God isn’t like the gods of the Old Testament world. He doesn’t demand your child. He gives His."
  • "This is what we do in the business, called foreshadowing."
  • "What happens if Isaac was like, ‘Hey, Dad, remember that time you almost killed me? Just don’t tell Mom.’"
  • ""Abraham's walk back home with Isaac must have been the most awkward silence in biblical history.""

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Summary: On today’s episode of Dusty Boys, we get into the wilder side of conspiracy theories, Jesuit tales, and that time we heard they sank the Titanic. If you think your high school was full of strange teachings, wait until you hear about the “Jesuit Hunter” and what he had to say. But as always, we’re flipping this into something deeper, connecting a strange parable about a dishonest manager with our views on wealth, integrity, and the lengths people will go to justify their actions. We might even answer the burning question: did Jesus want us to be shrewd with our money?

(P.S. This summary was written by a robot. Let's hope it doesn’t lead to the Dusty Boys getting canceled.)

Should I Listen? Yes, if you’ve ever wondered about the true meaning behind Jesus’ parable of the dishonest manager or if you’re intrigued by strange tales that somehow tie back to the gospel. Whether you’re here for laughs or deep thoughts, this one covers both.

Episode Highlights:

1. Reflections:
   • [03:24] - The Jesuit Conspiracy - Hear about the time our teachers warned us about Jesuits and why that might not mean what you think.
   • [21:55] - Dishonest Manager or Genius? - We dig into the parable in Luke 16 and question whether Jesus is commending shrewdness or teaching us something about sacrifice.
   • [38:40] - Mammon Explained - What Jesus might really mean when he talks about “unrighteous wealth” and how it applies to us today.
2. Conversations:
   • [46:10] - The Real Treasure - Justin shares a story about using money in ways that build relationships, even if it costs you in the short term.
   • [53:22] - The OG Conspiracy Theory - Is Jesus the ultimate disruptor, and why would He want us to be “shrewd” in this world?

Memorable Quotes:

• “If you’ve got to use unrighteous wealth, do it to make friends who’ll welcome you into eternity.”
• “The biggest conspiracy is thinking you can keep money and relationships separate. Jesus says it doesn’t work like that.”
• “God was willing to get dusty, so what’s stopping us?”

Resources Mentioned:

• Free book on transformation, “Free From Sin,” at learn.lovereality.org - Use code Dusty for the audiobook bundle.

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