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E17 Finding Balance in Emotions: Regulating Your Emotional Flexibility and Rigidity
Host: Christopher L. Camp, M.D., Creator & Guide | Mayo Clinic Human Optimization Project
Guest: Chris Stephenson, M.D., M.H.P.E., M.S., Internal Medicine Physician, General Internal Medicine, Vice Chair of Practice | Mayo Clinic – Rochester, MN
Our emotions drive so much of what we think, say, and do. For many of us, our emotions are in the driver’s seat, and we often feel like we are just along for the ride. However, given how important emotional regulation is to our productivity, relationships, and joy, it truly is in our best interest to take control over our emotions and understand them in a more thoughtful way. Specifically, we need to learn how we can use our emotions to help us stay flexible and keep up with the rapidly changing world around us. To help us with this issue, our expert guest today is Dr. Chris Stephenson, the Vice Chair of Practice for Internal Medicine at Mayo Clinic.
The three big questions we have for Chris include:
How to start a Mayo Clinic Human Optimization Project “Pod-Club”:
Step 1: Find 2-30 friends who want to get better
Step 2: Choose your episodes (can be focused on specific themes or random)
Step 3: Listen to/watch the episodes
Step 4: Meet with your group to work through the provided discussion questions in the PDF for each episode, and feel free to add your own!
Step 5: Celebrate the fact that you are turning passive knowledge into action!
Discussion Questions for this Episode:
Dr. Stephenson defines emotional flexibility as the ability to regulate and respond to emotions based on context, values, and goals. Think about a recent situation where you felt emotionally rigid. How might emotional flexibility have changed the outcome?
Consider three healthy strategies for emotional regulation discussed in this episode: 1) acceptance, 2) reflectivity, and 3) reframing. Which of these strategies do you find most challenging to implement? What is one small thing you can do to improve or consistently practice that strategy?
Three maladaptive strategies discussed in this episode include 1) ruminating, 2) minimizing/ignoring, and 3) rigid thinking. Which of these do you notice yourself doing when dealing with difficult emotions? How might you begin to redirect your thinking in these moments?
Dr. Stephenson introduces the concept of "top-down" (cognitive) and "bottom-up" (physiological) strategies for managing emotional triggers. Consider a recent moment when you felt overwhelmed by strong emotions. Which of these strategies did you use or would you use in a similar moment in the future?
The discussion touches on the challenge of maintaining emotional flexibility within a hierarchy, especially when external constraints conflict with our personal values. What role do your core values play in determining when to be flexible versus when to stand firm?
Everyone has emotions. As discussed in this episode, suppressing them is maladaptive. If you tend to minimize your emotions or believe you're "not that emotional," what are some subtle signs in your life (e.g., stress, burnout, physical symptoms) that might indicate buried feelings?
Dr. Stephenson states that emotional flexibility is a skill that can be learned and improved with practice. What's one specific area of emotional flexibility you'd like to work on? Find a podclub accountability partner and commit to practicing this area over the next week. Check in with one another to keep going!
"Mirror Neurons" describes how approaching conversations with curiosity can foster trust and understanding. How might intentionally activating your "Mirror Neurons" by showing genuine curiosity change the dynamic of a challenging conversation you anticipate having? Practice doing that during this discussion with your pod club.
Connect with us! Learn more about the Human Optimization Project at: https://ce.mayo.edu/optimize
X: @MayoHumanOpProj
Instagram: @MayoHumanOpProj
YouTube: The Human Optimization Project - YouTube
Email: [email protected]
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Host: Christopher L. Camp, M.D., Creator & Guide | Mayo Clinic Human Optimization Project
Guest: Chris Stephenson, M.D., M.H.P.E., M.S., Internal Medicine Physician, General Internal Medicine, Vice Chair of Practice | Mayo Clinic – Rochester, MN
Our emotions drive so much of what we think, say, and do. For many of us, our emotions are in the driver’s seat, and we often feel like we are just along for the ride. However, given how important emotional regulation is to our productivity, relationships, and joy, it truly is in our best interest to take control over our emotions and understand them in a more thoughtful way. Specifically, we need to learn how we can use our emotions to help us stay flexible and keep up with the rapidly changing world around us. To help us with this issue, our expert guest today is Dr. Chris Stephenson, the Vice Chair of Practice for Internal Medicine at Mayo Clinic.
The three big questions we have for Chris include:
How to start a Mayo Clinic Human Optimization Project “Pod-Club”:
Step 1: Find 2-30 friends who want to get better
Step 2: Choose your episodes (can be focused on specific themes or random)
Step 3: Listen to/watch the episodes
Step 4: Meet with your group to work through the provided discussion questions in the PDF for each episode, and feel free to add your own!
Step 5: Celebrate the fact that you are turning passive knowledge into action!
Discussion Questions for this Episode:
Dr. Stephenson defines emotional flexibility as the ability to regulate and respond to emotions based on context, values, and goals. Think about a recent situation where you felt emotionally rigid. How might emotional flexibility have changed the outcome?
Consider three healthy strategies for emotional regulation discussed in this episode: 1) acceptance, 2) reflectivity, and 3) reframing. Which of these strategies do you find most challenging to implement? What is one small thing you can do to improve or consistently practice that strategy?
Three maladaptive strategies discussed in this episode include 1) ruminating, 2) minimizing/ignoring, and 3) rigid thinking. Which of these do you notice yourself doing when dealing with difficult emotions? How might you begin to redirect your thinking in these moments?
Dr. Stephenson introduces the concept of "top-down" (cognitive) and "bottom-up" (physiological) strategies for managing emotional triggers. Consider a recent moment when you felt overwhelmed by strong emotions. Which of these strategies did you use or would you use in a similar moment in the future?
The discussion touches on the challenge of maintaining emotional flexibility within a hierarchy, especially when external constraints conflict with our personal values. What role do your core values play in determining when to be flexible versus when to stand firm?
Everyone has emotions. As discussed in this episode, suppressing them is maladaptive. If you tend to minimize your emotions or believe you're "not that emotional," what are some subtle signs in your life (e.g., stress, burnout, physical symptoms) that might indicate buried feelings?
Dr. Stephenson states that emotional flexibility is a skill that can be learned and improved with practice. What's one specific area of emotional flexibility you'd like to work on? Find a podclub accountability partner and commit to practicing this area over the next week. Check in with one another to keep going!
"Mirror Neurons" describes how approaching conversations with curiosity can foster trust and understanding. How might intentionally activating your "Mirror Neurons" by showing genuine curiosity change the dynamic of a challenging conversation you anticipate having? Practice doing that during this discussion with your pod club.
Connect with us! Learn more about the Human Optimization Project at: https://ce.mayo.edu/optimize
X: @MayoHumanOpProj
Instagram: @MayoHumanOpProj
YouTube: The Human Optimization Project - YouTube
Email: [email protected]
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