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December 04, 2015 Quantum Realities And Healing From Narcissistic Abuse - Part 1
This is the first of a two part series regarding the Quantum Model and how it works in regard to healing from narcissistic abuse.
I have been talking a lot lately on YouTube about this topic and people have been asking for a deeper conversation about it.
In this radio show you will learn about what “going Quantum” means, and how we can change our “consciousness” to have the power to change ourselves and our lives.
By sharing this series I know this will grant you the opportunity to revolutionize your life.
If you have any questions or comments please join the conversation with us on the blog: http://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/quantum-realities-and-healing-from-narcissistic-abuse-part-1
41 min
November 27, 2015 Thriving After Narcissistic Abuse Story #29 Premi
Today’s Thriver Show is about Prima, a lady who went through a highly abusive narcissistic marriage that had her eventually fleeing, fearful for her life.
He had threatened that if she ever left him he would kill her.
Now today Prima has not only recovered herself, her emotions and her life, but she was also recently awarded full legal custody of her two daughters.
This occurred despite being initially terrified for her and her daughters that he would charm the courts and no-one would believe her.
But one day something completely changed, and what unfolded was nothing short of a miracle.
Find out all about this incredible story in today’s Thriver Show.
If you have any questions or comments for myelf or Premi please join us over at the blog: http://blog.melanietoniaevans.com
1 hr 22 min
November 13, 2015 Clarifying No Contact - The Common Pitfalls That Keep Us Hooked
Anyone that has experienced narcissistic abuse, knows the feeling like black ink and ice running through your veins, when enmeshed with a narcissist.
If you don’t achieve No Contact it is like being continually poisoned whilst trying to detox from the poison that is making you so sick. It’s very, very difficult to get well when you are constantly tied up in the battle of trying to survive the onslaughts of narcissistic abuse.
Sadly, no contact is often misunderstood, and even when you having “physically” broken contact, there still could be other ties that are unknowingly stunting your ability to recover and get well.
So ... I wanted to clarify exactly what No Contact means and address the common mistakes, to ensure you are not still tied to the narcissist in any way. This allows you to move forward in your recovery, transcend from the cycle of abuse and ultimately Thrive.
Have a question? Share it on our blog: http://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/clarifying-no-contact-the-common-pitfalls-that-keep-us-hooked
32 min
November 13, 2015 Clarifying No Contact - The Common Pitfalls That Keep Us Hooked
No Contact is probably the biggest buzz word in narcissistic abuse recovery, and that’s really no surprise because it’s widely acknowledged that No Contact from a narcissist is vital in order to recover from one.
Anyone that has experienced narcissistic abuse, knows the feeling like black ink and ice running through your veins, when enmeshed with a narcissist.
If you don’t achieve No Contact it is like being continually poisoned whilst trying to detox from the poison that is making you so sick. It’s very, very difficult to get well when you are constantly tied up in the battle of trying to survive the onslaughts of narcissistic abuse.
Sadly, no contact is often misunderstood, and even when you having “physically” broken contact, there still could be other ties that are unknowingly stunting your ability to recover and get well.
So ... I wanted to clarify exactly what No Contact means and address the common mistakes, to ensure you are not still tied to the narcissist in any way. This allows you to move forward in your recovery, transcend from the cycle of abuse and ultimately Thrive.
Visit the blog to share your comments: http://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/clarifying-no-contact-the-common-pitfalls-that-keep-us-hooked
17 min
November 06, 2015 How We Become Better Parents As We Heal
So many parents try to fix and help their children deal with narcissistic abuse, but don’t realise that operating from a tormented, agonised emotional state truly makes matters worse. It grants the narcissist more bullets to shoot you with and incites them to use your children as weapons of war.
Making it the highest priority to heal ourselves and lead the way for our children, not only helps diffuse situations with the narcissist, it also grants our children the best emotional platform to earn how to be self-partnered and self-generative and evolve and grow through the situation – profoundly.
35 min
October 29, 2015 What To Do When Your Family And Friends Don’t Support You
There are many things that are excruciatingly difficult when suffering from narcissistic abuse.
One of them commonly being that people close to you seem to have no understanding of the soul rape that you are going through. Often adding insult to injury, people close to you might believe that you are the person who is disturbed and not well, and even making stuff up …
Because the accusations you make seem so far away from the “perfect” model person that they portray to everyone else.
It has been said before – and it is very true – that narcissist’s have the ability to be street angels/ home devils – and can be very capable of consummate acting that has people turning against you and siding with them.
All of this only adds to your feelings of aloneness, not being supported and desperately trying to get people to understand and help you with what you are going through.
And despite all your desperate pleas to people to “get” what is happening to you, the more you appeal to them, the less people get it.
Let’s face it, narcissists are masters of deception and it could be some time before your friends and family see him/her for what they really are.
We have no control over this, but we do have control over one thing …
Ourselves.
Once you stop trying to make other people understand, you will realise that you have the ability to provide yourself with all the love, support and encouragement you need to get through this.
And when you do, you won’t even be concerned if people “get it” or not.
29 min
October 23, 2015 Why Won't The Narcissist Leave Me Alone?
It can seem that narcissists are relentless, and they will not let up abusing, tormenting and punishing you.
Many people ask, “How can I stop this happening?” There is no “practical” answer to this, because the narcissist leaving you alone actually has nothing to do with the narcissist, and has everything to do with you.
It’s in no way dependent on who the narcissist is and what the narcissist is or isn’t doing. By listening to this radio show you will understand why.
To join me in my next free live tele class please go here: http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar
28 min
October 16, 2015 Thriving After Narcissistic Abuse #28 Mike And Catsby
Mike and Catsby are not only in a relationship – they are in a connected, expansive relationship which I call an “evolutionary relationship”.
Meaning a soul-mate relationship – one where once we have mated our own soul – a true soul mate can enter our life.
This is the ultimate goal of love relationship, and Mike and Catsby share intimately how to achieve it.
How, by reaching a certain level of love and connection within yourself, this radiates out into the world and creates the physical manifestation of that love.
The showing up of a partner – who with together you can share and generate ease, trust, authenticity and continual positive growth and expansion with.
To join Mike and Catsby and become a part of the NARP family go here for the details: www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp
Show notes:
Altruistic narcissist article: http://blog.mel
1 hr 5 min
October 02, 2015 When Is It Safe To Date After Narcissistic Abuse? Part 2
In Part One of this series we were looking at the essentials of self-partnering, as well as the understanding that we will always attract, be attracted to and accept the people who match our own levels of self-love.
When we start to understand that people don’t treat us the way we profess to treat others, but rather identical to the ways we treat and feel about ourselves – we know that an “outer” relationship can never give us ourselves; all it can ever do is reflect back more of the authentic love we already are or aren’t being.
This radio show, Part 2, is a deep exploration into “how we show up” whilst dating, and the differences between someone who is self-partnered in their body and someone who isn’t. If you truly wish to get to a place of radiant safety, and the absolute permission to love and be yourself, and have a special other meet you at that level – then please listen to this radio show.
33 min
September 25, 2015 When Is It Safe To Date After Narcissistic Abuse? Part 1
Do you feel like it's time to start dating again but you are worried and confused about how to choose someone that's right for you?
You may be struggling to trust others, and you may have lost your ability to put yourself out there in a comfortable and confident way.
Dating again after narcissistic abuse can be a minefield of confusion and pain if you decide to date too early. You must accept that fact that narcissistic abuse isn’t like a normal relationship breakdown in that there is many things you need to work on before it’s safe to put yourself back into the dating game.
In this show I’m going to share exactly when it’s safe to date again and how you can get there.
35 min

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Melanie Tonia Evans is an author, radio host, relationship and dating expert and coach. She’s the author of the books Breaking the Chains of Painful Love and Take Back Your Power. Melanie’s work resulted from her own nearly fatal experiences with narcissistic abuse, co-dependency and relationship addiction. Melanie is now a world expert on empowering women and healing painful love. Her deep core writing, teaching, coaching and healings are now liberating women world wide to stand up and take back their power in order to create a life of deservedness whereby they can attract and sustain genuine and healthy love relationships.