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September 11, 2015 Is It Possible To Truly Love A Narcissist?
Loving a narcissist is one of the most traumatic experiences anyone could ever go through. But was it ever really true love?
It’s so common to feel the agonising, pain, frustration and loss of “I gave this person so much love and this is how they treated me.”
This show is deep dive into the truth about Love, what healthy Love is and isn’t – and the real deal about how our levels of “love” were playing out in narcissistic relationships.
If you would like to discover the truth about how we can connect to and experience true Soul Mate relationships, that are nothing like our past narcissistic love experiences, please listen in to this episode of Empowered Love.
39 min
September 04, 2015 The Soul Contract With A Narcissist
If this is the case, potentially this would change everything about the way we view these relationships. It could also have a profound effect on how we recover from them.
This year, I had an experience that not only confirmed to me that the two narcissists in my life were Soul Contracts, but also shocked and stunned me regarding exactly “how” that came into being and “what” it was really about.
Nothing about my previous spiritual or self-development training could have prepared me for this!
In this episode you will not only learn what that was all about, but also deeply recognise in your own journey the reason why we have Soul Contracts with narcissists.
To join me in my next free live 3 hours tele class please go to: http://www.melanietoniaevans.com/thankyou-step2.html
41 min
August 14, 2015 The Real Reason Why The Narcissist Punishes You
What are the real reasons why a narcissist punishes us? Why are we tapped in abuse with a person like this, and why we can’t seem to let go, move on or heal beyond our suffering.
What are the REAL reasons why we still feel like we love this person? Why do we hang in there making all the justification and excuses whilst paying a terrible price trying to make the relationship work regardless of their horrendous abuse?
You will find out exactly why in this radio show.
To see the transcript of this show please go to blog.melanietoniaevans.com
If you would like to become a part of my free New Life Community and receive regular updates, radio shows and articles as well as 2 free eBooks and a 16 Day free recovery guide, please go to www.melanietoniaevans.com/getstarted
35 min
August 07, 2015 Healing From Narcissistic Abuse: Coming Home To Our Bodies
Why it is vital to come home to inside our bodies in order to heal after narcissistic abuse?
In this radio show you will learn all about how we originally got disconnected from “being with ourselves” and what that looks like, how it plays out and how it feels.
Maybe we think connecting with our bodies is about eating healthily, or exercising and respecting our physical being. Many of us did not realise that “body-awareness” relates to every aspect of our emotional life – our relationship with ourselves, others and our Higher Power.
Until narcissistic abuse most of us had no idea that we weren’t self-partnered, let alone the deadly price of not being self-partnered.
This is a deep journey into the Body Connection; the understanding of what it is, and how to do it.
1 hr 8 min
July 31, 2015 Thriving After Narcissistic Abuse No #27 - Val
I'm very excited to bring you this Thriver Story about a woman named Val.
Many narcissistic relationships include episodes of rage. However, some narcissists are notorious for these episodes and constant mood swings.
If you have been a relationship with a narcissistic rager you will relate to:
Feeling like you can't do anything right because the slightest perceived error will result in a barrage of rage.
Living in constant fear of what they might do - especially after breaking away from the relationship.
Feeling like it's all your fault and being blamed for the rage episodes.
Another extremely painful thing that Val went through was bringing up two children with the narcissist.
The psychological and physical affects that children get put through when they are in constant fear of a parent is horrendous.
If you relate to any of these experiences you are going to find this show incredibly inspiring. I'd love you to listen to the show (by clicking the player above) or reading the show notes. You will learn how Val was able to do some pretty incredible things throughout her recovery like ...
Release all of her fear and anxiety regarding what the narcissist may do, and as a result he became distant and no longer affects her.
Heal the trauma her children suffered and Val is now watching them grow into amazing young adults.
Gain full custody of her kids, when the default parenting arrangement in her state was 50/50 custody.
Rebuild her career and start a business after being out of the job market for 20 years.
It truly fills my heart with joy to share with you another amazing Thriver story with you!
To sign up for my Free Get Started Recovery Pack - please go to www.melanietoniaevans.com/getstarted
For the transcript of this show please see: blog.melanietoniaevans.co
2 min
July 24, 2015 Narcissistic Abuse: The 5 Victim Illusions
This radio show is a follow-on show from last week. Many people contacted me about last week’s show as well as asked questions.
This show is a deep look into those questions through the journey of the “5 Victim Illusions”.
It is my greatest desire that this radio show helps you release illusions which have been taking you away from healing and not toward it, as well as granting you access to understandings that will transcend your life capacity way beyond abuse.
To see the transcript of this show please go to blog.melanietoniaevans.com
If you would like to become a part of my free New Life Community and receive regular updates, radio shows and articles as well as 2 free eBooks and a 16 Day free recovery guide, please go to www.melanietoniaevans.com/getstarted
53 min
July 17, 2015 The Difference Between Victimisation And Thriving After Narcissistic Abuse
A little over a week ago I had an awakening within me that was so powerful there was no ignoring it, and it’s this awakening that motivated me to create this radio show.
We know that narcissists operate from unconsciousness; their True Self has been eradicated and has been replaced by an Egoic Self that is never satisfied.
But it isn’t just narcissists who operate from unconsciousness …
In this article I want to explore how narcissists bring unconsciousness to the surface – granting us a choice...
To either stay unconscious and victimized.
Or to raise our consciousness and Thrive.
I'm really excited about this radio show, and I hope it shines a light on the truth of this issue which sadly is non-existent in most abuse recovery channels.
Because I truly believe it's time to change that.
You can read the transcript to this radio show on my blog at blog.melanietoniaevans.com
Please know, if you haven't already, you may sign up to my free New Life Community, where you will receive 2 free eBooks, and an email series called "16 Days To Your New life", and much, much more.
To do so, go to www.melanietoniaevans.com/getstarted
56 min
July 03, 2015 Divorcing A Narcissist - Part Two
There really is no wonder that divorcing a narcissist takes the level of trauma of divorce to an unprecedented level – when we consider things such as: the cruel discards and replacing with new partners, new partners attacking you as well as the narcissist, battling over custody and property and the financial losses that generally happen as a result of the relationship, and whilst dealing with legal systems and narcissists in general.
Personally, divorcing my ex narcissist was the most excruciating experience I have ever gone through, and my heart truly goes out to you if this is your current experience.
I spent a long time this week completing part two of this series ... as I know exactly how painful going through a divorce can be, and how difficult it is to feel that you will survive this and be able to rebuild your life ... when you are reeling in the agony.
I hope this article gives you the insight you need, to overcome this challenge and truly break free to begin your new life.
A life free of abuse ...
To read the transcript of this show, find out more about the Narcissisic Abuse Recovery Program, and also my free upcoming Webinars - please go to blog.melanietoniaevans.com
51 min
June 26, 2015 How To Divorce A Narcissist Part 1
I think we would all agree that divorce is one of the most excruciating things anyone can go through.
Psychologists Thomas Holmes and Richard Rahe in 1967 created a list of the top 43 most stressful life events. Divorce rated the second most stressful, only capped by death of a spouse.
That describes a normal divorce.
But what about divorcing a narcissist?
THAT takes the stress to a whole new level.
In this 2 part series I will be covering many aspects of divorcing a narcissist including how to emotionally prepare and accept that the marriage is over, how to get out safetly and then the next steps you need to take to recover from this experience and grow from it.
Please know, if you haven't already, you may sign up to my free New Life Community, where you will receive 2 free eBooks, and an email series called "16 Days To Your New life", and much, much more.
To do so, go to www.melanietoniaevans.com/getstarted
**Please note - to receive your free resources you will have to open the confirmation email and confirm - so make sure you remember to do that‏.
Also, I'm the creator of the narcissistic abuse recovery program which has humbly helped thousands of people from over 50 different countries recover and empower their life after narcissistic abuse.
To find out more go to www.melanietoniaevans.com/narp
37 min
June 19, 2015 Being The Scapegoat And Trying Everything To Get Approval [Thriver Story #25]
I’m really excited because today I have another incredible Thriver story.
If you were abused as a child, by a parent or family member, you are especially going to want to make some time to listen to this story.
It’s pretty incredible!
This story is about a Cindy, a wonderful woman within our NARP community and is also a moderator in the NARP forum (Like Phil who I had on the show a few weeks ago).
Cindy grew up in dairy farm in Wisconsin with foster parents. Her mother was the narcissist and her father was the co-dependent enabler.
She spent her youth growing up trying to win her Mother’s approval and inevitably became the scapegoat of the family.
If you grew up with a narcissist in your family you will definitely relate to:
Being told you will never amount to anything and trying countless things to win their approval.
Being manipulated by shame, guilt, gaslighting and emotional blackmail.
And the vicious events of rage that escalated throughout your youth.
If you are not yet a member of NARP I would like to invite you to take part in my next Webinar - The 3 Keys To Thriving After Narcissistic Abuse which is taking place next week.
Click here to reserve your space for this event.
Or if you are someone who is had enough of the pain and want to start getting your life back on track starting now...
Click here to find all the information on how to join NARP.
1 hr 8 min

About Empowered Love Radio

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Melanie Tonia Evans is an author, radio host, relationship and dating expert and coach. She’s the author of the books Breaking the Chains of Painful Love and Take Back Your Power. Melanie’s work resulted from her own nearly fatal experiences with narcissistic abuse, co-dependency and relationship addiction. Melanie is now a world expert on empowering women and healing painful love. Her deep core writing, teaching, coaching and healings are now liberating women world wide to stand up and take back their power in order to create a life of deservedness whereby they can attract and sustain genuine and healthy love relationships.