I went on a date this week where I felt a bit like an escort - not that there was anything sexually implied, nor was any money exchanged, but there was definitely an exchange. He was on business and wanted company for dinner (and nothing more), I had nothing better to do and wanted to go on a date with someone intelligent and attractive - and he was both. We had an amazing evening, scintillating conversation, and an abundance of fun. And that was the end of that. I'll never see him again and I'm sure we will both go on to lead wonderful and fulfilling lives. It made me think about escorts and people who do this for a living. There are so many lonely people in the world, and imagine if they could just have someone join them for dinner and a wonderful date and there was no catch to it. But the question remains, could you date an escort?

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Tis the season of tindering, and I know you have all been waiting for a live tinder session. So here it is, as well as all the juicy discussions that go with it!

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You know one thing that never changes about us as we get older... we love playing with toys! And by toys, I mean hot, delicious, beautiful people, men, women, whatever you fancy. Today we talk about hooking up for fun and the double standard, women making the first move, split personalities, dating around the world, serial daters, and how many trophies we have been collecting in our game play. The game of life that is.

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Many of us have been guilty of being a side chick, or side chicken (is that the term for a man? haha). It's interesting to note the difference of going into that situation knowingly vs surprise, I'm in a relationship. Furthermore, what about those people who want to take their side hustle and make it a permanent gig? And where does the bro code fit into all this? Hmm... listen to find out!

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Let's go down the fast lane, the highway you might say, the highway of dating...and guess what, you need to stay in your lane? We speak about stalkers, women's safety, recognizing red flags, the height debate (again!) knowing who you are and what you're looking for, dating for financial gain, the give and takes of dating.... and it all comes full circle to guys over 6 feet tall.

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Remembrance Day is all about... well... remembering. So today, Mr. Red and I talk about people in our past that remember and think about. Great dates, romances, and lovers, and wishing them well wherever they are today. We also talk about international dating and the positive elements of a holiday romance, something we have both dabbled in. Finally, we consider nicknames and the best and worst of the ones we have come up with for our special peoples!

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Oh my ghoul-ness, I love halloween! It is my absolute favourite holiday of the year and I always dress to impress. Some girls go cute, some go scary, and some make those sexual fantasies come true, with their outfits at least - I'm that girl. This halloween I was celebrating in London and the ghosts of my past all came to join me. I saw Mister D (go listen to the previous episodes about him, there are 2), there was beard (I've been talking about him since the podcast started) and there was the baby daddy...genuinely don't remember if I've discussed him. Anways, there are lots of boos as Mr Red and I discuss my Nightmare on Elm Street. This year was more tricks than treats.

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Shall we discuss the infamous Red Table Talk that is hosted by Jada Pinkett Smith and her daughter and mother? This episode really stood out to us as it intimately discusses her and Will's sex life and we both have very strong opinions about it. We cover reading minds when it comes to sex, what we like and don't like in bed, sexual preferences, when to have the 'talk', how we rank sex and its importance, what we find attractive, a doer vs a giver, and of course, how these all impact us as a man and a woman.

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Today we are discussing the intricacies of the internet, joined by the wonderful and thought-provoking, Mr. Red. We look at internet dating amongst men and women. What happens in the early days, why there is so much sexual context, return on investment, trial and errors, motives, post nut clarity, sending dik pics, bums or boobs, body dysmorphia, age limitations, pornography, anonymity on the internet, internet friendships, and the rules for kids on the internet.

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Another exciting episode with my friend Mr Red, we dig into an array of topics including: Condescending conversations, closure, the crazies, making friends off dating sites, male and female friendships, why getting ghosted hurts, drinking and driving, socializing alone, RBF (if you know you know), and how our decisions impact our dating life!

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