In this episode of the Coffee Break Podcast, I sit down with the ever-inspiring Dr. Joy Parchment, Assistant Professor at the University of Central Florida College of Nursing and one of the most respected nurse leaders I know.

Joy and I talk about what it really takes to develop capable executive leaders — the kind who not only drive outcomes but also build strong, trusting relationships with their teams. We unpack the difference between “command and control” leadership and relational leadership, how to handle conflict with curiosity, and why self-awareness is the foundation for leading well.

This is an honest, heart-centered conversation about leadership, humanity, and the power of relationships. If you’ve ever felt the pressure to have all the answers or struggled to stay calm in the storm, this episode will remind you that the best leaders don’t lead from perfection — they lead from awareness and authenticity.

About Dr. Joy Parchment

Joy Parchment, PhD, RN, NEA-BC, CPDC, ACC, is an accomplished nurse leader, educator, and coach with over 35 years of diverse nursing experience. She serves as an Assistant Professor at the University of Central Florida College of Nursing and is a Commissioner on the ANCC Commission on Magnet®. Joy is deeply committed to helping nurse leaders grow their capacity to lead with confidence, compassion, and courage.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

Why building relationships is the foundation of effective leadership

The power of curiosity over judgment when managing conflict

How to recognize and manage your triggers as a leader

Simple tools to help you stay intentional and grounded

How self-talk shapes leadership mindset — and how to shift it

Links & Resources

Connect with Dr. Joy Parchment on LinkedIn.

Email Joy: [email protected]

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