Let's be honest, relationships can be tough. Add the challenges of a high-stress job like lawenforcement, and things can get even more complicated. If you've ever had a disagreement where your officer partner seemed togo into "work mode"—commanding, controlling, and all business—you're not alone. And officers, maybe you've found yourself looking back on an argument wondering why you acted like you were on duty instead of at home. This is what'scalled **authoritarian spillover**, and it's something many law enforcement couples face.

Let's break it down, talk about the challenges it creates, and explore some ways to handle it together.