In this conversation, Jay Holland, Ed Uszynski, and Brian Smith discuss the complexities of youth sports culture, emphasizing the need for a shift in perspective among parents and coaches. They explore the concept of the 'youth sports industrial complex,' the impact of parental influence, and the importance of character development in sports. The discussion highlights the detrimental effects of snowplow parenting and the need for intentional discipleship opportunities within the youth sports experience.

In this conversation, the speakers discuss the importance of instilling gratitude and character in youth sports, contrasting the focus on competition and statistics with the value of personal growth and relationships. They emphasize the need for parents to support their children in a balanced way, encouraging them to appreciate the joy of sports while also recognizing the pressures of year-round competition and early specialization. The discussion culminates in a vision for families to engage in sports as a means of discipleship and community building.

Takeaways

• The youth sports industrial complex is a billion-dollar industry.

• Parents need to be the first to be discipled in sports culture.

• Character development in sports is influenced by the adults involved.

• Snowplow parenting inhibits children's ability to think independently.

• Winning is often prioritized over character in youth sports.

• Discipleship opportunities arise from observing sports interactions.

• Parents should teach their kids to notice others in sports.

• The culture of sports can shape our values and beliefs.

• Coaches have a significant impact on children's development.

• We need to reform our thinking about youth sports. Training kids to thank referees and spectators is vital.

• The GOAT debate highlights character over statistics.

• Living with gratitude leads to a more joyful life.

• Pursuing excellence doesn't mean sacrificing compassion.

• Recognizing marginalized teammates fosters inclusivity.

• Year-round competition is not necessary for success.

• Early specialization can be detrimental to athletes.

• Parents should focus on enjoying the game with their kids.

• Remove anxiety from the sports experience for children.

• Sports can be a platform for discipleship and community.

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Bio

About Brian Smith 

Brian Smith is the author of several books including his latest Away Game: A Christian Parent’s Guide to Navigating Youth Sports and The Christian Athlete: Glorifying God in Sports. He has been on staff with Athletes in Action since 2008. A graduate of Wake Forest University, Brian has a master’s degree in Theology and Sports Studies through Baylor University. He lives in Lowell, Michigan, with his wife and three kids. 

Social Media: 

Website: www.thechristianathlete.com

Twitter: @BrianSmithAIA

Instagram: @brianlinsey

About Ed Uszynski 

Ed Uszynski is an author, speaker, and sports minister with over three decades’ experience discipling college and professional athletes. His latest book is Away Game: A Christian Parent’s Guide to Navigating Youth Sports. He’s written articles, essays, and training manuals at the intersection of faith and sport and is the lead strategist for Content Mercenaries. He has two theological degrees from Trinity Evangelical Divinity School and a PhD in American Culture Studies from Bowling Green State University. He and his wife Amy have four children and live in Xenia, Ohio.

Social Media: 

Website: www.untanglingcrt.com

Twitter: @uszynski32

Facebook: @ed.uszynski.3

Resources mentioned:

Away Game: A Christian Parent’s Guide to Navigating Youth Sports: https://amzn.to/43QFoQI

Athletes in Action: https://athletesinaction.org/ 

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