The Becoming Whole After Betrayal Podcast

Ep. 55 Is It His Fault or Your Fault?


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If you're constantly spinning between blaming your husband for looking at porn and then turning around and blaming yourself for not being enough, you're trapped in a vicious cycle that's keeping you stuck. You know that exhausting mental ping-pong where you go from "He's ruining our marriage!" to "Maybe if I was prettier/better/different..." – and neither thought brings you any peace?


In this episode, I'm exposing the sneaky blame-shame trap that's secretly sabotaging your healing (hint: it has nothing to do with whose fault it actually is). I'll show you exactly how to break free from this destructive pattern and share the radical mindset shift that changed everything in my own marriage. Plus, I'm getting vulnerable about my own struggle with this just last night – because yes, even coaches get caught in this trap sometimes!


Resources mentioned:

  • Free training signup: https://thechristianbetrayalcoach.com/training-signup

  • Email for waitlist: [email protected]

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