Melanie Lockert, author of the book Dear Debt, shares how she finally made the critical mid shift from complete denial of her own $81,000 in student loan debt, to being obsessed about paying it off — and then got other people to face the financial music, too. In Mailbag, 403(b)s, the hidden allure of tag sales and the importance of saving automatically.

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